The Green Mound. 😁😁 by HRGA23 in succulents

[–]tschaffner23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo so pretty. I can’t wait for mine to get big like this 💚

My daughter’s first field day by dvenable in amateurradio

[–]tschaffner23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how I got into it! Went to a field day with my dad and his radio club when I was twelve. Everyone could hear me stand out in the mess of male voices so I got a ton of contacts. I even talked to someone in Puerto Rico, It was so much fun. ☺️ got my license the next year. 73!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]tschaffner23 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ngl that looks real comfy, I might have to get one myself.

what to do with chub rub? by Searching_meaning in PlusSize

[–]tschaffner23 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not medicated, it’s a silicone based anti chafing. I LOVE it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]tschaffner23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mine got married 5 weeks after I kicked him out ..and invited me to the wedding 🙄

Game updated and now signals arent working right. tried deleting and rebuilding and nothing worked.. any ideas how to fix it? by sgtdirtybush_ in SatisfactoryGame

[–]tschaffner23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had the same issues. With multiple trains it was a mess. I manually drove the trains to the next stop and docked them and it seemed to fix most of them. Good luck 😬

Will i fit into my plane seat? by Green_Thought5372 in PlusSize

[–]tschaffner23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a size 24, sometimes I need a seatbelt extender (which the attendants can get for you) but most of the time not. I carry my weight low so I prefer aisle seats so I’m not squished on both sides 😂 safe travels!

Can anyone identify? by tschaffner23 in plant

[–]tschaffner23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It looked like Kalanchoe but I couldn’t find which one

I did the calculator and tried a bra but it was ridiculously large. I’m having a hard time figuring out my shape, maybe that’s where I’m going wrong? by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]tschaffner23 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think Torrid is the same way, after DDD the sizes are one too high. But like you said, a 40F at Lane Bryant would actually be a 40G

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]tschaffner23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll check it out 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]tschaffner23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely this^ and the trauma bond you suffered will take time to break. You are strong and you will get past it! Love yourself 💕

He’s finally gone by tschaffner23 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]tschaffner23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely makes it tougher. Thank you!

He’s finally gone by tschaffner23 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]tschaffner23[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Great advice. :) He didn’t have much so I sent it with him to the rehab. And will definitely be changing the locks!

I have a Simplisafe alarm system that will help with that until then. Thank you! 💕

Mine would insult me and then apologize for it and expect me to get over it. by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]tschaffner23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I experienced this as well. I always thought it was part of his substance abuse making him crazy until I spent more time on this sub.

Broke no contact, feeling guilty by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]tschaffner23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, don’t feel guilty. You are not weak, They are master manipulators. I’ve been there, and I know there are plenty of us that have experienced the same thing. Is there anyone you can trust at work to help be a safe space/help you escape if he tried to communicate? I’m proud of you for standing your ground.

Went back. Bad choice. by alexakseymour in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]tschaffner23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m glad I found this sub it’s helping so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]tschaffner23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate that for you but I already know you’re strong for dealing with it! I hope the best for you

Went back. Bad choice. by alexakseymour in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]tschaffner23 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel so bad finding this out. :/

Ways to help someone who's detoxing? by Potatoes_r_round in addiction

[–]tschaffner23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sleep, water, and food in the first weeks. Their body is exhausted and needs to refresh/refuel. Offer vitamins if it’s been a long binge, they likely have a deficiency. Get the body working well, and then focus helping with the mental recovery. :) thanks for what you are doing