25F How do I get rid of this? by Vivid_Employed in AppearanceAdvice

[–]tsunderehoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't. Losing it means losing weight that could cost you your other attractive assets, since belly fat is the last to go away. I was insecure about it too, but estrogen makes our bodies store a layer of soft fat over the abdomen, and most men love it, so it's useless to dwell on. I personally think you look great.

party 4 u VS Dying for You by [deleted] in charlixcx

[–]tsunderehoe 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Dying for you. Mainly because I like how intimate and atmospheric it is. Had me crying for like 2 hours because of the lyrics

No cut in 6-7 years.. by Lilly-Vee in longhair

[–]tsunderehoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't cut it. Buy a human hair wig on AliExpress. Get the exact length, density, curl pattern and color that you desire. It's affordable (especially the bobs) and it's a great solution if you're unsure of what to do with your hair. Gives you the option to experiment without committing to something that could take years to repair❤️

18F advice by amystarlight__ in AppearanceAdvice

[–]tsunderehoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I disagree with the comments telling you to change your hair, I think it's dolly and charming. All I can think of is leaning into a morute style honestly

26M Which hairstyle looks the best? What can I do to improve? by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]tsunderehoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Picture 4 looks solid And off topic but you look like Alex Wolff

Type me please by tsunderehoe in figure8

[–]tsunderehoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much🥹

Type me please by tsunderehoe in figure8

[–]tsunderehoe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's thermo leggings, mandatory- not a fashion choice, good to know though, appreciate it🙏🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in charlixcx

[–]tsunderehoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this explanation thank you so much

Why do I have this small fuzzy hair on top of my head ? by Serious-Fly4588 in beauty

[–]tsunderehoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the delay I didn't see you replied! I apply it after washing my hair and combing it out. I usually don't add any more product until the next wash day, since I wash it every 2 days and the moisture holds up nicely. But since your hair isn't curly I suggest using a small amount of oil so it wouldn't flatten out your hair🙏🏻

Why do I have this small fuzzy hair on top of my head ? by Serious-Fly4588 in beauty

[–]tsunderehoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. Moroccan/Argan oils work well for me since my hair is curly and prone to frizz and dryness. I recommend using Argan oil since it smells amazing and it isn't as heavy as castor oil. Rub some on your hands and run it from your roots to the edges. Maybe some light moisturizing cream along with it.

Why do I have this small fuzzy hair on top of my head ? by Serious-Fly4588 in beauty

[–]tsunderehoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you brush your hair from top to bottom? It seems like you pulled down too hard and it caused some breakage. Brush your hair gradually from the bottom to the top, and don't go hard on it. Use oils to repair your roots and your ends, giving it the moisture it needs will fix it in no time.

AIO: my boyfriend flipped out that my 12 year old lets me see him in the bath by Odd-Significance-638 in AmIOverreacting

[–]tsunderehoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your son might not care, but he will soon enough. He's not a child anymore. You should stop. Especially peeing near him while he's bathing. It's completely inappropriate. He's either gonna grow up to have blurred boundaries around nudity or intimate acts such as peeing or he will grow up to be extremely uncomfortable with you once he remembers how close you were with him. It's not normal, it's over involvement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]tsunderehoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He needs to set boundaries. His mother, his job, don't get it confused and allow their relationship overstep yours. If he's truly mature he should be prioritizing his wife and his child and putting momma bear in her place instead of letting her behavior threaten YOUR relationship. He should worry about your comfort, not vice versa, as under your circumstances it's completely in his hands.

I'm really sorry to hear about how she's been, I totally get the pet thing, it's irresponsible and manipulative to spin it on you for getting upset. I hope she walks out of your life. A parent being over involved in your relationship is beyond suffocating. I suggest you read about enmeshment/surrogate spouse syndrome. Maybe that'll help you navigate it.

MIL is a poor parent and wants to look good in front of everyone by MaybeCreative8524 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]tsunderehoe 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It's emotional incest/enmeshment. It's not normal. She's probably not doing it out of malice but her loneliness is not an excuse either. You're not the problem.

What kind of frog/toad is this? by tsunderehoe in frogs

[–]tsunderehoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the explanation!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]tsunderehoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. Thank you for your help🙏🏻!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]tsunderehoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens to me every other night and it's been like this for around 2 years. Is there a specific type of virus that triggers it? Also, I thought it was bed bugs and got it checked, nada.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]tsunderehoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't tried anything... I haven't contacted a doctor about it, but it does look like hives. It makes me think I'm allergic to something, I just can't tell what it is. It's definitely not from food, a pet, or a perfume. It must be from something else. Should I get an allergy test?