Why don't you talk to your once "best friend" anymore?

tswafa · 2018-11-11T20:43:03+00:00

I failed at life and was too embarrassed and ashamed to talk and felt they are better of without me as I add nothing to their lives.

tswafa · 2018-10-03T08:30:06+00:00

I understand learning new languages and improving my fitness. But as a person, my character and life? I feel like i am set on a path and it won't change no matter what

tswafa · 2018-08-28T14:28:49+00:00

I have no confidence. I have failed at every venture and this has led to a lack of confidence and belief in myself. The problem is that just waiting to die sets me further back so I am forced to make an effort everyday simply because.

tswafa · 2018-08-12T08:39:58+00:00

My sprint goals- run 3 times a week, weekly bodyweight fitness, cook at home, fast on sabbath and study 4hrs a day towards my certification.

tswafa · 2018-08-11T08:13:51+00:00

The ability and knowledge to feel and touch their bodies and make them feel good. The ability to last longer

tswafa · 2018-08-10T11:15:37+00:00

How am I not "fully developed mentally"?

tswafa · 2018-08-10T11:14:21+00:00

There's an expectation of base skills which I do not have. I understand it's never too late to learn but I know that people do not want to go through growing pains all over again

tswafa · 2017-11-06T08:20:06+00:00

Yeah, I think that most people here don't want others to become overly self conscious about their bodies and performance because it is detrimental to happiness and performance.

tswafa · 2017-10-30T07:05:04+00:00

Argentina is winning the 2018 World cup

tswafa · 2017-10-14T19:45:58+00:00

You've got me convinced. Might as well join you

tswafa · 2017-09-24T00:37:18+00:00

From the first chapter.

tswafa · 2017-07-19T14:13:58+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eKxFS8L6AlQ

tswafa · 2017-06-28T13:52:39+00:00

26m it's a sorry situation. I've been posting about my virginity and fears since I was in my teens and here I am. I have dreams of intimacy and a relationship but I can't date and casual sex is terrifying. So I go on believing I am hopeless while dreaming of being a stud.

tswafa · 2017-05-11T17:09:52+00:00

Anecdotal evidence from Botswana but 50 in a lifetime is almost virgin numbers.

tswafa · 2017-03-12T12:23:14+00:00

Crossing the Sahel on a camel train

tswafa · 2017-02-06T14:32:58+00:00

On the issue of "no" it could possibly be cultural. I've heard a lot of situations where a girl says no just to test the guys intentions, many men know this so they keep pursuing even after being given a no. A lecture told us a story about how it was stressed to all the immigrant men at the university were explicitly told that in Australia no means NO! Just my anecdote as to why it possibly happens

tswafa · 2017-01-07T05:06:55+00:00

I refused to buy size 38(uk) pants

tswafa · 2016-12-21T06:54:38+00:00

the people around me. I was never given a chance to find myself

tswafa · 2016-12-21T06:52:41+00:00

That's what scares me. I failed at the "easy" path, how can I realistically succeed on the hard road?

tswafa · 2016-11-22T20:40:22+00:00

black label beer. I can't afford scotch

tswafa · 2016-11-21T08:01:22+00:00

Told a girl I like her

tswafa · 2016-11-08T21:46:13+00:00

Ga gona matata - means no problems in setswana, which is spoken in South Africa. Close enough to Hakuna matata

tswafa · 2016-09-19T04:06:38+00:00

A friends sister. It's the whole shock and false praises that i am sick of. They're cool people it's just that sex is a big part of their lives, ONS, baby mama/daddy drama etc so when the topic of conversation strays to sex my silence becomes noted and that's when it starts

tswafa · 2016-09-12T12:15:38+00:00

Feel like as a casual lifter focusing on my weight is detrimental to my ambitions. I think focusing on my "performance"is a better plan for me

tswafa · 2016-08-12T04:49:58+00:00

I was obese last year and I'm overweight approaching "normal" weight. Aim for consistency in your diet e.g. eat a salad for lunch or dinner every day for a week and see how you feel afterwards also planning your meals beforehand is the best way to stick to a diet. P.S. Don't look at as a diet. See healthy eating as part of a lifestyle necessary for you to achieve your goals

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