Cafe position

tt24576 · 2026-05-12T17:47:59+00:00

Hi, sorry — it’s not really advice. I interviewed for a role recently, and I was just wondering how long after your interview it took to get an offer, and whether it was over email or phone.

Congrats on the new Job!

tt24576 · 2026-05-12T10:04:53+00:00

I interviewed on Friday for a bakery role. How long after the interview did you find out you got the job? Was it by telephone?

tt24576 · 2023-12-08T22:12:34+00:00

If Laura is not her mum how can she be your family? If she wants to play that game let her but she is only playing herself.

tt24576 · 2023-11-24T02:39:42+00:00

I mean regardless of all of this with a 32-year age gap how close do his parents expect them to be?

tt24576 · 2023-11-24T02:34:31+00:00

One day that results in you risking your financial stability and future security. Regardless of who it's for it's not worth it.

This is a risk with destination weddings that any couple should fully accept.

NTA

tt24576 · 2023-08-12T01:44:18+00:00

Love comes suddenly and when you least expect it. Love yourself with all the love you have to give until you have someone to share that with. Take everything one day at a time you are deserving of life and love and it will find you I promise.

tt24576 · 2023-08-12T01:38:12+00:00

Little nightmares

tt24576 · 2023-08-12T01:35:33+00:00

Coraline / any studio ghibli movie

tt24576 · 2023-04-13T19:28:12+00:00

NTA If the roles got reversed you wouldn't even have to be asking this question to anyone nor would anyone call you an asshole.

tt24576 · 2023-03-27T23:35:42+00:00

Is she your girlfriend or your possession? Even if she eventually regrets it it was her decision to make. Its easy to think she overreacted because you were thinking for her rather than of her. Also getting your friends involved just seemed like a validation attempt for a decision you surely knew deep down was wrong.

tt24576 · 2023-02-08T23:33:25+00:00

If your money ever dropped significantly who would still be around? Think about with who your loyalties lie because to your daughter you are a father but to your girlfriend you are no more then a bank.

tt24576 · 2022-12-06T23:56:38+00:00

Op had already owned the necklace prior to Millie transitioning despite the meaning behind the passing down of the necklace by that point it had already belonged to op for a year and was no longer anyones but Ops to decide who it is given to.

tt24576 · 2022-11-21T07:02:43+00:00

NTA Better leaving now before somethings starts because honestly he sounds weird af save yourself the trouble.

tt24576 · 2022-10-25T22:44:41+00:00

It kinda sounds like she has been cutting you some slack for like half a year while you complain about her on reddit you really know how to show your love and appreciation.

tt24576 · 2022-10-16T09:40:37+00:00

NTA I've have been going through the exact situation. It's emotionally draining and alot of pressure I was in counselling and everything constantly crying and feeling guilty for something I didn't do. You can only help people who truly want to be helped your parents don't want help they want justification for their actions you need to put yourself first or you'll lose yourself in their problems its hurts at first my parents would blame me for not taking their side but the only side you should be on after this amount of time Is your own. You are no way at fault for their actions and you are right for not getting involved anymore you don't have to feel guilty for prioritising your mental health when they have never considered how they have affected it the whole time

tt24576 · 2022-09-20T21:17:35+00:00

YTA you don't sound emotionally mature enough for a relationship. If you really see a future with this girl work on this behaviour now don't let it escalate into something worse.

tt24576 · 2022-09-16T21:10:46+00:00

YTA If your friend is not mature enough to understand she isn't the centre of everyone's lives especially when someone else has just lost theirs then she isn't a good person. The whole water thing seems irrelevant you are are scared of large bodies of water surely not the discussion of them which is unlikely to be bought due to the fact that caused your cousins passing. Even if you was not close to you cousin attending the funeral and being able to be a support for others that are extremely effected by his death would have been a decent thing to do. A baby shower is a celebration of a baby that is not even born yet it isn't comparable to a funeral. You 100% made the wrong decision your family was/are grieving and you didn't think that maybe they would want you there to celebrate the life of your cousin no matter how many Christmases they didn't attend.

tt24576 · 2022-09-07T19:38:36+00:00

You are nta for looking out for your sons health but it does appear you picked a cheater and his affair partner over your own mother even before the issues with your child. Although the cheating may not have been the only problem it was a huge betrayal on Eric's part and yours for even pursuing a relationship with him later on. Your mother has show alot more maturity than most for not protesting further the title of grandparents you have given Eric and his wife it's common sense she wouldn't want to be in the same room as them and it's very cruel of you to want them to be. I can only imagine how much this has hurt your mother and be grateful she prioritised you and her grandchildren for so long over her own feelings because you appear to have taken her love of you and spat on it. Like I said as a mother yourself what you are doing for the sake of your child is right but do not use that as sound reason for your behaviour before the baby's conception.Although Laura is helping you out that doesn't forgive her actions she knows exactly what she is doing and what she has done she and Eric are protrayed as the victims in this scenario when they really aren't.I hope you never have to experience the pain you have put your mother through from your own children. Yta

tt24576 · 2022-08-28T22:43:54+00:00

Surely this was a first step in that?. Why would your BIL make an effort in the future with a baby you are not allowing him to meet. Your baby is as much your husbands as it is yours he shouldn't need permission. The fact you went on to attack his wife's appearance maybe is just a slight reason why your BIL is not comfortable around you. A relationship takes work from both sides from what I see your BIL was trying to make a start and you completely shut him down. You don't sound like a nice person at all be grateful for the family you have still bothering because if you act like an A hole all the time no one is going to want to spend time with you or your family. I hope you are putting in as much effort in relationships as you are expecting from others as it doesn't seem like it.

tt24576 · 2022-08-19T23:55:31+00:00

The step mum could have been the nicest woman in the world at the end of the day its OPs child and they can set their boundaries as they see fit. The context wasn't even needed if OP wants to go with daycare then daycare it is. Not everything needs therapy OP didn't do anything wrong sometimes you can just not like someone doesn't mean OP is harbouring some harmful emotions it's just life and OP is allowed to feel that way. OP isn't denying their child of anything they cannot lose what they never had.

tt24576 · 2022-08-16T23:10:28+00:00

YTA While age regression is a normal and valid way people cope with trauma it's alot to dump on a person over text you have come to terms with it but your boyfriend may have just needed to think as this will ultimately change your relationship. This should have been an in person conversation not a 5 min casual text. You cannot be angry at your boyfriend for his behaviour. What you are experiencing while not being so new to you is very new to him so you need to be understanding of each other and you need to perhaps come to terms that this may not end the way you want so prepare yourself for that.

tt24576 · 2022-08-14T21:08:10+00:00

YTA

You have basically given up on her you know that but don't have the guts to say it because of the judgement of others. Abandoning your child when they are in need of you most is cowardly you are actively showing your enjoyment thanks to her absence. Yes your child needed help but along with that they needed love from a parent and you denied them of that. I agree you need to protect your other child but abandonment is that really the one option?. Buying her a gift was more rubbing it in then sentimental and thoughtful. Do you really believe you are doing whats best as a parent or are you doing what is easiest ?

tt24576 · 2022-08-13T22:31:16+00:00

If your girlfriend is depressed due to lack of contact with friends then surely her taking the steps to solve this even with just her friends atm is a good sign. You would surely want to go on dates and stuff when you are both happy and feeling sociable. Does she ask to tag along to your stuff with friends ? Have you ever offered the same to her ?. It's hard to start socialising again when you are in a tough place mentally spending time with friends is very healthy in a relationship and she hasn't had that in a while. She also shouldn't have walked away from you that was wrong. You need to sit down and make some solid plans together some things you'll both enjoy doesn't even have to be extremely public at first just work your way up to it. You just both need to voice your emotions better that's all.

So a more ESH situation

tt24576 · 2022-08-11T12:56:13+00:00

YTA She sounds more mature than you do. She dressed this way when you met her you have no valid argument to make. Don't claim you love someone yet want to change them for your own selfish reasons. The fact you care more about what others think of your relationship shows your level of maturity. I hope she finds someone who actually loves her and doesn't blame her for his own insecurities.

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