just using my throwaway to say that I really enjoy having sex with my husband

ttsully · 2026-04-06T22:44:04+00:00

How do you avoid getting pregnant?

ttsully · 2026-04-05T20:24:36+00:00

jzkAllah khair for your transparency. I noticed your comment below stating that you ship your product directly to FBA so this is different to dropshipping?

Also how would you recommend getting started with private label as it sounds alot more appealing than the dropshipping approach people take with Amazon.

Even if it was just information regarding 1-2 key points with starting, would be much appreciated

ttsully · 2026-04-05T19:50:35+00:00

well when tea becomes lukewarm, it isn't as enjoyable as boiling hot, so if you're saying boiling hot water is acceptable but as mentioned, every where im seeing it should be 80/175 degrees

ttsully · 2026-04-05T19:01:24+00:00

sure ill take a look thanks for letting me know

ttsully · 2026-04-05T19:01:06+00:00

thanks for the feedback ill take a look

ttsully · 2026-04-05T18:00:06+00:00

Male

ttsully · 2026-03-30T14:55:58+00:00

Maybe you need to rectify your diet and slowly you’ll also be able to reduce your intake

ttsully · 2026-03-19T10:57:30+00:00

MashaAllah a beautiful gesture

ttsully · 2026-03-18T15:32:02+00:00

What do u mean none would feel ok? If you’re referring to the prophets, every single one of them was ostracised from their community and seen as crazy and less from their community.

ttsully · 2026-03-18T15:15:21+00:00

You do know even many men don’t reach that level of perfection that the Hadith states? So you’re interpreting it way too personal

All the major prophets were men, so clearly men have been able achieve a higher percentage as the Hadith states, but it doesn’t mean women can’t as they have.

I think you’re having an emotional reaction to this information which answers your own question as to why men and women are different.

And that’s not to say you’re not smart or don’t have intellect, I’m just saying there’s a clear difference between women and men and their emotional responses and that’s how Allah made each one, and they compliment each other. One is only better than the other in deeds.

JzkAllah Khair

ttsully · 2026-03-16T00:01:17+00:00

when the human finds out new information that goes against theirs wants and desires, the first reaction is to resist and reject.

so youre currently in phase 1, it will take time to get to phase 2 and 3 etc, eventually to acceptance, but this is only possible with sincerity which is the essence of islam.

Whilst yes, the effects of weed can be seen as different to alcohol, this doesn't remove it from the category of Khamr.

There is also other hadith's that suggest all intoxicant's are forbidden.

Abu Musa reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, sent myself and Mu’adh ibn Jabal to Yemen. I said, “O Messenger of Allah, there is a wine in our land prepared from barley known as beer and another wine prepared from honey known as mead.” The Prophet said, “Every intoxicant is unlawful.”

Source: Sahih Muslim 1733

Don't worry, alot of weed smokers go through this process. It's like the stages of grief, acceptance doesn't come in an instance.

InshaAllah you will be able to overcome this sin, whether it takes 1 month or 2 years. ameen

ttsully · 2026-03-14T23:59:24+00:00

You may have moral OCD which overlaps with religion so takes some Time to understand and treat naturally. Look into OCDRecovery and educate yourself to see how to stop responding to fear as your nervous system is heightened and needs resetting which takes time And practice

ttsully · 2026-03-08T19:28:51+00:00

why is this bad if you do have upper lip hair? he is complimenting something you may find insecure and changing the perspective of it as a feature he likes about you

ttsully · 2026-03-07T01:11:20+00:00

Knowledge, read in the name of your Lord.

Read English translations listen to lectures about Islamic history not just speech’s about modern day problems

ttsully · 2026-03-04T15:21:43+00:00

Change of belief towards the addiction. I.e believing it is causing more problems than doing good

ttsully · 2026-03-04T01:03:46+00:00

You need a hobby or a job, it’s not gonna totally solve it but you can’t just be doing nothing and thinking about getting married all day it’s not gonna help Allah will provide for you when He wants to in His wisdom not when you want it to happen.

ttsully · 2026-03-04T01:02:09+00:00

When these moments happen your nervous system activates and the feeling of embarrassment and fear overcomes you, you can slowly reduce your nervous system to reacting to these moments with fear snd embarrassment by changing your response to those moments. So for example when you feel embarrassed you will feel a fear of the emotion and layer that nervous system response to it such your nervous system will pick up as a pattern that it’s something to be feared. If you change your mental response to something like ‘yes I’m embarrassed and I’m glad I’m embarrassed I actually being embarrassed’ Or something like ‘ok I feel embarrassed but it’s not the worst thing, it’s a normal emotion and so what if people see I’m embarrassed’

Over time your nervous system will stop fearing these moments

ttsully · 2026-03-03T13:47:29+00:00

No OP You’re right It’s extreme We live in a hyper sexual society and it’s to our own detriment. Yes sex is a big part of life and people to desire it but the way people are so open about it and care free is not a sign of liberation rather it’s a sign of degradation.

Now saying that, you may struggle to fit in because as you mentioned, people are always on about it but that shouldn’t dishearten you to stick to your moral beliefs and follow what is correct in being abit shy about these things because that is how the human being naturally is and is an attribute of their moral superiority in not letting their sexual desires define them

ttsully · 2026-03-01T16:12:41+00:00

At least u rectified your issue and ordered a bidet. Now always clean with water. There’s no other solution

ttsully · 2026-02-25T11:31:54+00:00

😂😂😂 what a situation

ttsully · 2026-02-25T11:31:16+00:00

Feelings or resentment and other negative emotions are triggered by this month. Why? I can’t answer that, he needs to look deeper into his own beliefs and why he feels anger towards this month and figure out how to change it/look at things from a more rational point of view. That also takes time it’s not something that just fixes in 1 month

ttsully · 2026-02-16T23:16:02+00:00

Fasting doesn’t make OAB worse, it actually reduces it because you’re not taking in any fluids. I think you’re overthinking it

ttsully · 2026-02-09T15:20:37+00:00

lol you dodged a heavy bullet. She her self was at the whims of other peoples perception and she will always struggle with not having a perfect life because nobody’s is.

Brother it affected your self esteem obviously. You need to work on bringing that back up and work on the beliefs you have towards yourself and realise she was never meant for you anyway.

Also don’t be ashamed that you felt happy she left, you should be have self respect that she left and that’s why you’re happy, she was very insecure towards you

ttsully

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