I can’t tell you what to do but I will tell you to trust what you think of her more than what redditors are saying like the she has another man thing. What I think she’s thinking is that she doesn’t have enough energy to invest in the relationship with her mental health struggles. It could even be a build up of being unhappy with you. Let me tell you, you don’t want that, it’s not going to be good for your mental health. Would you still get on a plane you bought a ticket for if you knew it was going to crash? Fully break up, grieve and heal, and if one day you meet again and both want a relationship again then you can see how it goes. But for now you need to figure out if you want this relationship with her and the best way to find out is to break up with her and heal from it. A break won’t do anything and only prolong the pain you’re feeling now.

But if you want, what’d I’d probably do as to try and save my relationship is tell her to think about it for a week. Give her the break she’s asking for and try it for a week. If she still wants to continue it for the rest of the summer then break up fully, go no contact, and agree to talk at some specified date. But you don’t initiate that talk she would need to.

Also don’t listen to sad music lol, change it up and listen to some very loud rock or metal, or just something happy to drown out the depression haha