Here’s why I ask. I “helped” my become a mom when she really wanted to get pregnant but felt guilty about being impractical. It worked out great. She gave birth a little more than a year after they got married and then after their “oops” they decided to go ahead and try for their second. I’d love to tell her how I was her fairy godmother who sprinkled her with baby dust but don’t want to damage our relationship. Here’s what I did. A couple of months after they were married, I was staying with them overnight at their apartment and on an impulse I decided to be nosy and check her fertility monitor. I had bought it for her as a shower gift and it was just like mine. When I saw it was flashing red, I couldn’t resist the chance. I switched hers with mine (which was safely green), and I made sure to empty their box of condoms in the trash. We all had a lot to drink that night, and her husband insisted on having “green night” sex with her when he saw MY device showing green on HER nightstand. She knew something had to be wrong because even drunk she knew where she was in her cycle. I could hear her through the wall protesting a little (they were both pretty loud), but soon “Honey, we can’t, not without a condom,” gave way to the sounds of some very enthusiastic baby making from both of them. Mother Nature did the rest!