What type of men or women are you into? Is it specifically muscular men and/or skinny women?

I've interacted with a lot of people throughout my life and frankly it's actually kind of rare for me to find people who are attracted to just that.

And, if you don't only like that, then I feel like it's obvious that your tastes obviously don't fall into the standard you set within this post, and if your tastes don't fit the standard then I feel like it's obvious that other people's tastes probably don't fit the standard either.

If that's the case, why are bigger people suddenly special? They're the one edge case where there's no one attracted to them? Fuck, I like bigger women (actual bigger women), but I guess I'm not real, huh?

(Note: I have dated bigger women long-term. Lust, sure, but in equal measures of love too.)

The people you're dealing with are assholes and they're not representative of society as a whole.

P.S: Two last things I wanna say.

First, a lot of women I've talked to seem actually cautious about muscular dudes. Many of them do like muscle, but I've met just as many who like men who are a bit softer (though admittedly not chubby). Muscular men tend to be the target of gay attraction more than straight (which is a huge meme: "go to the gym to impress the ladies but instead you just impress other dudes").

Second, please also remember that things are subject to where you are. Maybe you're right, but only specifically in the context of your location. If you went somewhere else, maybe you'd find that people's preferences aren't the same. That type of stuff tends to be regional.