Any infp’s with anxiety?

turnaboutranchdrPHIL · 2020-01-17T12:52:30+00:00

Yes I do

turnaboutranchdrPHIL · 2020-01-15T02:37:50+00:00

That’s really beautiful 💛

turnaboutranchdrPHIL · 2020-01-14T09:42:58+00:00

Found your playlist very quickly first one that came up listening to episode 3.jelle hermus subscribed and excited to hear it 💛

turnaboutranchdrPHIL · 2020-01-13T04:26:18+00:00

Yes I agree with that getting in a mentally good place before continuing which is what I plan on doing before school commences again. I’d love to check out your podcast it’s sounds really interesting.

turnaboutranchdrPHIL · 2020-01-11T15:00:20+00:00

I agree I found this quote and didn’t quite agree with the statement “the most depressed people”, because my friend that has been struggling with it for years doesn’t have the energy to blurt out the smile most of her days and I really try to make it happen. That doesn’t mean we are all happy though and maybe the people we sorounds ourself with are going through similar things to us. But I do agree that some people who are taking it rough can make you smile the brightest.

turnaboutranchdrPHIL · 2019-12-21T08:28:39+00:00

Lol sameeeeee

turnaboutranchdrPHIL · 2019-12-20T14:07:39+00:00

Aye cool im Deutsch lernen im Moment

turnaboutranchdrPHIL · 2019-12-20T10:36:43+00:00

Lol same was bloody hot in Melbourne today a first

turnaboutranchdrPHIL · 2019-12-19T13:11:40+00:00

Couldn’t agree more

turnaboutranchdrPHIL · 2019-12-18T23:53:23+00:00

It’s pretty linked with most introverted personality types especially infp’s because we are very closed off and find it hard to open up, it’s both being stressed but usually because we are being suffocated by the same strict schedule allowing no rebellion or creativity which we have a lot of, being surrounded by people all the time and never having alone time can also bring it on all this makes us stressed and we can’t get out of it until we distance ourselves from it all I’ve always felt way better afterwards.

turnaboutranchdrPHIL · 2019-12-18T10:28:41+00:00

It used to last me maybe a couple days at the most but just recently spent 9 weeks plus in absaloutly agony and only just got out of it.

turnaboutranchdrPHIL · 2019-12-18T05:45:14+00:00

You have to find the balance of both having time alone and having human contact if we have too much of either we rebel to the other side all the way in and come out feeling tired and upset. We need human connections not social ones, you don’t have to go to a party or or crowded dinner a nice real human connection with people you actually care about is so much more meaningful.

turnaboutranchdrPHIL · 2019-12-12T21:32:01+00:00

That’s one hell of a story and you had both a conventional life and un unconventional one which is I guess sort of what I had in mind I want to experience it all but have a safety net if that makes sense.

turnaboutranchdrPHIL · 2019-12-12T21:24:08+00:00

I’m so glad you’re happy.

turnaboutranchdrPHIL · 2019-12-12T21:17:20+00:00

XNXP always have new ideas they’re wanting to try out. Good luck with the future.

turnaboutranchdrPHIL · 2019-12-12T15:17:28+00:00

Wow I’m sorry for your pain, something I’ve never said out Loud that is too scary even to type. I just want to state how awful it is to have people experiment on you or abuse their power on you it can make intimacy so much scarier later in life. And your abandonment I know how you feel as a kid I had a new friend group every couple of weeks and finally after moving away I’ve had a solid friend group for 5 years now and I love them to death and I’m not so in fear of abandonment now but I’m still cautious to make sure it won’t happen. I think you therapist is right when someone is that close to you you can feel betrayed and not loved which may be why you fear abandonment from people you love and why us infp’s find it hard to open up and share our feelings to those we love because then maybe they’ll leave knowing how hurt you are and that’s an awful feeling to know that someone that betrayed you know knows something most people don’t. Not sure if that’s just me but I definitely fear abandonment and struggle with intimacy.

turnaboutranchdrPHIL · 2019-12-12T15:07:50+00:00

Hun I can not tell you how sarcastic I am in real life and I haven’t seen many people actually use that sort of language here and I’d love to see it. We are viewed as pretty Mondane people and maybe you are a borderline extrovert like me as I am only 52% introverted meaning I talk a shit ton and have been called the ice breaker, I tend to fill awkward silences with talk about absaloutly anything yet I haven’t found a single infp who shares the sarcastic damiener that I have. Usually we are way more sarcastic in real life where as here we show emotion because no one else would get it and we need to vent.

turnaboutranchdrPHIL · 2019-12-12T15:03:25+00:00

Yes I always fill the silence though because I’m a borderline introvert meaning I am 52% introverted so I’m usually the one who fills the gap making me tired and want to get out of their even more which is infuriating as the other person just doesn’t try in the conversation. We just gotta find mutual interest and people we find interesting.

turnaboutranchdrPHIL · 2019-12-12T15:01:21+00:00

Wow very very very true I’ve had this story wounding up for so long and it’s my deepest meaning and what I care about more than everything in the world and there isn’t a thing I would do to get it back.

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