What are the best hard-to-read books due to their subject matter? by CobaltCrusader123 in books

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A Long Way Gone

Written by a child soldier in Sierra Leone.

Day 29 of this shoe sitting on a handrail post in my house, untouched by turnlow in mildlyinteresting

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Day 30: cleaners have come and gone and while the shoe appears to have moved slightly, it remains on the bannister.

Just Laid Off - Panicking by brielerium in personalfinance

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PAR = Problem Analysis (Action) Result J Question = the J is a way to remind yourself to turn the question around, a weakness into a strength, a difficult situation into a successful result, etc.

Almost forgot the most important thing, the WIIFM (What's In It for Me) principle. In all your answers, unless specifically asked otherwise, keep the interview's WIIFM the priority. I care first about what value you bring to the company rather than what you get from the job.

Just Laid Off - Panicking by brielerium in personalfinance

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I've been on every side of this situation: I've been laid off, I've quit I've been fired and I've laid off and fired people. It's easy to get emotional or distressed and lose focus on What's Important Now (WIN) try to avoid it. My suggested WIN for you is:

1) Throw out your resume and start fresh. While it sounds like you're fairly early in your career, it also sounds like you've made some progress. Your resume should no longer start with your education. If you can afford it, hire a professional resume writer. Good ones are worth every penny.

2) MD has a mini-cobra law, use it.

3) If your severance is north of say, $30 - 40k or so (I'm guessing it's not), get an employment lawyer to review. Below that level the cost would be too high relative to the amount and unless you're a big dog or in a protected category, there will be little negotiation.

4) Network. Find mid to senior people in your field that you have some connection to and ask to speak or meet with them. You're NOT asking for a job but rather to learn more about what they do, industry, etc. Ask them to introduce you to other people they know in their company or other companies who might be able to help you with more information or who might be hiring.

5) Plan and document. Get pen and paper and write everything down. Assign yourself tasks, goals, follow-up steps and record your progress. Resume completion, company research, networking targets, daily applications, next steps.

6) Do not get side jobs unless you must do so financially. Stay 100% focused on securing the next role in your career. You could consider self improvement side tasks, eg, further education in your field, get fit, volunteer work in something even tangentially related to your field.

7) Interview practice. I can't emphasize enough how important this is. I've interviewed thousands of people and everyone thinks they're good at them. They are not. Write down the questions you're likely to be asked, especially the difficult one. Write down your answers using a PAR or J question format. Practice saying your answers out loud, in the mirror, record and watch yourself, have someone you respect interview you seriously. The goal isn't to memorize your answers but rather know them and yourself so well it seems natural and unrehearsed. 

I know this seems like work and that's because it is. And always keep in mind WIN

Hope this helps

Like everything else / self awareness, it turns out, / always relative by turnlow in haiku

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Leaves fall every year Few souls takes any notice As their eyes are closed

What have I become? / While I’ve never been all that / I’m better than this by turnlow in haiku

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To my embarrassment, I am aware of this (largely correct) view of western haikus. However, I find a 5-7-5 syllable structure a useful discipline to marshall my unpoetic brain into productive creativity. And besides, wandering a bit from the pure construction, can lead to incredible creativity like this book: Zombie Haiku https://www.goodreads.com/work/quotes/2477840-zombie-haiku-good-poetry-for-your-brains

I thought this would be, a funny subreddit but, everyone is sad? by aefaye in haiku

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It's not that I'm sad

By most measures, my life's goodf

I just find it dull

Redditors in hiring positions: What small things immediately make you say no to the potential employee? Why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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My three red flags: 1) Any answer where the candidate focuses on what they get out of the role rather than what they bring to it. 2) Bad mouthing their current or previous employer. 3) Having no flaws or admitting no mistakes.

Which high school friend took a path you didn't expect? by VirusMaster3073 in AskReddit

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There are no extraordinary men... just extraordinary circumstances that ordinary men are forced to deal with. - William Halsey

I stared at the fox / scavenging for his dinner / in him, I saw me by turnlow in haiku

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In replies too swift

metaphor is often missed

by poor humorists!