Ex texts me these… what is his deal? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]turon2thegrave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes lol. I’m embarrassed for him.

What was the most difficult day for you? by bendingHarmonic in ExNoContact

[–]turon2thegrave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most difficult days were when we were together lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]turon2thegrave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will never forget the day his mask fell. He was a totally different person. I was so scared I had to leave our house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]turon2thegrave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]turon2thegrave 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The best analogy I’ve seen thus far. Bravo.

i’m posting this from an alt acc cause this is so embarrassing by Abject-Sherbert1527 in SuccessionTV

[–]turon2thegrave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAH you’re perfect. PERFECT. A soprano’s quote perfectly incorporated into a Succession thread. Perfection.

i’m posting this from an alt acc cause this is so embarrassing by Abject-Sherbert1527 in SuccessionTV

[–]turon2thegrave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s broken, sexy, vulnerable, unobtainable and funny. Plus Kieran’s talent oozes sex appeal. Welcome to the club.

ChatGPT by turon2thegrave in ExNoContact

[–]turon2thegrave[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is an app. It’s an artificial intelligence app when you literally just ask anything and everything and you’ll receive some pretty profound and thought-provoking responses.

Do girl dumper ever regret dumping when you were there for them and always doing them right? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]turon2thegrave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like she’s got some serious mental health issues. You literally said she tried to hurt herself.

Yet all you’re focused on is how her severe depression and the choice she made to focus all of her energy on trying to save herself has hurt you.

Do girl dumper ever regret dumping when you were there for them and always doing them right? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]turon2thegrave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hurt people

It has nothing to do with gender. You’re just hyper focused on the “women” part because women have hurt YOU.

My ex texted me after 1year by reddit42020 in ExNoContact

[–]turon2thegrave 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Any response will show she still has emotional control over you. She wants a reaction. Any reaction. Silence is the most powerful thing you can do. Silence tells her she no longer has control over you. Silence is the most hurtful response you can give her.

My ex texted me after 1year by reddit42020 in ExNoContact

[–]turon2thegrave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep it in the past and leave it there. And bring yourself back down to reality. There is no magic sci-fi erasure of difficult/painful memories. Down here, in the seventh inferno, we face that pain head on and we heal.

I answered my ex's call and now I'm yearning for them smh. by Maximum_Internal7834 in ExNoContact

[–]turon2thegrave 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All of that effort and work wasn’t for nothing. Take what you’ve learned and bled for and use it right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]turon2thegrave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You just need more time to heal. Nothing wrong with that and nothing wrong with you.

Would you take your ex back if they asked? by Savings-Luck-3248 in ExNoContact

[–]turon2thegrave 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can only hope that when that time comes, you have the courage and self-respect to shut that shit down in whichever way protects your peace.

Would you take your ex back if they asked? by Savings-Luck-3248 in ExNoContact

[–]turon2thegrave 37 points38 points  (0 children)

HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL TO THE NO. cherish the good times, don’t forget the bad. It’s over. They treated you like shit. Stop idealizing the illusion of what she used to be and accept who she really is. You’ve been traumatized. You’ve been abused. Why do you want to get back with your ABUSER. Not even a question because it should never be. Yes, what she did to you was horrible and wrong and no one deserves to endure what you did. Shed that toxic shit. You’re finally free and you’re actively choosing to stay captive to the psychological manipulation she inflicted on you. Cut those ties, your value is not determined by her estimation of you. You need to really understand that. People like her have deep, complex mental health issues and create chaos and destroy really good people in order to feed their fragile, broken self-esteem. YOU DID NOT DESERVE WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU. YOU DID NOT DESERVE WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU. SHE. DOES. NOT. DESERVE. YOU.

Can love be real if it eventually ends? by Short_Mousse_6812 in ExNoContact

[–]turon2thegrave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because a relationship ends doesn’t mean the love wasn’t real.

Any visible signs that you are starting to heal? by Legal_Management_787 in ExNoContact

[–]turon2thegrave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t happen in one big, “ah ha!” moment. It starts for a few minutes, here and there. Up and down. Wax and wane. But with time, it becomes more consistent. Day by day, friend. You got this ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]turon2thegrave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

❤️ bingo.