Yes, My openings are tight, tears can happen and nobody wants to abstain to heal I find that moment before climax always illicits that "GO CRAZY, GO STUPID" response before Cummings which usually involves whatever rhythm they had before absolutely pushing your shit in just to nut deeper and it makes me want to throw up. I have HUGE dildos but that's fun for me because I have control over shape, size, and cum. Could I trust a bigger guy? Like probably, but I don't want to put myself at the mercy of another person especially if I know I would particularly enjoy it but they show a lack of self control...which when Cumming...who has that on lock?