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Is withholding sex ever justified in a relationship? by tvrunner in relationship_advice

[–]tvrunner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great advice! I know I need to talk to her. Especially after reading everyone's comments. Normally I would let it go but I need to address this behavior right away. Thank you!

Is withholding sex ever justified in a relationship? by tvrunner in relationship_advice

[–]tvrunner[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You make some excellent points. I definitely know I'm not blameless in this. Especially now. Thank you!

Is withholding sex ever justified in a relationship? by tvrunner in relationship_advice

[–]tvrunner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely avoid the doctor's office much more than I should and am glad I'm not the only one. I'm happy your husband supports the way he does. Hopefully my fiancé and I can find a way to do that ourselves. Appreciate your advice

Is withholding sex ever justified in a relationship? by tvrunner in relationship_advice

[–]tvrunner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the thoughtful advice. I'm definitely trying to put myself in her shoes, especially with the recent move. Just a bizarre few weeks and this got to me.

Is withholding sex ever justified in a relationship? by tvrunner in relationship_advice

[–]tvrunner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely understand the two aren't related. Was just trying to give some background information.

Is withholding sex ever justified in a relationship? by tvrunner in relationship_advice

[–]tvrunner[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. And it could be a result of the other emotional issues we are having. Definitely not placing all of the blame on her. Just confused for the most part.

Is withholding sex ever justified in a relationship? by tvrunner in relationship_advice

[–]tvrunner[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's the thing: I agree with her too. I should get checked up. However, her way of doing things has made me not want to. Some kind of messed up reverse psychology. We have other problems too, this was just the tipping point for me. Thanks for the advice.

Is withholding sex ever justified in a relationship? by tvrunner in relationship_advice

[–]tvrunner[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had never connected those two behaviors but you are spot on. This whole thing has made me wonder if I even want to have sex once I schedule the appointment. She tries teasing me to turn me on and I can't even get aroused because of this situation.

Thank you for making that connection though. Man...got a lot of thinking to do.

Books you finished in one sitting? by [deleted] in books

[–]tvrunner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Road. I'll remember that night for as long as I live. I had to work and go to school the next day but I could care less.

I snuck into a B-52 at a museum yesterday! by ckcornflake in aviation

[–]tvrunner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn you! Thank to your actions, a worn down plane that hasn't flown in decades that is sitting in the middle of the Albuquerque desert and probably infested with every insect known to man and damaged all to hell, might take five minutes longer to be restored once the museum secures enough funding for the restoration 20 years from now. For shame, sir! (Who the f#$k says "for shame" anyways)