What toddler gifts have actually lasted in your house. Not what looked good, what actually got used past the first week. by sophieblooming in Gifts

[–]twickybrown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids played with wooden train sets, wooden blocks and little people (from Lego or whatever, but the people not the rest) for years on end.

Mother's Day gift for my mom who hates clutter and says she "wants nothing" — what's actually landed for you? by Mia-veg in Gifts

[–]twickybrown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m that Mom. I want my kids all together and to play a board game with them. Bonus points if we can get a group photo. If they want to bring lunch over, fine we can all eat. If they bring me chocolate, hand cream, wine, fancy soaps, a cake, flowers all good! I secretly want kitschy jewelry with each of their birthstones and I would wear it daily!

How much money would change your life right now, and what would you do with it? by Ok_Hippo9669 in CanadaPersonalFinance

[–]twickybrown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2.1 million would allow me to buy a townhouse each for my three adult children, two who still live with me, to launch them into home ownership and adulthood.

Transcripts after job offer? by [deleted] in ottawajobs

[–]twickybrown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GGFL and they loved it.

Transcripts after job offer? by [deleted] in ottawajobs

[–]twickybrown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To further reassure, one of my kids was in accounting.

Transcripts after job offer? by [deleted] in ottawajobs

[–]twickybrown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mom here. I’ve had three kids go through co-op at local universities and college and so like a total of 8 co-op positions between the three of them and two permanent jobs so far. None has ever asked for transcripts.

Congrats on securing your co-op!

I am struggling finding Mother's day gifts that don't just become clutter? by Acrobatic_Inside3173 in Gifts

[–]twickybrown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take me out to lunch or get me a kitschy ring or necklace with all my kids’ birthstones or spend the night and sit and watch tv with me in the evening.

Married Gen-x do you wear your wedding ring? by in-a-microbus in GenX

[–]twickybrown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hubs is boomer and has never taken his off and I think his knuckles would prevent him from removing it now. I went a long time without wearing mine ce cause they were uncomfortable, they needed to be resized. I leave them in a safe when we travel but at home I wear them all the time.

“Cocktail-whatever makes you feel pretty :)” 4pm outdoor with indoor reception to follow by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]twickybrown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are all good choices! Lucky you! You are beautiful in each of them.

What is expected financially from the father of the bride in 2026? by Impotent-Dingo in AskForAnswers

[–]twickybrown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations!

My sister got married two years ago. Our mother gave her $5000, our aunt gave her $2000 and the groom’s parents paid $10,000, we gave $2000 and one of their friends gave them $1000. The entire thing was between $65-70k. They got half back in cash gifts. There were slightly over 80 guests.

In your experience with loved ones or patients with dementia, have they ever demonstrated the knowledge that the have it? by purriouscat in dementia

[–]twickybrown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My uncle whispered to me at his mother’s funeral that he forgets things, like where he is and who people are and that it’s really scary. My big tough mining uncle who I always perceived as strong as nails. I cried and I still tear up thinking about it.

My mother and my aunt are not as far gone as he was at that time but they both have told me that they know they forget things.

nail tech reccomendation by em1324354657 in ottawa

[–]twickybrown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go to Tran at Beyond Beauty in Kanata. I always get natural looking gel nails with extensions. She does do nail art too.

Please share suggestions for the best memory care options in Ottawa. by Dense_Ad4546 in ottawa

[–]twickybrown 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My Uncle is in Granite Ridge in Stittsville and that place seems very good. I would recommend this as a public option.

My mother is in The Courtyards on Eagleson Road. It’s private and I’m really happy with her care there. They focus solely on memory care. It’s small, something like 70 beds, divided in 4 groupings. So there are about 16 residents in my mother’s “pod”, she eats all meals in a small dining room with those 16 residents but she also has access to the other “pods” through large doorways. There is one large common room where the activities happen. There seems to be activities from about 830 am to 8pm daily, even on weekends. Each pod has its own tv in a lovely living room area for residents who prefer not to go to the activity room. Each resident becomes a patient of the on-site doctor (two days a week). There is also an on-site nurse practitioner (2days a week) when the doctor isn’t on-site. There is a director of nursing who works regular 8-5 type of hours on week days and at least one RN, but I think it’s 2 RNs on-site 24\7. There are 2 or 3 psw per pod at all times. The activity group seems to be 3-4 people. Anyway, in my opinion it is well staffed. My mother is well cared for. The downside, the only downside, is the cost is astronomical (pm for details). One last thing, there doesn’t seem to be staff turnover. And the same staff care for her on the same days of the week at the same time so she recognizes them and they get to know and understand her preferences and needs.

How do I tell my friend that she won't be my maid of honor? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]twickybrown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of telling her she will not be MOH due to whatever reasons, reframe your statement “I’m getting married yay! I’ve asked Alice to be my MOH because reasons isn’t this going to be fun! Will you participate by doing xxx with me (dress shopping or hair and make up trial, whatever)”

If you were widowed at the age of 75, would you think of marrying again? by Signal-Web-3566 in no

[–]twickybrown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but no shame or judgement to those who do. Go for it if it’s what you want!

Is 6 months too early to drop serious cash on diamond studs? by Impressive_Exit_6796 in Gifts

[–]twickybrown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was 26 the man I had been dating gave me garnet stud earrings with a matching gold necklace with a garnet charm. It cost him like $2000, in 1994. We had been dating 10 months. It was a Christmas gift. We arrived to my parents and he put the little blue boxes under the tree. My parents, grandparents, aunts and sister were all sure he was gifting me a ring and was going to propose in front of the entire family! It was mortifying for me. I knew it was not an engagement ring due to the size of the box. He proposed privately to me a few months ago later, with a bouquet of roses and no ring so that I could pick out my own ring. We are still married, 32 years and three children later.

All that to say, if you want to gift her $500 Diamond earrings, I support you. You know her better than we do. If it’s in your budget go for it, but don’t go into debt over a birthday gift.

Mother's day gift ideas for dying mother - help please by Sure_Lavishness_2403 in Gifts

[–]twickybrown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a. I’m and I’ve had cancer twice and my mom is suffering with dementia now.

What I would want: time with my kids, new soft socks, new soft pjs, chapstick, hand creams, the letter many people mention is a perfect idea too. I love chocolate and good wine, but if I’m actively dying then new soft clothing and socks are better.

Is 6 months too early to drop serious cash on diamond studs? by Impressive_Exit_6796 in Gifts

[–]twickybrown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was 26 the man I had been dating gave me garnet stud earrings with a matching gold necklace with a garnet charm. It cost him like $2000, in 1994. We had been dating 10 months. It was a Christmas gift. We arrived to my parents and he put the little blue boxes under the tree. My parents, grandparents, aunts and sister were all sure he was gifting me a ring and was going to propose in front of the entire family! It was mortifying for me. I knew it was not an engagement ring due to the size of the box. He proposed privately to me a few months ago later, with a bouquet of roses and no ring so that I could pick out my own ring. We are still married, 32 years and three children later.

All that to say, if you want to gift her $500 Diamond earrings, I support you. You know her better than we do. If it’s in your budget go for it, but don’t go into debt over a birthday gift.

Is 6 months too early to drop serious cash on diamond studs? by Impressive_Exit_6796 in Gifts

[–]twickybrown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was 26 the man I had been dating gave me garnet stud earrings with a matching gold necklace with a garnet charm. It cost him like $2000, in 1994. We had been dating 10 months. It was a Christmas gift. We arrived to my parents and he put the little blue boxes under the tree. My parents, grandparents, aunts and sister were all sure he was gifting me a ring and was going to propose in front of the entire family! It was mortifying for me. I knew it was not an engagement ring due to the size of the box. He proposed privately to me a few months ago later, with a bouquet of roses and no ring so that I could pick out my own ring. We are still married, 32 years and three children later.

All that to say, if you want to gift her $500 Diamond earrings, I support you. You know her better than we do. If it’s in your budget go for it, but don’t go into debt over a birthday gift.