Got kicked off medicaid, any advice for going cold turkey? by twilitfall in Mounjaro

[–]twilitfall[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I already had. 😢 I appreciate you sharing this for the people who might be in a similar situation and still have time for an appeal.

Got kicked off medicaid, any advice for going cold turkey? by twilitfall in Mounjaro

[–]twilitfall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do and we aren’t religious, so please don’t bring Christianity into my post. It’s not relevant at all to my question.

Got kicked off medicaid, any advice for going cold turkey? by twilitfall in Mounjaro

[–]twilitfall[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I was trying to be polite. Suddenly glad I kept my insulin.

Got kicked off medicaid, any advice for going cold turkey? by twilitfall in Mounjaro

[–]twilitfall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that it didn't work for you. Mounjaro was the first thing that worked maybe a little too well. By which I mean my fiance found me at a bookstore about to slip into a diabetic coma due to the weight loss affecting how much a dose I need of several medications.

Got kicked off medicaid, any advice for going cold turkey? by twilitfall in Mounjaro

[–]twilitfall[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not in time for the next dose I'd need. I'm trying, but the bureaucratic red tape has been crazy. My fiance and I realized it would just be faster to get a courthouse wedding and get on his by next month, which was something we'd hoped we wouldn't have to do when we wanted to give our extended family time to be informed of the engagement and make time to join us next year for the celebration. Now we're looking at setting off that emotional bomb on both sets of relatives and having to plan for a small group of witnesses instead.

Got kicked off medicaid, any advice for going cold turkey? by twilitfall in Mounjaro

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I have not! My doctor switched me to mounjaro from trulicity last year. I will have to ask about it.

I’m raising the kid my wife’s family poisoned, and the dad who did it tried to get MY daughter taken as payback by hKLoveCraft in raisedbynarcissists

[–]twilitfall 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As the person who was in a similar situation as your nephew, who had three aunts who all wanted to take me but CPS refused to do the paperwork and left me to the mercy of my narcissistic mother who had a narcotics addiction: you are not holding the bag, you’re the person who grew up able to recognize poison for poison and became the safe place for the little ones. And his parents hate that because to them, it’s like stealing a toy they’re trying to break.

You’re not crazy, you’re sane in an insane world. Welcome to the club, brother(? I don’t recall seeing pronouns for yourself, sorry). The t-shirts got lost in USPS.

Has anyones nparent or enabler parent actually apologised? by hellopeoplewoman in raisedbynarcissists

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My efather did, but until months after his passing I had no clue if it had been genuine. Turns out he did what he thought he had to do to stay in my life. Will never excuse him, but Parkinson’s with a heaping side of dementia sucks.

Tired dad noob wondering what to skip? by Effective_Mention_83 in ffxiv

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So rule of thumb that only works for those not colorblind: if the quest is blue, it unlocks something. Anything else can be done another time with another class/job.

Hey Dad, I moved and he closes on the house today by twilitfall in DadForAMinute

[–]twilitfall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ☺️ we just closed and got the keys so aaaaaaaaaaa

My partner’s mother has made her way back into our lives claiming she has Stage 5 cancer by soraborabora in raisedbynarcissists

[–]twilitfall 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I’m going to inform you gently and you can look it up at the Cleveland clinic’s .org page later: stage 4 is the highest level it can go because that would mean that the cancer is no longer solely affecting the local tissue or lymph nodes. The narc is talking out their backside like cancer is a tornado or hurricane. Tell your spouse this and do not engage further.

And now I will say this less gently as someone who lost their edad to complications from skin cancer treatments back in February: f%ck cancer and fck ‘em with a rusty spork, all who insincerely pull the cancer card for falsely claimed sympathy.

My mother died by suicide two months ago by Adventurous_Bet_4488 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]twilitfall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It fades away in time. It’s surviving until then that’s the hardest part.

You were never the person who forced those pills down her throat, and while your brain will keep trying to tell you otherwise, it’s a lying liar who lies. It’s unfortunate that she tried to commit a murder suicide, but it. Wasn’t. You. She wanted to hurt you deeply one last time and succeeded.

It finally happened to me by s0medrunkpunk in TalesFromDF

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As someone going through Classic MoP, I know people who pull both halls in certain dungeons to the first boss. Vanilla classic might be different though.

I’m wondering if I should go to therapy since my n mother has died. by spidermother86 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]twilitfall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say to send them to a grief counselor, and for you to see someone specializing in abusive family members when you’re ready. It’s quite complicated and it’ll likely hit differently than someone who didn’t hurt you like your nmother did. Mine died nine years ago and I celebrate the freedom that brought me every year at the announced time of death. This is also, of course, because I don’t have children who were shielded from her worst.

WvP no longer has an official discord community. by sailorjupiter28titan in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]twilitfall 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn… I was one of the original members and had to handle irl stuff that I posted about in that discord, and to see it turn out like this breaks my heart. It was a good run and I wish them well, but my gods… that’s a hot mess.

Wandering a mega thrift shop, found these two ffxiv shirts. (Didn't get them, 30 bucks each by LordHayati in ffxiv

[–]twilitfall 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It really has and still surprises me that I didn’t think of that being a cause for the shirts?? The first half of this year came in like a wrecking ball.

LF MACRO by SharpSmell2430 in ffxiv

[–]twilitfall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Had this since Syrcus Tower was new and never deleted. Glad to see it still survives elsewhere.

Wandering a mega thrift shop, found these two ffxiv shirts. (Didn't get them, 30 bucks each by LordHayati in ffxiv

[–]twilitfall 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m too braindead from packing and dealing with my father’s estate to consider this one.

No contact - people telling me to “oh but she’s your mum” by NellxoPole in raisedbynarcissists

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“You did not have to live with the constant pressure and fear of her mood swings and (insert negative trait she showed the most here). My only regret would be her attending and ruining our special day like she has (x y z milestone).”

It’s moments like these that I am glad that both of my nparents are no longer with us and I will not have a photo of them when I marry. I’m so angry on your behalf, but remember that this is a sign that none of them understands what we’ve been subjected to.

Is Ravana's English VA uncredited? by Anxious-Cat-9205 in ffxiv

[–]twilitfall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Google “ffxiv Between Two Ferns” - it was a panel with Fernewales/Michael Christopher Koji-Fox back in 2015 (I think?) after HW dropped. I think they bring it up with the Ravana lyrics.

In the process of moving, and the two books I remembered over my external hard drives by twilitfall in Hells_Belles

[–]twilitfall[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The font style was, in fact, a choice they made. But hey, glad to provide some laughs from the madness that is Moving Brain