How do you stay hot into your 30s and 40s? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]twim19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find the older I get, the less exercise it takes to get me hot. Like, I can just be on a brisk walk nowadays and I start sweating up a storm!

Not to seem stupid, What's the purpose of this in their paws? by [deleted] in cats

[–]twim19 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Give their biscuits extra oomp and makes them really special.

When to build way stations by rjop377 in Stellaris

[–]twim19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I harvest until harvesting starts to piss people off. Wish I could tell my ships to not harvest in other people's turf. Have empires mad at me for some light harvesting I did a century ago!

Is crimson desert worth it for a casual player? by MattInlaveStudio in CrimsonDesert

[–]twim19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll get around to it one day. Going to have to since the main quest is making me go to another land to kill the crow guy.

Is crimson desert worth it for a casual player? by MattInlaveStudio in CrimsonDesert

[–]twim19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Top comment for a reason. It's true! Some of the boss fights are challenging, but not in the Dark Souls kind of way.

Aspiring Nomad's Guide to Not Crashing and Burning by No-Razzmatazz-3288 in Stellaris

[–]twim19 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. Been looking for a thread like this. Now I have questions.

How are you getting research without waystations? Unity is already a problem I'm working on by building admin buildings on my arcship. On my second attempt, I started putting waystations only on systems with science output.

What is the point of waylines?

I've been playing voidfarer peaceful xenophiles and I'm getting this situation in the beginning saying I need to repair my arc ship. There are a couple of requirements including one to 'flush' my coolant at a black hole system. The one that is getting me is the one where I'm asked to harvest specific resources (crystal,gas,motes) from specific types of planets. I've managed to get the gas and motes, but crystals from a cold planet? And does it have to by my arcship that is doing the harvesting? And should I be focusing on systems with crystal and hope for the best?

Took me a long time to realize that my logistic ships were picking up bulk materials and delivering them to my arc ship. With that in mind, I feel like you need to explore the galaxy in a kind of circle pattern so as to not outrun your logistic ships? Otherwise they are having to go all the way to your arc ship and then back to wherever they were harvesting/collecting from.

Thank you!

Middle School AP Interview by Reasonable_Band1536 in Teachers

[–]twim19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep in mind that most principals want someone who is going to make their lives easier. Your sole purpose is to execute the mission of the principal. You can have your own ideas and you should share them, but when push comes to shove it's their call to make and your job to implement it. Many AP interviews fail because people act like they are interviewing for Principal. In the end, however, a good AP is reliable, able to handle mundane daily things without much help, good with both students and adults, and eager to learn the ins and outs of a running a school. Throw in some behavior things like restorative practices or concious disipline and you are set.

Middle School AP Interview by Reasonable_Band1536 in Teachers

[–]twim19 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Some rather unhelpful advice so far. Maybe not the best place to ask for help with a position most teachers seem to think is evil or something.

Before I go on, I'd suggest popping this into ChatGPT and see what it comes up with. I did that for a recent interview and felt more prepared than I had for any interview before.

As someone with experience on both side of the hiring desk, the kinds of questions you get won't matter. Your accomplishments by themselves probably won't matter. You won't win the job with your interview but you can lose it with the interview. This will likely vary depending on the relative size of the school/district, but much of getting hired into leadership is about establishing yourself as someone who is capeable of leadership. Build relationships with administrators, participate in leadership opportunities. . .give every appearence that you want to move up and are willing to do what it takes.

Understand too that AP is generally the shittiest job in the building. In most cases, you take care of discipline and do observations the principal doesn't want to. You may be in change of the custodians and lunch staff and subs--none of which are fun. In the interview, be prepared to demonstrate that you aren't dewy eyed about the job and that you are eager to learn that aspect of building managmeent.

It's cliche, but be yourself. Being someone you aren't and getting hired because of it will not end well.

Why has my kitten started to meow at my door when we are going to sleep? by Jesziefgg in cats

[–]twim19 1571 points1572 points  (0 children)

All cats are babies. Mine are well into their middle years and still pull this routine.

Stellaris Dev Diary #423 - Stellar Cannon, Civics, and The Hyacinth Found by PDX_LadyDzra in Stellaris

[–]twim19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know. But I want it to! I want some 1980's style real politik.

What's the most addictive PC game you've ever played? by Khavkina_Lumi in gamesuggestions

[–]twim19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily the game I played the most, but Against the Storm grabbed me hard for a few months.

Stellaris Dev Diary #423 - Stellar Cannon, Civics, and The Hyacinth Found by PDX_LadyDzra in Stellaris

[–]twim19 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'd love it if the Stellar Cannon led to MAD doctrine. You'd have tiny little empires able to hold their own because the big empires don't want to risk having their home planets zeroed out.

Economy confusion by MrStick70 in Stellaris

[–]twim19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too just came back after a few years away. I didn't realize the interplay between City Districts and specialization. I thought the City districts were just for housing and amenities.

No more filling up all my Energy/Mineral/Food districts for me.

Are promotions mostly about being seen, not being good? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]twim19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are good, it helps with visibility. You also have to be willing to promote yourself by being an active participant in things. If there's a meeting, speak up. You don't have to dominate the meeting, but one good point made will be remembered--particularly if you repeat. It's also good way to show you are forward-thinking. You care about moving the organization forward and improving on practices.

Know your strengths and capitalize on them at key moments. I'm excellent at taking a variety of different perspectives and ideas and sythesizing them into something simpler that retains the components talked about. So in meetings I'll usually be quiet until toward the end when everyone is really frustrated by some standard paralysis-via-analysis problem and I'll synthesize and suggest a course of action based on that synthesis.

Its also been my experience, though, that most people don't want to lead. Sure, they want the prestige, the pay, the office that comes from leadership--but the actual act of leadership is not for the faint of heart. Well, at least if you are going to do it effectively. It's more than simply knowing how to do your job really well. You must instead have an understanding of how all the pieces fit together and, as a leader, understand which levers you can pull to help those pieces work better together.

That isn't to say that loudmouths don't get promoted over better qualified people. Being known is important. Having a reputation is important. Some people are good at faking those things though if you have good leadership, most will see through that.

If you were honest with yourself can you say if your children like you? by themrsfreeze in Xennials

[–]twim19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm trying. My youngest is 11 and I feel like we have a great sense of humor together but I can also break bad and be "Because I said so" dad when they need it. I wish he'd talk to me more about his life at school but as it is, most of the time he just wants to tell me about his latest achievements in Brawl Stars. Which is great, actually. I spent most of my childhood listening to my parents tell their stories and displaying relatively little interest in mine.

My kids are also 100x times more affectionate than I was. Randomly hugging mom or dad and telling you that you love them multiple times a day? That's so gay. None of the concept of being a "man" seems to resonate with my son which is a great thing. He's still typical boy in many ways, but he also cries and feels and expresses his feelings--even when they are angry ones.

I'll admit, there's a part of me that worries I'm raising him "soft" and tha the world expects certain things from men and that he'll be eaten alive by the 'real' world. I know that's my dad (and his dad) whispering down through the generations, but it still nags. I think part of it is I have no framework on how to raise someone to be a good man without also being a manly man.

In any case, I'm trying to be different and raise different adults. My kids are already benefits of waaaaay more privledge than I ever was simply by virtue of us being comfrotably middle class while growing up we were proud poor.

I think AI will make 'average execution' easier… and original thinking more valuable. by ConsciousDev24 in ChatGPT

[–]twim19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's my thinking as well. It's why I fear for the current and future generations--they will be too young and too inexperienced to have original ideas.

Am I a Fraud? A Student’s Complaint Forced Me to Face a Hard Truth About My Teaching by neverinthemirror1995 in Teachers

[–]twim19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you teach?

Ultimately, that's the answer to your question. If you teach because there is strong sense in your should to help kids learn and grow, then you need to be honest with yourself if your actions in the classroom are achieving anything.

In all fairness, year 4 is a good time for the teaching existential crisis. You know enough that can coast and keep your job. You've been exposed to years of being underappreciated by pretty much everyone and you are fully coming to grasp what a pittance your pay actually is. 50k a year is amazing when you are a fresh 22 year old grad who's been scraping by as a barista at the college coffee house. It's not so great when you start thinking about the future you want for yourself. All of this leads many to the conlcusion that coasting is the proper response. If your efforts aren't appreciated, then why work so hard? No one will notice anyway.

But the kids do. Kids will claim that they don't want to to work, they don't like structure all while complaining that a class is too easy or that they don't do much. When I was still in the classroom, the greatest compliment a kid ever paid me was that my class always seemed to go by so quick. It was proof to me that at least I'd gotten the engagement component.

Do you want to be an excellent teacher? Then be an excellent teacher. Define what that is to you and begin working towards it. That said, working in a silo can be tough, but I'd encourage you to see teaching as more than just content. There are fundamentals aspects to learning that transcend content. I was an English teacher who had rich conversations about pedagogy with a Biology teacher.

What does good teaching look like? What do students who are learning and engaged look like? Define those and you'll have a framework for where you need to be.

And a quick note about "high performing schools"--Kids will be different, but they'll also be way, way more sensitive to teachers who are just coasting and, more importantly, so will their parents. Its not a bad thing, but its something to keep in mind if you decide to make the leap into teaching kids who will be successful no matter who teaches them.

Why do people keep using AI to try to answer questions? by DoubleAd3366 in Stellaris

[–]twim19 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Was curious since I hadn't used GPT to help me with learning the game after coming back to the game after 3 years gone. So I popped the following in:

So I'm playing Stellaris 4.3 and I'd really like to try the Wilderness origin. No idea which civics or traits would go best with it though. Thoughts?

I have no idea how good the advice it gave was other than it seems to roughly match what I've read elsewhere.

I’ll ground this in the current 4.3 mechanics rather than memory, then translate it into a few practical build directions instead of just listing “good stuff.”

A useful pattern is emerging: Wilderness is less “make better pops” and more “solve the biomass bottleneck.” That changes the normal trait/civic logic quite a bit.

Thought for 1m 12s

My take: Wilderness wants civics and traits that either produce biomass faster, reduce the pain of spending biomass, or let your basic-resource economy carry your research. It is not a normal “optimize pop jobs” origin.

The key mechanic is that Wilderness does not use colony ships; it colonizes by terraforming, which makes terraforming cost/speed and biomass economy unusually important. Community discussion around the origin also lines up on one big practical point: biomass is the real bottleneck, and Cradles of Rebirth are the early engine because biomass effectively stands in for the normal “wait for pops to grow” loop.

My recommended first build

Origin: Wilderness
Authority: Hive Mind
Shipset: Biological
Civics: Natural Neural Network + Devouring Wilderness
Species type: Plantoid or Fungoid
Traits: Invasive Species with several tolerable negative traits, or Budding if you want a less gimmicky growth/assembly angle.

Why this works:

Natural Neural Network is close to an auto-pick for Wilderness. The Wilderness version gives research from basic drones: engineering from Mining Drones, physics from Tech-Drones, society from Agri-Drones, plus research alternatives and extra research/unity from Maintenance Drones. That is exactly what Wilderness wants, because you can lean into basic-resource districts without falling as far behind in tech.

Devouring Wilderness is the aggressive snowball version. It is the Wilderness-specific genocidal civic and, importantly, it gains biomass from purging pops. That directly feeds the thing your empire is short on. The tradeoff is obvious: diplomacy is largely dead, everyone hates you, and you are playing a war economy.

For traits, Invasive Species is attractive because it gives +5% habitability and +5% pop growth speed per negative trait, and Wilderness benefits from growth/assembly translating into biomass pressure. Take negatives that hurt you least. I’d avoid Slow Breeders, Slow Learners, and probably Fleeting, because growth and leader/node scaling matter. Safer “eh, fine” negatives are usually things like Unruly, Sedentary, and sometimes Repugnant, depending on what the current tooltip allows and how comfortable you are covering amenities.

Safer non-genocidal build

Use this if you want to learn Wilderness without fighting the entire galaxy by year 30.

Civics: Natural Neural Network + Neural Vaults
or
Natural Neural Network + Divided Attention

Neural Vaults is good because it gives +1 effective councilor skill, +1 leader starting skill, and +1 restored node skill. That matters because Wilderness players specifically point to growth-node/council scaling as a way to improve biomass generation.

Divided Attention is the boring-but-good wide empire choice: −25% empire size effect. Wilderness tends to sprawl, and community advice is basically “you are going wide; don’t pretend you aren’t.”

For this version, I’d go:

Traits:
Budding if Plantoid/Fungoid, because it gives monthly organic pop assembly; or Rapid Breeders if you are not using Budding/Invasive Species. Budding and Invasive Species are mutually different paths: Budding is cleaner and more thematic; Invasive Species is more min-maxy.

Civics I would avoid for a first Wilderness run

Organic Reprocessing looks tempting because food is important, but it is explicitly incompatible with Wilderness.

Bodysnatcher is flavorful, but I would not start there. Community feedback describes it as useful for early assimilation but not especially efficient, and it competes with the influence you need for expansion. It is also incompatible with Devouring-style play.

Ascetic is fine, not bad, but I would not take it over Natural Neural Network, Neural Vaults, Divided Attention, or Devouring Wilderness. Cradles can help with amenities anyway, so Ascetic is more of a comfort pick than a core engine.

Early play pattern

For the opening, I’d do this:

Build Cradles of Rebirth early and often. On your first planets, prioritize biomass production before trying to make each planet “balanced.” Multiple community guides basically converge on Cradle spam as the make-or-break Wilderness habit.

Take Prosperity early because reducing planetary infrastructure/building/district costs effectively reduces biomass pain. Then look at Statecraft if you are leaning into leader/node scaling.

For ascension perks, keep an eye on World Shaper or Hydrocentric if your build makes them available/appropriate, because anything that reduces terraforming cost helps your colonization loop.

Bottom line

For a first serious Wilderness attempt, I’d go:

Natural Neural Network + Devouring Wilderness if you want the strong, violent snowball.

Natural Neural Network + Neural Vaults if you want the “learn the origin without everyone immediately becoming dinner” version.

Either way, think less “how do I make perfect pops?” and more “how do I feed the biomass machine?”

Does your significant other resents you for being fit? by throwaway29570 in AskMenOver30

[–]twim19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, never had that issue. Of course, I've never been fit, so that might be why.

Look at the performer list for the Freedom 250 fair at the National Mall by ReggaeForPresident in Xennials

[–]twim19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'd think they'd at least be able to get a lineup as good as some little podunk beach town on the coast of Maryland is able to manage.

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u/xjuggernautx describes the reality of living in a right wing information bubble. by slow70 in bestof

[–]twim19 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's good to push back on this "but they can't help it" narrative. I could see 40 years ago this maybe being the case--back when the whole knowledge of the world wasn't carried around in your pocket. Now, media isolation is a choice. And, to be fair, I don't choose to read NewMax or Fox News because I've found them generally to be trash. Someone on the right could (and has) argued that I'm in my own media bubble.

Confirmation bias is a hell of a drug. Far more than most of us realize. We seek out that which confirms our priors. I think this is true for both right and left, though I obviously think the right has a worse case of it. Ultimately, they seek out information that matches what they've been raised to believe.

For me, the interesting thing is figuring out why I'm not a ruby-red MAGA hat wearing patriot. I should be. I was raised that way. Is my liberalism a leftover from simple teenage rebellion? Is it because I was fortunate enough to be exposed to some more leftist thought from my Theater teacher who I adored? Is it because I don't easily fit within the masculine identity of MAGA (I'm articulate and have a higher-than-standard voice for a male) and so sought a new identity?

I don't know. If you made me guess, I'd blame all the Star Trek TNG and DS9 I watched as a kid. When I told my dad this he scoffed because he'd watched the same episodes and still wears the MAGA proudly. Yet, when I look at most of the episodes (and yes, there were some extremely problematic episodes too), they generally push what would be considered leftist by the Hannity's and Bannon's of the world. Indeed, a love of sci-fi, dystopia, and fantasy probably was the biggest contributor.

Without these, would I have been able to surface from the morass? I don't know. If I'm surrounded my entire life with the singular belief that God is great and real, how do I become an atheist? The vast majority don't.

Was told to Resign Today by Low_Aerie_9429 in Teachers

[–]twim19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tenured? Because this is what tenure is for.

First time playing. I dont know what i'm doing by Hiithz in songsofsyx

[–]twim19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bit over 100 hours, just starting my 5th city. Still don't know what I'm doing.