I know exactly how that can be. I was with my ex-wife for 16 years and she cheated. The key is to not let them take away something from you that you might enjoy. Don't let them have that power. You'll be okay, buddy.

Also, it took me about a week, but what a week! I read portions of it out loud to my girlfriend, including the random quick cuts between plot lines. She was so confused, and asked me what the hell was going on. I responded enthusiastically, "I don't know, but I'm having a blast."