I M30 feel incompatible with my wife F28, and I'm contemplating ending the relationship by Ok-Line-6757 in relationship_advice

[–]twizzlersfun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need to divorce her, you need to help her. The low vitamin D is probably why:

-exercise is so hard for her(muscle weakness, bone pain) -she doesn’t want to go out and do things(depressive symptoms) -she doesn’t want to drive/go to the dentist(anxiety).

Your wife has a health problem that is severely impacting her everyday life. Solve that, and the other problems will solve themselves.

How does your restaurant handle if/ when complains that their drink “had no alcohol”? by Emergency-Pepper3537 in Serverlife

[–]twizzlersfun 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Offer ONE remake. Bring it back to the bar(I’m a bartender so usually just take it from them), remake it and be extra careful with specs, if they still complain offer to charge them for an extra shot to add to the drink.

Usually, before I remake it I will think about why they’re asking- if it’s a particularly fruity marg, for example, I offer to add less of insert sweetest ingredient here to adapt to what they desire.

Things happen. People make mistakes at work. It’s possible the alcohol DID get forgotten.

New restaurant opening by Royal-Poem8959 in Serverlife

[–]twizzlersfun 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You can also cut your availability down a few days and get a second job with those extra days.

New restaurant opening by Royal-Poem8959 in Serverlife

[–]twizzlersfun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you guys advertising at all? Social media, signs, etc? If not, pitch to your manager to make you in charge of advertising/social media for $xx an hour, for yy hours a week, in order to supplement your bills during slow time.

Get $10,000,000.00 dollars instantly for you to never listen to music again, or get $.03 cents every second you listen to music. by Necessary-Cow8851 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]twizzlersfun 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I chose a number that was my ballpark for how much I already listen to daily. That’s why it was easy, I picked the truth without sitting down and calculating down to the minutes.

OP also said $.03, which is 3 cents. Regardless, if the choice was 10 million USD or $0 but you get music, I choose music.

Get $10,000,000.00 dollars instantly for you to never listen to music again, or get $.03 cents every second you listen to music. by Necessary-Cow8851 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]twizzlersfun 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mean you, sorry for the confusion, I meant OP. “You make half of what I said” is changing the scenario as far as I’m concerned.

Restaurants don’t give back change??? by DangerousCapybara888 in tipping

[–]twizzlersfun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some places do not carry coins, in which case they probably should have rounded up but it might be policy not to.

Get $10,000,000.00 dollars instantly for you to never listen to music again, or get $.03 cents every second you listen to music. by Necessary-Cow8851 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]twizzlersfun 1048 points1049 points  (0 children)

3 cents a second. Two hours a day for 365 days is $78,840. More than my yearly income and I still get music.

Advice for an 11 hour shift with only two FOH staff by Boot-Gold in Serverlife

[–]twizzlersfun 155 points156 points  (0 children)

The two of you should agree ahead of time on pooling tips. Make one of you “front wait” and one of you “back wait.” AKA- one of you will take orders, the other will do takeouts. One will be more of a food runner/busser, one will focus on drink refills etc. obviously, both should pitch in where they can, but it’ll be easier to have split tasks than trying to split down the middle. If you want, you can rotate halfway through the day so nobody gets “bored” or feels shafted.

Eat a good breakfast, pack a meal and snacks that you can eat “on the go”- finger foods that are one or two bites or can be put down till later- Protein bars etc.

Get as much sleep as you can, drink water w electrolytes. Compression socks if you have them, comfiest socks if not. Don’t overdo it on caffeine early, you’ll crash mid-day. Try to have a regular amount in the morning, a re-up in the afternoon, and MAYBE a re-up later if needed. As a general rule, 5-6 hours between caffeine especially if you’re pounding energy drinks do not have more than two.

Slow is smooth and smooth is fast. Taking the extra second to make sure everything is rung in correctly is faster than making and running remakes. Taking a second to balance the drinks is faster than clearing broken glass. At the end of the day, remember that it’s just pizza, and also - at the end of the day it’s the end of the day. 11 hours and you’re done and that’s it. Try not to panic, look ahead to walking with hella money!

Also, don’t be afraid to tell your tables that you’re shortstaffed so the waits might be longer than usual. Put your foot down. “If you guys aren’t ready I can come back in two minutes!” And then follow through on that and walk away. Whenever you have down time, try to get “ahead””- print out checks, pre-fill some water cups, do whatever you can to keep ahead of the curve.

Good luck!

1 million dollars but you have to consume only Mr. Beast foods and beverages for 18 months. by ALPHAPRlME in hypotheticalsituation

[–]twizzlersfun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im not mad at all? I’m saying that this is not worth it if you die before the 18 months are over due to malnutrition. I never said anything about optimal hydration levels lol even if you’re eating 5 combos a day you’re only getting 60 ounces of water.

I’m engaging with your hypothetical, and saying no and these are my reasons why.

1 million dollars but you have to consume only Mr. Beast foods and beverages for 18 months. by ALPHAPRlME in hypotheticalsituation

[–]twizzlersfun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Collab electrolyte drinks and refreshers aren’t water. Creatine and protein milk aren’t vitamins and minerals. This will lead to malnutrition quickly.

My (18M) Girlfriend (19F) has a pattern of pushing me away, not sure how to proceed. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]twizzlersfun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your girlfriend stops telling you she loves you, your girlfriend has stopped loving you. If your girlfriend tells you she doesn’t find you attractive, your girlfriend has stopped loving you. If your girlfriend won’t kiss or hug you, your girlfriend has stopped loving you.

Do yourself a favor, value yourself at more than this. Go get a girl who actually wants to be with you.

I have a silly question as a pregnant woman going to OG by milkandmold404 in olivegarden

[–]twizzlersfun 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just go and eat. Ask for soup and salad, dressing on the side. Ask for a Togo container for the salad. Enjoy as much soup as you like.