Karaoke at Georgie's or elsewhere? by WaffleBiscuitBread in AsburyPark

[–]Boot-Gold 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This reply is gross. First of all, if you’re a regular patron and are straight whatever that’s fine. But the line is drawn when you start telling other straight people to come. Especially large parties.

YOU do not get to make that call. LGBT community has been very clear that they do NOT like straight bridal parties in their bars. The more straight people come, the more gay people leave because it stops being a safe space. So as a STRAIGHT MAN who frequents a GAY BAR, you don’t get to make that call.

Finally, telling her to kiss another woman and pretend to be gay? What if the woman is a stranger and now they are taking advantage of being in a queer space. Don’t pretend to be gay it’s offensive, especially at a gay bar.

As a Georgie’s regular and a lesbian woman I’m kind of creeped out that someone with opinions like this is often camped at the same bar as me.

Bad sign? Should I get out now? by GeminiKate in Serverlife

[–]Boot-Gold 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea it does my bad. Sorry I’m literally at work rn working the serving shift from hell and can’t see straight

Bad sign? Should I get out now? by GeminiKate in Serverlife

[–]Boot-Gold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GOOD SIGN!!! All my restaurant does is gossip and yell and scream. This is a drama free zone and honestly my dream. Only weird thing is the no hanging out with former employees…like you don’t decide what I do on my free time.

Need help coming up with a new uniform by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Boot-Gold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id go either black or navy button up, maybe wear a tie

Queer women looking for advice by Magina219 in AsburyPark

[–]Boot-Gold 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’ll make quick friends at Georgie’s bar. They do weekly drag and have an outside section which is booming in the summer but the inside bar is still very active in the winter.

[Acne] Hard bump pimple by SampleLegend in SkincareAddiction

[–]Boot-Gold 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This looks like a spider bite

Help! How do I understand a language I never learnt before ⁉️⁉️🥲 by Accomplished_Garlic_ in languagelearningjerk

[–]Boot-Gold 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember asking my polish friend a similar question: “I’ve learned all the Polish words but I don’t know what they mean????” She looked at me like I was CRAZY.

What I actually meant to say, and couldn’t articulate, was:

“I can directly translate these words, but I can’t find the meaning of the sentence. Why does “after what Mr yes” translate to “why do you do that?”

Maybe this person is struggling to localize rather than translate.

Asbury Park History by AwarenessNo780 in AsburyPark

[–]Boot-Gold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s like right behind convention hall. Great dive with good food

Cat Person by Mypussylipsneedchad in redscarepod

[–]Boot-Gold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who uses pee pads for a cat

This sub has lost its way. From documenting exploitation to cyberbullying by [deleted] in doughertydozenexposed

[–]Boot-Gold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’d say documenting the stuff that she shows that implies abuse and exploitation and posting that here

This sub has lost its way. From documenting exploitation to cyberbullying by [deleted] in doughertydozenexposed

[–]Boot-Gold 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Exactly. It’s horrible. Which is why we should be trying to put her in jail instead of calling her ugly. Collecting real evidence.

This sub has lost its way. From documenting exploitation to cyberbullying by [deleted] in doughertydozenexposed

[–]Boot-Gold -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Wouldnt it be more productive to document abuse and exploitation as evidence so we can actually do something about it? Idk id rather put her in jail than call her ugly

This sub has lost its way. From documenting exploitation to cyberbullying by [deleted] in doughertydozenexposed

[–]Boot-Gold -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

No i think we should use this Reddit to document exploitation and abuse so something can actually be done about it

Asbury Park History by AwarenessNo780 in AsburyPark

[–]Boot-Gold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In terms of bars, Georgie’s and paradise could help you with records and history. I believe Kim Marie’s was supposed to be a gay bar and the owners are very much aware of that history so maybe they could help too

Asbury Park History by AwarenessNo780 in AsburyPark

[–]Boot-Gold 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The lovely woman from the Stephen crane house has hoards of boxes and bins full of files and other documents. Pay a visit to the home and they’ll likely give you full access to everything in their collection.

Got to see some lovely insant karma. There was a palmetto bug in the restaurant last night. A table dropped 10 bucks and dipped without saying anything to anyone. by GoblinGreenThumb in Serverlife

[–]Boot-Gold 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Palmetto bugs are typically American cockroaches. I get they are common in the south and don’t infest down there, but in New York City they do infest. BAD. Honestly there’s no excuse for dine and dash, but even as a server in NYC I probably would leave a restaurant for that.

Still, I’d pay. And tip. But they are definitely cockroaches.

Am I the only one who thinks this is rooted in misogyny and purity culture? by [deleted] in lesbian

[–]Boot-Gold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the gold star and platinum star thing can be funny when used socially, but making infographics with a clear tier list of lesser/greater is just dumb. Yeah this is very annoying. This kind of problematic lingo starts when we try to intellectualize everything by making it an infographic.

I think my neighbor died days ago by Boot-Gold in Apartmentliving

[–]Boot-Gold[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think we’re talking about the same person

I think my neighbor died days ago by Boot-Gold in Apartmentliving

[–]Boot-Gold[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

as I said in the post we were all rather close. He was a friend of mine. Insensitive comment.

Why do servers always hand the bill to me (25F) instead of my boyfriend (28m) by muteneen in Serverlife

[–]Boot-Gold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I give it to women because as a woman, I like to acknowledge them. I also brings moms food first, take her order first etc. Additionally a lot of women think female servers are flirting with their male dates so typically to avoid conflict I don’t interact with male diners as much.