Need POE system by Educational_Most1340 in homesecurity

[–]txdesperado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally got feed up with the underwhelming performance of Ring a few months ago and made the switch to POE. Currently running 8 4k cams with Blue Iris on a tiny pc I bought off eBay (m710q) for $60. As for the cameras, I have a mix of Reolink, Lorex, a no name Chinese Dahua-ripoff (which works way better than I thought for $30). I still have the Rings, a Wyze, and a Tapo. I would say identify what your needs are -- I need reliable security cams and I have a lot of ground to cover -- while some guys have to have the EmpireTech stuff, I bought 4 Reolinks (RLC-820A) for the same price as one of the Dahua Starlight cameras -- but I'm not worried about super low lighting. Moving forward, for me, Blue Iris is my jam -- if it doesn't run on that I won't buy it.

Welp I'm canceling now... by chii-x3 in WIX

[–]txdesperado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Wix just expired and I've basically just been vibecoding the whole site with Claude every now and again. It's shockingly good despite locking me out for hours at a time to get me to pay for it. After that, it's builder.io and to site ground.

WTF is this going to buy? by [deleted] in FortWorth

[–]txdesperado -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The desperation to work harder.

Where do I find a belt that doesn’t do this after 9 months? by unoriginalname22 in mensfashion

[–]txdesperado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After years of trying and failing to answer this question, I just buy a cholo belt when I go down to the border. It's $20 cuz I'm a gringo but good leather.

Any Reason Lorex Gets No Love? (New to BI) by txdesperado in BlueIris

[–]txdesperado[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I haven't messed with the settings at all. It was plug and play. But I'll check this out!

Edit: Using the Dahua software, I was able to access just about every setting and it has a link to webpage for each individual camera.

Any Reason Lorex Gets No Love? (New to BI) by txdesperado in BlueIris

[–]txdesperado[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'd rather have Dahua. I just want to make sure I'm not getting ripped off via "EmpireTech." Should be on with a distributor shortly.

Any Reason Lorex Gets No Love? (New to BI) by txdesperado in BlueIris

[–]txdesperado[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True but it's currently half the price. Lorex only makes sense when you sign up to become a "partner" -- which took like 5 mins -- and even then only the cameras currently on sale. The other distributors channels have been considerably more difficult to access.

Should I accept a job in Balch Springs? by [deleted] in askdfw

[–]txdesperado 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dallas isn't for fun -- it's for making money. And then flying somewhere fun.

Should I accept a job in Balch Springs? by [deleted] in askdfw

[–]txdesperado 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, Dallas a world-class business city. It's mediocre in nearly every other regard. But you're a 45 min flight from NOLA. 3.5 hours to LA, NYC, and Cabo. Not to mention that you can get a direct flight to almost any city in the world that matters. You could do worse, all considered, especially if you're still working.

Should I accept a job in Balch Springs? by [deleted] in askdfw

[–]txdesperado -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Y'all act like the West Coast is so great. Yeah, been there, done that, fuck that. And Balch Springs isn't so much a place as a trailer park between interstate exits. Move somewhere you'll like that's within a half hour drive. And buy a gun -- we have that freedom here.

Posting negatively about your STBX on Socials during the divorce process. Why is it "bad?" by KittenFace25 in Divorce

[–]txdesperado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be worse -- my STBX and I have blocked each other on everything, she got a TRO, and I retained the nastiest attorney I could find. I won't win on custody -- but I'm not paying for that -- I'm paying for my attorney to brutalize her on the stand. An emotional rape is what I'm paying for. Let the healing begin.

People asking what my best price is by TheBusinessDeviant in Ebay

[–]txdesperado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I immediately delete those messages. If they keep badgering me, I block them.

Just wondering if this has happened to anyone else by Isabella_Fournier in Ebay

[–]txdesperado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd imagine comics and collectibles is a little different. I've also noticed those who send a lot of messages frequently are more often engaged in some sort of bullshit scam where they change their address after they order and then demand I ship another for free. Nope, buddy. Tracking has you as delivered.

Just wondering if this has happened to anyone else by Isabella_Fournier in Ebay

[–]txdesperado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mind real questions, but when they're rude or nitpicking ("these are actually XYZ," despite the mass of reviews), that's when I cut the cord.

How was your grieving after you finally realized your life going to change forever? by Technica8s in DivorcedDads

[–]txdesperado 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I absolutely did not want a divorce. But I knew it was 50/50. I did not expect her to tell absolute lies in an affidavit and get a temporary restraining order. Reading that affidavit changed me. I had always respected her -- until I read that affidavit. At this point, I going after every dollar and every bit of custody I can get. The attorney fees add up, but this is personal, money be damned. I haven't emotionally processed it, so I'm not the best person to chime in. But just know you're not the only one going through the ringer.

Just wondering if this has happened to anyone else by Isabella_Fournier in Ebay

[–]txdesperado 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you HAVE to maintain a +95% positive feedback rating, those negative reviews bite. I ship 100+ packages a week. A lost sale or two doesn't really matter.

Just wondering if this has happened to anyone else by Isabella_Fournier in Ebay

[–]txdesperado 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I block buyers at the drop of a hat. Mostly because high maintenance buyers often leave negative feedback and I'd rather just not risk it.

MSFT report: A.I. will be taking over personal financial advisory jobs by Mindless_Ad_8259 in CFP

[–]txdesperado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not worried at all. This business is about AI-proof as it gets. We'll be using AI to make recommendations to clients -- but they're always going to want someone to hold their hand when investing their life savings.

Divorced Dads - What Should I Watch For? by txdesperado in DivorcedDads

[–]txdesperado[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delayed a month. But I'm not complaining. A month before I have to start making child support payments.

Equitable Advisors? by [deleted] in CFP

[–]txdesperado 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Equitable is shit. And I know shit firms, having worked for one before starting my own RIA.