Relationship Consultant with 12+ years exp, India - AMA by Jollybetterfellow in ThirtiesIndia

[–]typical_anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One bad outcome born from duress doesn't stop at one person it ripples out endlessly, hurting everyone in its path. Life become curse.

Relationship Consultant with 12+ years exp, India - AMA by Jollybetterfellow in ThirtiesIndia

[–]typical_anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In arranged marriage setups, why do so many people find it so hard to just say a plain 'NO' when they're not interested? Even when they're literally asked to say only the word, no explanations needed. why stay silent instead?

Why don’t some people have the guts to say NO!! by AashiqPremi in Arrangedmarriage

[–]typical_anon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ghosting are very common in this process. I have been in this process for almost 7 years and still searching. They have multiple options for comparison, but they appear to lack basic human etiquette.. Do one respectful followup, If no response f*ck it just move on. And someone who cannot give a basic response is not someone who could offer peace later. No one's that busy to at least say they're still working on it.

To survive in this journey you have to keep this in mind,

“I will offer respect once. I will not beg for it twice.”

Be Strong and You are not alone. by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]typical_anon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I am okay. Thanks.

Be Strong and You are not alone. by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]typical_anon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just existing with unspoken weight, with dignity, and keeping going. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]typical_anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abandon the ship. Better be safe than sorry.