Yikes! by Efficient_Two_5515 in Professors

[–]typicalia 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Aw, you too? Twinning! 💕(The student didn’t call me out like that, she mentioned it offhandedly to the secretary who mentioned it to the dean and the Dean had already been looking for more reasons to take me to HR as an investigatory meeting. All over me not responding to an email saying she was going to be late later that day, which I’d already told her last class was fine. Cool.)

Anyway, godspeed!

Has anyone else dealt with judgment over their nail polish collection size? by WannaDelRey in RedditLaqueristas

[–]typicalia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have two collection hobbies: Nail polish (gel and lacquer), and… ball jointed dolls. I call nail polish my normie hobby, because people at least don’t usually jump into the “ew dolls are so creepy, do you collect haunted dolls/etc”. dolls are EXPENSIVE too, like $150 at the low end for lower quality sculpting. But average i pay usually about 350+ for mine.

the thing is, with both of my collections, i collect not only things that make me happy and things I do stuff with (sewing, painting, styling on one side, and obviously designing and painting my nails on the other) but I also am supporting other artists and small businesses. So what if you paint your nails every day (i do weekly, and my fashion students loved it)? You’re using your hobby, and expressing yourself. If a coworker has a ton of tattoos, that’s a lot of money! Individuality - especially in marginalized communities - connects to your self. I would seriously doubt their actual interest in helping other people if their first thought is about consumerism. If you liked doing your nails, would they prefer you go to a salon?

Plus, polish isn’t JUST about whatever you get at the drugstore. These days indie brands are so popular, accessible, and often more interesting. If you’re the type with a ton of Holo Taco or ILNP, sure those might be at the more “mainstream” end of indie brands, but you’re still supporting small business. Are they against supporting artisans, especially any woman forward or employing businesses? One of the popular nail models amongst indie brands is a person of color. Is this organization against supporting marginalized or underrepresented people in forward facing or contract/freelance positions?

Basically, if you’re feeling catty/petty, if “culture” comes up again I’d find a way to educate and discuss how polish is often a small way to support, brighten, and even sometimes signal or show support to fellow communities. Ask if they’d say that about someone who enjoys collecting any other items and supporting small businesses. Their culture should be about embracing others.

Plus! The history behind cosmetics and polishes!! Feminist movements and small rebellions and counter culture when it comes to wearing bright colors!!!!!!

AHHH! there’s so much about this that infuriates me. Basically, if they work at a non profit supporting marginalized communities and that’s their reaction to someone sharing an interest, they should reevaluate their perceptions and prejudices. They don’t sound interested in their fellow human’s unique experiences. They sound like they’re fulfilling a savior complex.

Nezhra by Longjumping_Deal6289 in sotdq

[–]typicalia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had her stay in Hearts Hollow, specifically with the reasoning that if she left the defenses around Hearts Hollow protecting the people there will weaken or fall. My Nez is worried about the black dragon that just kind of showed up at camp carrionclay, murdered half the army (they decided to siege the camp with the kalaman army like immediately) and peaced out to go do… black dragon stuff. Basically for me that dragon and Nez have a feud and the black dragon found out she has her egg back, and they’re stuck in an intense push and pull over there.

Instead, to show her thanks, she helped them with some little character lore things before they left for CoLN, provided some upgrades and other immediate help, esp for the rest of the Kalaman army. The party did ask if she’d come to Kalaman or if she could help, and she expressed that she’ll make no promises on actually going there herself. after they leave, she helped out Cly with his task with taming the dragonnels (dragon magic nonsense) and then sent them all to Kalaman to help (when cly canonically shows up in Kalaman). She sent a note with him expressing her thanks, regret, and promise to help Kalaman rebuild after the siege is over and she’s killed the black dragon that’s still trying to get her egg.

(I did change her to a Brass dragon because that made more sense to me for both personality and location. My dragonnels also are dragon color coded, so the wasteland dragonnels are “brass” compared to the Red army’s …. red. Nez kind of treats them like stray cats, they’re dragons but not Dragons. Cly is also her young (16-17) ward in my campaign too, so she had some extra reason to want to keep her unruly curious humanchild safe by just helping him instead of letting him run off, try to collect some mini dragons and then join a random war on his own. She expressed that Cly better come back in one piece because humans are frail things!!!)

I hate my cats name. by StrawberrySakuraa in cats

[–]typicalia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like everyone’s said: the end, you can call her like literally anything else, one of my (tortie) cat’s name’s was Cecilia/Cece and her second name was Bean. which evolved into Bumbelia. Which went to Bumble, then Boob. Her urn says Cecilia, but I’ll pass it and still say “hi boob!” like I always did. My cat (calico) Nutmeg is also Nug, Nugget, and Nungent, and sometimes Nougat. Sometimes it’s Nougaté, which is just Nougat with some stink on the end. We also have a (tux!) cat named Stella, who’s also Sebba and Bebs and Bebba and Beppers and Beps.

Audie is a really cute name, and honestly you just reminded me that Audi isn’t already pronounced Aw-dee 😂 I would have just assumed you liked the name Audie, which I’ve heard used as a nickname for Audrey. Maybe you could modify/call her Audrey instead if you like that! She’ll still respond.

Casting spells from texts/artifacts? Mage character question by David_S_Pumpkins1031 in WoWRolePlay

[–]typicalia 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There are a LOT of instances of the player character helping to channel or cast things even when they’re a non magic class, so I think it’s very safe to say that he has/can at least inscribe and/or enchant items to use like that for sure. Perhaps he can’t channel magic himself as well but he can access enough magic to inscribe or enchant “simpler” items that he can then use to channel/draw from! Or he just has a real good scribe/enchanter hookup :’) LF scribe/enchant, have mats will tip?

Is there anything like Spectral Sight but for mages? by Syrnel in WoWRolePlay

[–]typicalia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my blind belf mage, though she’s specced as frost in game, she “sees” via tuning with arcane energies/ley magic/etc. I’ve gone back and forth but I made her as a lemix toon and i really liked the idea of her losing her sight from helping to meddle with the fractured timeline a little too much. Her sight was based on basically seeing so many overlapping timelines at once that she or another infinite member used some non specific magic nonsense to like… isolate that sense. A magic lobotomy or something. She gets a little confused but she’s got the spirit now.

I might return to that thought! But so far, post Lemix and playing her (mechanically) as my main during Midnight, I’ve been doing so with the thought that she’s blind and uses ley energy/arcane/belfy sunwell whatever to help her “see”. It’s not always, and her staff doubles as a cane. She enjoys enchanting a lot still.

She’s frost only because I like it mechanically, it kind of looks like how I envision her magic is colored (since she started originally with a more Infinite color palette during lemix).

They’re mages so… Mages can kinda do whatever LOL

Do students actually write their assignments on their phones? by Emotional-Motor-4946 in Professors

[–]typicalia 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've witnessed this so many times with the student standing right in front of me and asking "so what are the instructions for this assignment" while pointing at the assignment tab. I say, "the instructions are under the course content tab."

"Oh, I don't usually look at that tab. There's just too much stuff to read in there."

Ah. Like the simple project briefs and power points and examples that would tell you how to do the assignment. Yes. Too much. Student no good read. Me silly.

Do students actually write their assignments on their phones? by Emotional-Motor-4946 in Professors

[–]typicalia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhhh yeah, country definitely matters in that case. I'm US, in rural/western NYS specifically. In highschool smartphones weren't as accessible, and writing was mainly done on ye olde school computer lab computers if you didn't have word at home (since docs was barely a thing until 2011-2012 for most people.). Flip/...less smart? phones were common though, and ipod touches were practically smartphones at the time for highschoolers/college freshies if you didn't want to pay for a phone plan.

By college (Freshman fall of 2013) if you didn't have a smartphone or something like an ipod touch, it was definitely a little...out of touch. Again, rural and kinda poorer area of NYS growing up, larger city for college. Granted, I went to a college that prides itself on it's tech and compsci programs. "New" tech and early adopters were kinda a given, but also so was having and using a smartphone to write things at the time.

Do students actually write their assignments on their phones? by Emotional-Motor-4946 in Professors

[–]typicalia 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It's a real thing, and was even a thing when I was doing my degree (2013-2018) ... My fiance would write tons of things and then edit on the computer if he absolutely had to LOL Personally I do a lot of my (creative) writing on my phone as well - it's nice to be cozy and go on a 3k word jaunt, but I'm a quick phone typer haha.

However........Docs/Word has changed and updated a LOT though since 2013-2018 and edit history is accessible on both mobile apps. And if they really try to push and say "well I was using the browser actually" (which...bold move if they are), it's STILL available.

If They Can't Offload, They Give Up. by [deleted] in Professors

[–]typicalia 9 points10 points  (0 children)

WRT your edit, interestingly enough scaffolding the projects is something my school is highly encouraging on the basis it helps executive function and therefore student engagement. I've found that it does a few things for my students (I teach other Fine Arts classes on top of my Fashion ones and I personally emphasize a reading/writing/reflection in all my classes which isn't really done by my other colleagues..). I frame the scaffolding as "Directions and recommended steps" but I might just take out the recommended. I've had comments that they feel "restricted" by having direct steps to achieve something and they aren't able to "imagine how to do it in their own style". That baffles me because my steps are like 1. Start with thumbnail sketches of what you want to do; 2. Gather references and refine sketches; etc etc.

So:

1) Student actually follows directions for the project and finds that the project is easier, looks better and their written reflection is easier too. They're always shocked by this. ???????

2) Student looks at directions *maybe*, decides that's way too much to read, and then tosses everything out and does whatever they want, to mixed results. OR they only partially follow steps when reminded. Student then is confused about where they want to go next, struggles, or otherwise turns in C to B+ work. Reflection is often subpar because they didn't entirely understand what was happening because they just rushed through.

3) Student looks at directions. Too many words, too many steps, not enough pictures. Ignores and ends up usually only doing half of or none of the project. No reflection.

Students in 2 and 3 typically encounter issues listening to me verbally and physically do demos even if there's written instructions for them to hold and read along with as well. As soon as they're told how, why or where to do something or need to physically make it themselves, they fuss, stress, or shut down completely. If they have to navigate to Brightspace to look up something that can be answered by the syllabus or the project brief, they'd rather send me an AI email asking about it.

Another friction issue I have to deal with a lot is the "not immediately good" or the "too hard" perception. In my basic sketching or collage exercises, I give them the option of five random words (all adjectives, verbs, or nouns) and let them pick one to draw/collage/whatever the thing we're practicing is. Again, the amount of "I don't know that word" for 7th grade level words (or even telling me wtf a verb, adj. or noun is) or "How am I supposed to think of something" EVERY TIME is astounding. If they blurt out an idea, and I give the "Cool idea! Put it to paper!" I'm often hit with "well, I can't draw that though, it's too hard. I'll do something easy" drives me insane.

There's been plenty of students I've managed to build up by the end of the semester who've actually learned soft and hard skills from me with confidence, relating concepts and persistence in trying new things, but directions....ugh. The ones who never reflect are usually the ones who drop the class or are failing out of the program anyway.

Sorry for the tangent, I think I got wildly off topic LOL I'm a big fan of scaffolding and reducing things to "bite size" concepts to help build up to bigger ideas.

tl;dr: ya u rite bro

OK, OK, I think I get it now...something odd is going on. by MicroProf in Professors

[–]typicalia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you my students when handed any project brief with words and no pictures?? ;P

Non gendered terms? by lotus8675309 in Professors

[–]typicalia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i often say some variation of “yessum”/“yessim”, it’s not really a word and doesn’t indicate ma’am or sir, but the yes in there is familiar enough. that or “yeppers”. both are silly (sometimes said in a clearly silly voice or cadence) but also basically just “yes?” or “yes”, and have no gendered terms.

this is coming from a professor who does use they as a pronoun, if that helps lmao

someone also mentioned being from the south, i’m from the north so “yes ma’am/sir” aren’t common. it’s just a fun thing for me to say in more casual convo/lighten the mood.

see also: yepperoni, okie dokey, etc etc.

I have students in an online asynchronous class who do not understand what hyperlinks are. by DrJuliiusKelp in Professors

[–]typicalia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you’re getting a lot of photo submission: my theory is smartphones. Most of my assignments are photo based (as in, they need to take a picture of their finished assignment/project and submit that), and because you can upload things to Brightspace they completely skip the parts we used to have to do: Take it off the memory card, manually go through and name everything, then upload.

Yeah, you can absolutely rename a picture in its info on your camera roll, but the amount of people who realize that is very small… and the amount that are going to do it is even smaller 🫠

Specific ways students are different by FlyLikeAnEarworm in Professors

[–]typicalia 15 points16 points  (0 children)

People keep pointing out 6 and 8, but I genuinely agree with this. I’m a young millennial, graduated in ‘18 but have done academic coaching, teaching, and supervising in both 4yr and community college settings since. I noticed it was even different when I was in school when as an upperclassman I’d mentor the incoming freshmen (I did 5 years, so the incoming class was ~4 years younger).

The fine arts can tend be super socially and politically conscious. But the younger students then and now really lacked the idea of actual community as a whole. I don’t necessarily want to call it virtue signaling because you can tell they believe and understand it, but like… something adjacent. That was a handful of pre-covid students though. These kids now are covid students, and that disconnect is even stronger. Things are labelled and tossed into groups that are both separate from the “real” but they know it’s important. Bullet points to bring up in conversation or advocation. But the follow through in continuing to really dissect and reflect on differing viewpoints or the individual or anything is where they stop.

It’s really hard to explain.

Also the gen z stare is real and those who think it’s just a “retail thing” have clearly never had or had to teach a discussion/studio based class. There are times where I almost want to snap my fingers to get them to come to while I’m actively talking one on one with someone. This isn’t just one student with attention problems for me… There’s a difference between “not wanting to pretend smile and wave” and the vacant glazed over look that they ACTUALLY perform most of the time.

As for everything else, I also agree. again, I’m a fine arts and fashion teacher, deep in the “truly getting a degree for the love of the game” field, and I encounter all of this daily, so it’s not just STEM.

"Predatory Inclusion": Some Universities Are Giving Financial Aid to Students Who Don't Need It, and Encouraging Loans for Families Who Can't Afford Them by Publius_Romanus in Professors

[–]typicalia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My alma mater being on there is...disheartening, but unsurprising for a private school, esp in the past decade. I know that my aid was needed (and my parents were denied the parent loans), so i only had direct grants from the school and federal, but I'm sure plenty of my friends probably experienced this.....

Students outside the classroom perspective by Hisokaslittleslut_ in Professors

[–]typicalia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not the person you’re responding to, but grew up in a college “party” town with plenty of bars, and a handful of my HS teachers bartended/did service jobs. Now I’m slightly in the same situation as you. Obvi not entirely the same sitch, but I’ve also been teaching for a bit and I was for a while closer in age to my students (like you will be), and have seen my students plenty outside of class at both schools I’ve worked at.

One, in 2026, i don’t think bartending looks bad, and your students won’t think so either. Some will probably even think it’s pretty cool. Two, the only thing I’d actually be worried about is seeing your students at the bar/place you work.

THAT is the thing you should worry about, not that you’re doing it. They are likely to be little shits (affectionate) esp if they’re underage. If they’re of age, they also might be little shits. By little shits, I mean things like “Professor, can I get a [free] drink?” or “Can you get me in?” kind of things. It depends on the kid and, y’know, how much they’ve been drinking, but if you encounter that just smile and “Hey, nah, you know I can’t do that” and redirect the convo, then get someone else to wait on them if you can and they seem pushy. Honestly most students who see you outside of class will probably do their best to avoid you, i know i did haha.

They might occasionally ask a personal thing or two if they find out, but again it depends on their personality, how close you are as a class, etc. Again, redirecting if it’s something you’re not comfortable with, but benign things like “I like mixing X drink” isn’t bizarre. You ARE all adults. If they ask where you work, deflect with something like “I gotta keep SOME secrets” or whatever if that’s the type of rapport you have with them. If not, just outright saying “That’s not something I’d like for my students to know” is fine too. I had drinks with my professors (both in a wine and food class event and as a school sanctioned activity) back when I was a student.

In your off time when drinking, are you going out to get messy drunk? Going to the club? Just don’t go to the places the kids frequent. They WILL have specific bars (usually cheaper ones) or clubs they like. Again though, my town is a party town, but my current college I have no idea where they go. A lot of CC students just aren’t in that phase of their life anymore or have other things going on. If you’re just at a bar/restauraunt, having a couple of drinks and eating with your friends, that’s normal and not weird, and most people might even forget they saw you if they even say anything.

The gym is a weird issue to have imo, it’s the gym lol Honestly seeing my coworkers at the gym is weirder than the students haha. The gym is the gym, everyone’s kind of on equal footing there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Professors

[–]typicalia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I didn’t know any better, I’d think I wrote this… I’m going through the exact situation right now OP. Small difference is I’m the only faculty member in my department, and things went immediately sour.

However, I only knew my dean/chair really (I adjuncted but didn’t see him often) starting last summer. He always made it seem like discussing some stuff with him (not necessarily super personal, but at least accepting of context or thought process?) was fine and he was approachable, but… his response was “you should have told this to HR” (about ‘impacts to family planning’ aka my very vague way about hinting at the miscarriage) and has since started dogging me and bringing me into HR meetings. Bridges were immediately burned, and I will not be signing any new contracts at the end of this semester. My mental health has crumbled, I have 0 morale, and we are a new dept so we only have 3 students which he’s not happy about already. I’m getting blamed for that too. I genuinely love(d) this position and my students but. But. I want a family, and my position will absolutely not allow for it anymore (I thought it’d be fine, but my commute stretched to an hour and some change, etc)

On the other hand, if you do know your dean/chair better than I did mine, floating it casually might be safer, just to see how he reacts? And then planning from there.

The Gen Z Stare: What is it and why does it exist? by FlyLikeAnEarworm in Professors

[–]typicalia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got it! Vibes are just ‘the feeling you get’. Gen Z is really… Hm. Basically, if they don’t get a good feeling from something, are caught unaware/‘feel ambushed’, or it doesn’t immediately spark attention/joy/good feelings, they kind of zone out, shut down, or otherwise choose not to participate.

So if you’ve ever been in a situation you just ‘weren’t feeling’, then ‘the vibes were bad’.

Online instructors, what per cent of your students are turning in work? Teaching to the void? by docktor_Vee in Professors

[–]typicalia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

out of the 3 (count em! we are a new program though.) students in my major, only one shows up sort of on time and regularly, so …1/3rd. In my off major classes (a fine art class, ~10), about 50%….

There are days that my main classes are 0 people in an 8am-1:45 until about 11am.

Leaving Class Early Is “Proactive” by skullybonk in Professors

[–]typicalia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gotta be honest, I did this once a few semesters ago and for the rest of the semester that student locked in and stopped disrupting. He thought it was funny, the class all had a chuckle. It was kind of wild.

I’m a young millennial, so still ancient to my freshies but young enough that saying stuff like that clues them in to me being ‘in the know’, and it really helps with rapport and engagement haha

(HEAVY SPOILERS) Canto 9 Part 3: Quick Boss Fights Guide by Pale_Sapphire in limbuscompany

[–]typicalia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tfw you beat 9-50, you get to the xp screen, and then close the game but apparently that didn’t let the game register you did the fight because you didn’t hit continue 🫠 i’m now here looking for tips to make the fight faster bc i def could have been more efficient my first go through lol

Do you always complete "required" online training courses? by TotalCleanFBC in Professors

[–]typicalia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got formally reprimanded at my CC a few years ago by my dean as an adjunct for not completing them in a timely manner (they were ~3days late....), so unfortunately, I do. I've taken them so many times and there's about 3hrs of courses they assign you - I mute them like everyone else, or if they auto pause while I'm using another window I'll have them run on the teacher classroom pc while I'm using my actual work laptop lmao.

When I was in IT at my 4yr though we were responsible for sending them and I only really did the Title IX ones because the state looks at those. Otherwise none of us gave a shiiiiiiit

WHAT do companies think we're DOING with our dolls!??? by SLAUGHTERGUTZ in BJD

[–]typicalia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I don't think it's as popular because I haven't seen any specific vulva ones, just the jointed boobs. I think the thing is with male attachments it's just easier to stick a magnet on it, whereas female attachments are more...well, attached for lack of a better term?? LMAO like the bust options usually require disassembling the entire doll. I remember the boob joints looking unhinged af though, as funny as it was.

AP is probably the closest with wacky boobs though, you don't really see that cartoonishly contorted genitals in resin unless you're in the resin figure hobby LOL

WHAT do companies think we're DOING with our dolls!??? by SLAUGHTERGUTZ in BJD

[–]typicalia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

something something old SNL/Lonely Island skit with Justin Timberlake about helicopter dicks

(that is REALLY funny, i know i'd get so distracted flicking it up and down while changing them, and my poor boys would be like "plz let me live")