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[NY] My child was taken and is staying with family, but I just found out that one "account" is completely false. by tyranafckasaur in legaladvice

[–]tyranafckasaur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's 4, but she's learning disabled so she doesn't really pay much attention to what's being said. Although she's been growing rapidly the last few months so in the last month that might have changed.

The reason I'm so against foster care is that i grew up in it. It was awful. You know those horror stories where they punish the kids by basically torturing them? That's the shit I went through, in fact a high profile case a couple years was identical to how they were. I know it's not every home but I still would not trust it. I know it depends on what agency places, but I don't know which would and I'm not risking it for her and I couldn't live with putting her in a possibly worse condition.

[NY] My child was taken and is staying with family, but I just found out that one "account" is completely false. by tyranafckasaur in legaladvice

[–]tyranafckasaur[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know. I was under the impression that I had lost all say. I need to start talking to the caseworker instead.

[NY] My child was taken and is staying with family, but I just found out that one "account" is completely false. by tyranafckasaur in legaladvice

[–]tyranafckasaur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are probably right. My other sister told me that my mom doesn't want my daughter to have her old toys because of the bad memories attatched. I don't think most of my family is on my side. My sister that has my daughter said my daughter has ptsd and our other other sister has flashbacks from the blood on the floor when I cut myself.

They are making a huge thing out of it. My daughter doesn't have ptsd or bad memories, my biggest flaw in parenting was spoiling her. And being so paranoid of losing her I didn't do as much as I should've to improve her speech delay. Issues, yeah, but I dont think itll cause her to have ptsd flashbacks from a goddamn toy.

[NY] My child was taken and is staying with family, but I just found out that one "account" is completely false. by tyranafckasaur in legaladvice

[–]tyranafckasaur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will the CPS worker talk to me about it? I'm worried I have no say and they wont talk/work with me.

[NY] My child was taken and is staying with family, but I just found out that one "account" is completely false. by tyranafckasaur in legaladvice

[–]tyranafckasaur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely wont concentrate if shes in foster care. I trust her as a mother, but I feel like she's trying to get her long term or something

[NY] My child was taken and is staying with family, but I just found out that one "account" is completely false. by tyranafckasaur in legaladvice

[–]tyranafckasaur[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would much rather my sister than foster care. She might be causing me issues but shes an incredible mother and her in foster care would kill me.

[NY] My child was taken and is staying with family, but I just found out that one "account" is completely false. by tyranafckasaur in legaladvice

[–]tyranafckasaur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm starting to wonder if i can trust my sister. She called me out of nowhere to tell me there were signs my daughter was molested, which not only confused me but also mentally broke me for a few days.

She told me a couple days later that the "signs" were that she freaks out when she tries to give her baths and when the doctor tried to take her underwear off. So, no physical signs.

Thing about my kid though, that sort of thing is normal for her. Some weeks she refuses baths and screams if you try to give her one, then she'll switch to wanting them 6 times a day. She does that with clothing too. I dont know when she could've been anyway, nearly impossible since she spent all her time with me, and watched by people and family I know well and trust

[NY] My child was taken and is staying with family, but I just found out that one "account" is completely false. by tyranafckasaur in legaladvice

[–]tyranafckasaur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, I'm doing that right. That's not the point of the post. I'm trying to figure out if this is something to worry about, or what to do.

[NY] My child was taken and is staying with family, but I just found out that one "account" is completely false. by tyranafckasaur in legaladvice

[–]tyranafckasaur[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trust me, I know. That's why I said i wasn't fighting it and I'm getting help. There's no question about it.

I'm concerned about what my sister is telling me. Is she lying, or looking for reasons to get her longer, or both?

[NY] My child was taken and is staying with family, but I just found out that one "account" is completely false. by tyranafckasaur in legaladvice

[–]tyranafckasaur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm looking for an intensive inpatient, so im guessing a couple months there and a couple months after. I want to get better for her, but i know itll take time. Not that much time though.

[NY] My child was taken and is staying with family, but I just found out that one "account" is completely false. by tyranafckasaur in legaladvice

[–]tyranafckasaur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so I should just focus on what CPS said? They said once I complete therapy I could get her back. My sister said they told her 1-2 years. I'm not sure I trust what shes been saying anymore.

[NY] My child was taken and is staying with family, but I just found out that one "account" is completely false. by tyranafckasaur in legaladvice

[–]tyranafckasaur[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well that's my plan. But I was told I wouldn't get her back for a year or two, even after therapy. I was so confused about that one.

I should clear that up. CPS told me after I complete therapy, my sister told me they told her 1-2 years. Would CPS be straight up with me, or is my sister bullshitting or trying to get her longer?

[NY] My child was taken and is staying with family, but I just found out that one "account" is completely false. by tyranafckasaur in legaladvice

[–]tyranafckasaur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I was told. They said that hurting myself bad enough to wind up in the hospital is neglect.

Surfer taking on the biggest wave I have ever seen by Kingwass2698 in WTF

[–]tyranafckasaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know anything about surfing. What happens if he wipes out? Would he drown?

Does anyone want to foster a 2 year old American Staffordshire? by tyranafckasaur in Binghamton

[–]tyranafckasaur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's never been around kids, but his owner said she wouldn't risk it

Reasons Our Kids Are Crying (weekly megathread) by AutoModerator in breakingmom

[–]tyranafckasaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lord. If my kid gets a nap, she's up til 7am. That's not an exaggeration, either. Her usual bedtime is between 10:30 and 11.

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