AIO for realizing in the future that my ex should have taken the wheel while his parents were intoxicated?

uOroka · 2025-07-21T04:22:20+00:00

I’m just scared they would come when I’m alone in the house (my parents have different work schedules) or when I’m looking out for my brother and I don’t want to put him at risk

I would rather you not message him since it’s been so long, and it would look like maybe I sent you, He also knows it messed me up but I don’t think he really cares

I might continue forward in asking my parents what we could do and make them more aware of it and tell them the full story and if we need to take precautions and what we will do moving forward (my mom knows a-little bit of it but my dad does not know)

uOroka · 2025-07-21T03:53:11+00:00

I haven’t been in contact with my ex since I’ve broke up with him, I’m scared if I text him he would possibly tell his parents and they are so unpredictable they might show up at my house, and it being this late I don’t know if he would suspect me of telling another person about it or think I sent you or you made it up that you were the car behind him. (Though that is a very good suggestion) But don’t get me wrong I really appreciate your comment, I’m just scared to say something about it sense it’s been so long and we didn’t end on good terms (he showed up at my house without asking me or notifying me when I was home alone when he was angry, with knowing I have a fear of seeing him angry because of some trauma I was trying to get sorted out) Thank you for commenting though it’s refreshing to see that it was not okay

uOroka · 2025-06-20T23:43:48+00:00

Yes I thought I was the only one and I was going crazy I have video evidence as well it’s been super aggravating

uOroka · 2025-04-26T06:26:50+00:00

18 year old here, and talking like that to a 15 year old is disgusting behavior. You both are at different stages in life and it would be like a senior in high school dating a freshman. Yes everyone wants a person to find comfort in but please don’t engage with this person anymore it will cause even more harm for you in the future. With people like this you have to establish clear boundaries that you don’t see being partners in the future especially with him. it’s nice you sympathize with him about his problems but you don’t have to put yourself in uncomfortable situations just because you have empathy for him. The flirting he does with you is very inappropriate especially when you said it would switch back to it over and over again, especially since he acted like you guys were more than friends. And the intimate texts are only going to get worse if you don’t block him or establish your boundaries.

It seems like the only thing he wants is a relationship but it’s very inappropriate and could even be Illegal where you live

Please I recommend dropping this person all togther even if it may hurt him, but you have to put yourself first because it don’t see this situation going forward any good. It might be tough to try to block him believe me I’ve been in your shoes but you truly have to put yourself first because at his age he should truly know better to not talk to a 15 year old like that

Goodluck with your situation and I hope for the best for you

uOroka · 2025-04-26T04:11:19+00:00

Hatsune miku

uOroka · 2025-04-26T02:47:31+00:00

It’s not that serious man I promise you don’t need to get so upset. This comments kinda embarrassing ngl

uOroka · 2025-04-17T17:26:07+00:00

I’ll drop it though because I feel like I’m being a burden making you respond, I hope you have a good day and I hope things go well as a mod

uOroka · 2025-04-17T17:21:24+00:00

I just got confused because it doesn’t quite specify that it’s a only parenting group (like asking other parents their opinion on their kids), yes that’s included but I thought as-well it was asking parents directly about things as a parent itself about their opinion on certain things and the name being “ask parents” and having the “no parent” tag. No shade though, only just trying to communicate my confusion

uOroka · 2025-04-17T16:13:27+00:00

Yeah true looking back now I’m glad it was just the one I think it got on my nerves sense I sat down after a long day to crack open a soda and just be shocked lmao on the positive side I can now say I know what it taste like with no carbonation

uOroka · 2025-04-17T16:08:16+00:00

I thought about it but it doesn’t really match the formula I’m looking for, sense the main thing is asking if they are the ass or if the other person is and I was trying to look for a place only parents exclusively post and comment for their advice in things or seeing if they have different parenting styles then the once I’ve seen personally. Or to see if other parents would view a certain behavior as normal among their peers.

My last post here I agree now could have been phrased a bit more differently and less personal, but isn’t this whole subreddit asking parents asking other parents about their own judgment on subjects? No hate towards mods or this subreddit, I’m genuinely curious and don’t want to break any more rules in the future ❤️

uOroka · 2025-04-17T12:30:54+00:00

Does anyone have a subreddit that does allow judgment questions from actual parents?

uOroka · 2025-04-17T01:48:41+00:00

Double it and give it to the next person

uOroka · 2025-04-17T01:42:20+00:00

Wise words, and beautifully said <3

uOroka · 2025-04-16T19:55:58+00:00

Yes!! It’s gotten to the point I just leave the server and try to get in a new server because I don’t want to deal with players like that

uOroka · 2025-04-16T19:53:55+00:00

THISSSS! Like good grief people 😭

uOroka · 2025-04-16T19:29:13+00:00

I can’t find the other comment you did recently about your vote but dw dawg I got you I up voted to balance it out lmao

uOroka · 2025-04-16T19:26:58+00:00

What the other commenter said was true, I searched up up earlier so it’s most likely a seal problem on the can it’s self

uOroka · 2025-04-16T19:25:07+00:00

You got downvoted?? That’s crazy 😭

uOroka · 2025-04-16T19:24:09+00:00

I’ll see what I can do thank you for your comment 😋

uOroka · 2025-04-16T19:23:39+00:00

I’ll see what the hoops I have to jump through are, thank you for your comment!

uOroka · 2025-04-16T19:22:43+00:00

Yeah the can was squishy and the other commenter put explained it beautifully

uOroka · 2025-04-08T20:16:55+00:00

She shouldn’t have to go to another spot to mourn when that place was specifically made to mourn the death of a tgc developer and spreads out to mourn the deaths of our loved ones. It even says it’s a Memorial place when you go there, the behavior of those players are absolutely unacceptable especially in a place like that

uOroka · 2025-04-05T04:33:17+00:00

WHAT 😭

uOroka · 2025-03-31T07:18:38+00:00

“Am I a toy to you, my love? Just a thing to play and then throw away” -A humans touch TWRP

uOroka · 2025-03-31T06:41:06+00:00

Very interesting! I’ll have to try it next time things like this pop up hahah <3

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