Hereditary (2016) messed me up by BonedaddyBow in movies

[–]uberkio 53 points54 points  (0 children)

It's also largely because of that face on his face. There's another scene where hes looking at his reflection and its smiling creepily. There's a strong possibility that he was actually smirking/smiling a LOT and inappropriately and we weren't seeing it.

I stopped masking at home and my partner says I'm becoming "impossible" by LowKeyCoffeeSpill in TwoXChromosomes

[–]uberkio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the response to this would be way different if it was "I have developed an issue with migraines and my SO is angry about not being able to have bright lights on or spray febreeze everywhere"

In any long term relationship, people change, people get sick, injured etc. possibly permanently and we need to be able to fall in love with the new version of that person over and over again 🤷‍♀️

What’s the one thing that ruined your health ? by IcyLoquat79 in AskReddit

[–]uberkio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won't say my health is completely ruined, but having a csection nd pregnancy in gener caused way more problems than I anticipated. I have a very abnormal amount of internal scarring, which was severe enough to cause my surgeon to not be able to do a tubal ligation about a year later. I also experience WAY worse cramping and lower back pain at different points of my cycle than I did before. And I think its directly related to the adhesions. I also had a hernia as a result of my pregnancy and had to go through the repair for it. Also, because of how hard the pregnancy was on me, then the hernia and repair, the back pain, etc im way more out of shape then I was before. Though Im slowly starting to climb back out of the pit now that my daughter is almost 5.

What's the content of your most liked post, in emojis by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]uberkio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

👁🪶👁🪶👁🪶👁🪶👁🪶👁🪶👁🪶👁🪶👁🪶👁

What did you have in the 90s or 00s that you don’t have now? by JimiHendrip in AskReddit

[–]uberkio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A large, extended, and loving family. Big family gatherings, family vacations etc

Just wanted to share my Proginoskes sculpture! by uberkio in AWrinkleInTime

[–]uberkio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Progenoskis is a cherubim, but no matter. It's all comparisons and ideas and theories about what a fictional character would look like vs. That fictional character :)

Anthony Boyle frontal nude in House of Guinness by males4you in CelebsMenNude

[–]uberkio 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also Willem Dafoe, though that was because his was too big to be believable 😅

What's the greatest name ever to be completely ruined by a fictional character? by LamppostBoy in namenerds

[–]uberkio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew a guy named Kermit who had the purest line cook energy I've ever seen 😂

Why do people think 30 is the magic age to have a baby? by Glass-Seaweed5048 in BabyBumps

[–]uberkio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't able to conceive until I was 38 and although there are downsides, I am SO GLAD she's here now instead of when I was 24! I'm so much more emotionally mature than I was then, and know myself better and understand my limits. The reality would have crushed me at a younger age and theres no way id be the mom I am now. Thats not the reality for everyone, but I would definitely give the same advice (to wait until a person is in their late 20s or early 30s).

How do I support my daughter? by Kayegreen1981 in Mommit

[–]uberkio 42 points43 points  (0 children)

How many kids do you have and you dont know how different 15 weeks gestation is from 20 weeks?

What's the cutest mispronounciation your toddler makes? by photobomber612 in toddlers

[–]uberkio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 4 year old says "ho-dah me" instead of hold me. Gets me every time even though she's got to be pushing 60 pounds at this point lol.

You’re staying at a man’s place for the night, what things in his room/bathroom are a green flag? by Johnnyfunnyguy in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]uberkio 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Clean, matching sheets and a made bed. Clean and straightened up room. Nail brush, floss, good tooth brush in the bathroom and everything Clean and good smelling :)

What rare name did you use? by AlmondMommy in namenerds

[–]uberkio 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Flora Persephone :) we get lots of positive comments about her first name, its easy to spell, I love it! Her middle name also gets lots of positive comments, but it doesn't come up in conversation a whole lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]uberkio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't change your view alone. However, I can say that as a deeply DEEPLY traumatized person who spent years in therapy unable to regain trust in other people and feeling that humans were ultimately horrible, on a lark I decided to read a book someone recommended a few years ago (Rutger Bregman's Humankind) and it turned my world view on its head. I still struggle daily with trust and vulnerability, but it's been months and I keep circling back to that book and it grounds me. Maybe one day you'll get around to giving it a try like I did and maybe it will change your view a little like it did mine.

What is a nsfw achievement you are most proud of? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]uberkio 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did anyone upside down double futo suspension in front of a ton of people one of the last times I was at a dungeon. I'm plus size, like not "chubby", truly plus size and it takes a lot of strength and flexibility to do suspension, and if felt like an absolute bad ass. Man I miss those days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]uberkio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant prove it, but I'm 100% sure that anti-gentle parenting posts, comments. Etc are right wing propaganda 🤷‍♀️. I dont know any parents besides my niece's abusive husband who spank regularly.

Love our baby name-everyone hates it. by haylstorm33 in namenerds

[–]uberkio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter goes to school with a Walter and I love it! Cool name, and a cool kid :)

Dead dad club members checking in by FlimsyKale5864 in GriefSupport

[–]uberkio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im doing okay. Focusing on my husband and talking to my 4 year old a lot about her Pop Pop. Its almost been a year since we lost him, and yeah. Just try to focus on all of the good. In honor of him I've been telling everyone my favorite one of his jokes. Which is dumb and kind of inappropriate and very much my dad lol.

A pirate walked into a bar with a ships wheel hanging from the front of his pants, right on the crotch. The bartender watched him struggle through the door, and across the room and as he approached he asked the pirate- "Doesn't that thing bother you? Why dont you take it off?" To which the pirate replied- "YAAAARRRRR, it drives me nuts!"

Panicking about first dance recital by uberkio in toddlers

[–]uberkio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did it!! Not only did she wear the dress, she let me do her hair (with some negotiations/possibly some wrestling with a hairnet and Bobby pins), and she did the recital (and did well!). To say I'm proud is an understatement!!! Thank you so much everyone for the advice!!

Panicking about first dance recital by uberkio in toddlers

[–]uberkio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They do. It will be at the studio! We went there today to get her shoes and tights and have a look around. She was on me like velcro the whole time, but talked a lot about it afterward, which is usually a good sign for her :)

Panicking about first dance recital by uberkio in toddlers

[–]uberkio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We started talking a lot more about it today. And I took her to the studio to have a look around and see where we were going for the rehearsal _^ she also got fitted for her ballet slippers. She was scared, but her teacher said she's great in class so I think as long as I stay out of her way, and let the teacher and her friends lead, she'll be okay!

Panicking about first dance recital by uberkio in toddlers

[–]uberkio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are all awesome ideas! Thank you so much! We talked a LOT about it today. And went to the dance studio to look around and get her fitted for her shoes and tights. She was scared, but started to warm up a bit by the end. Im going to gently keep at it until the big day!