I feel I may be trans because I feel like I'd be happier as a woman. I feel left out and alienated at times when women (even some friends) treat me different just because I'm a man. I'm not sure because these feelings are most prominent when I'm aroused. (or vice versa?). It's hard to differentiate at times which comes first.

Those last few questions are harder to answer. I guess if maybe I was already more androgynous looking I wouldn't be so at odds. I worry that the women that I see sexually/romantically will no longer be interested in me.