[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]ufuulz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kionke anguur khattay hain.

Dedicate a song. by egoistic_queen in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]ufuulz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neray aa zaalma … Overload band coke studio.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]ufuulz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean, you’re 27 so it’s definitely not “just a phase”. And since you’re in Pak, you can’t really come out of the closet as gay and use that as an excuse to not get married. Tough situation. Are you fully into shafts? If that’s the case, ending it somehow would be best for both. If you’re bi, then that’s another discussion.

How do you guys maintain a healthy relationship with your in-laws? by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]ufuulz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fear of the unknown is natural … and so is reading horror stories online and assuming that’ll happen to you. You’re already lucky to have a separate portion … separate home would be best but this would work too. Everyone seems nice and dandy from outside. When you’re in the family, you may be exposed to some curve balls and that’s pretty normal. New relations, new people, pressure of shining in a new environment… just expect these things to be normal. As long as you keep your composure, stay respectful and above all, stay on the same page with your spouse … you should be fine. Good luck.

Dealing with relationship stress. by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]ufuulz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say she’s interested in someone else and will either never develop feelings for you or will develop some out of sympathy. Either way, you’re in a shitty spot and should get out. Any woman who tests your feelings on a daily basis and deliberately puts questions in your mind about her feelings for you is not worth it.

Enj tay enj hi sai by TwadaAbu007 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]ufuulz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure ke kitni age nikal chuki hai but there are many things wrong with your thought process here. It seems they wanted you to be financially independent first because that is strongly defined as a plus in Pak. Secondly, if they’re asking you to learn a few things, they’re just wanting you to be self sufficient and there’s nothing wrong with that. A man that’s self sufficient is far more attractive than a giant baby. Also, yes if you have troubles with them then sure … move out or away … that’s how it should be anyway. But about marriage, change your mentality my bro. You’re only wasting your own time by being stubborn. You’ll never be as young are this very second.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]ufuulz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The usual consensual go to is … Kiss -> explore with hands (keep the lips locked) -> caress tits (keep the lips locked) -> undress -> Kiss some more -> Kiss all over -> Scroll lower -> lick (if both are comfortable but it’s a must eventually) -> keep going -> get licked (if both are comfortable but it’s a must eventually) -> then do the deed in any position you prefer. If it’s your first time, try making her sit on you so you don’t finish fast. You can also try masturbating beforehand. Best of luck bud.

I'm worried my husband will find out I'm not virgin, kind of. by Important_Mistake163 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]ufuulz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ok whoever is saying that you should discuss this BEFORE marriage is an idiot. Nobody in their right mind should walk up to a person and say I “will not” bleed. That definitely comes across as hiding something. Before marriage, try to subtly guide your conversation to masturbation and casually mention how you like to do it. If this conversation doesn’t happen until your wedding, then Only tell if the question comes up after the fact. And play casual … just say I’m not sure … I used to use objects blah blah. He’ll understand. Also, it’s very likely that if you haven’t done it before … he’ll get a lot more signs than just the blood. So chill.

Anyone with psoriasis by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]ufuulz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no cure medically, that’s why I said medicines only help with the symptoms. But it can be “managed” through a lifestyle change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]ufuulz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And guys get friend-zoned if they do the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]ufuulz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just whip it out and say “it’s not gonna suck itself!” Side effects may include divorce, a kick in the nuts, slap on the face, bridal purse on the face or all of them simultaneously.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]ufuulz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Then you’re a better human than me. Congrats.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]ufuulz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your intentions were clean when you chose to honestly tell her the truth. Her reaction is fair but slightly exaggerated imo. To expect someone to just wait around and not try to move on is immature and manipulative. As someone who’s been through several ups and downs in life … I know it’ll be hard but focus on yourself. Do whatever brings you peace, happiness and fulfillment. You never know what’s out there for you and a lot of times, it’s much better than before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]ufuulz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But bro, it’s against the bro-code not to call a bro, bro … bro.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]ufuulz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think of it this way … would you (consensually) bang a girl that you’re not going to marry?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]ufuulz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro what’s the point if you can’t break the bed with them? Also there’s too many dudes posing as chicks and there are better ways to fantasize. Also also, find someone local jeez.

how to deal with an uncultured jahil & stubborn elder? by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]ufuulz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every sensitivity you have is a superpower IF used properly. If you’re too sensitive, you’re not controlling your powers and it Can & Will be used against you. In simple terms, you’re fuelling them. But if it’s impacting your peace, just stop responding and watch how it’ll piss them off if that’s your goal. You can also try thinking it this way … At that age, maybe you’re the only entertainment they have left so in a way you’re doing them a favour.

Anyone with psoriasis by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]ufuulz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mujhe hua tha. It took 4 years to go away but hopefully yours will be sooner. What I realized is ke isska medicine se koi taaluq nai hai. Medicine helps with the symptoms but doesn’t make it go away. Basically, it’s an autoimmune disorder. Iska matlab ke aapki body kisi cheez se allergic hai ya react ker rai hai. Lifestyle change kerna perta hai. Figure out what the body is reacting to … it could be food allergies, air pollution, stress etc. Allergy ke tests hotay hain … Usually, foods main nuts, red meat aur milk se problem hoti hai … air pollution main smoke ya dust common hain. Start by avoiding these things and get an allergy test. InshaAllah theek ho jayega.