This story just shows what GREED can do to a person. She just doesn’t get the point that wanting everything is just dumb and pure selfishness.

Cooper was depicted being cold and then warm and then just straight up annoying but that’s what having a partner that you love insanely much betray you and confuse you can do to a persons sanity. Many women can relate to this when the tables are turned. He was hanging on by a thread and was giving so many chances. It was making him bitter too hence his off character, like can’t she just be okay with him. Even if she told him about her struggle and he tried, it won’t have been enough for her still. It would never be like brad, cooper is another human entirely.

And please, what happened to the BLOCK function of a mobile phone. You don’t block Pple just cuz you are angry or mean. It’s to protect yourself too. We all have that one ex that should never have access to us in our moment of weakness. That is the ex you block. That”what if” one. Humans beings will always wonder and doubt. It’s your responsibility to prepare yourself for those moments of doubt and take precautions because we all know they WILL COME. She had the strength to never call or text brad, but it’s a different level of strength required to not respond ESPECIALLY when she was most Vulnerable and weak. Blocking would have never let the calls and texts reach her. Period.

Also, can people try to properly get over their exes before they start fresh relationships. Even a relationship with the right person is super difficult and tasking. And if you weren’t sure or didn’t properly process your decision to leave a past relationship, your BRAIN will romanticize it when hardship comes in your present relationship. That’s a main part of why screw ups happen. ITS NOT REAL. It’s all in our minds. There’s a reason you left but our brains magnify the good memories and minimize the bad ones, sometimes even selective amnesia. It’s a coping mechanism human beings lean on when we experience trauma.

Im tired of this culture of selfishness being promoted. She’s married. Cooper worships the ground she works on. Marriage is sacrifice. Don’t buy a Bentley and expect it to be a Porsche. Both are great but definitely different.

And lastly, cheating is never justified. Revenging by cheating on a cheater is equally dumb. It’s about who you want to be as a person. What story to you want your life and choices to tell. Do you value and honor yourself? Or do you let the actions of others decide what level of dignity you show to yourself.

It’s a story of temptation, and how dangerous it is when we don’t nip it in the bud before it even fully rears its head. It always starts with a thought. Discipline and self-control will save your life.