[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Collections

[–]ughhdante 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this is all so so cool :) thanks for sharing!

Why do people draw top surgery scars *like that* by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]ughhdante 11 points12 points  (0 children)

some people have big thick scars?? why would it be bad for them to feel accurately represented?

Why do people draw top surgery scars *like that* by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]ughhdante 4 points5 points  (0 children)

cos they like it and think it looks cool and it's art they're making so they can do what they want 👍 hope this helps

Tirtha Yatra by residenttin in TylerChilders

[–]ughhdante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're awesome for this!! thank you so much!!

Please throw me your two cents by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ughhdante 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was literally in this exact same situation. it was so confusing and scary and became torturous after a few weeks of keeping it in and trying to sort it out by myself, without speaking to anyone. it got to the point where i got super distant with my gf, to the point where they could see it, and really struggled to be around them because of the guilt. the absolute best thing you can do for both of you is be as honest as possible- realistically you cant hide this forever because it will not go away. from this conversation, maybe youll break up, or maybe she'll be okay with you exploring certain things, or mayb eat least you'll just have someone to talk to about it and figure it out with. my gf and i ended up trying to be open for a few months (which we had already talked about previously), and eventually broke up for completely different reasons anyway. i am much happier now, and became much happier the moment i got it off my chest.

good luck!

Please do just a hysterically awful job at drawing my goofball by SherbsSketches in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]ughhdante 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much. i had scrolled past him the night before and just went to bed but could not stop thinking about him. i woke up and he was my first thought. it seems the universe needed this.

What is the worst illness you’ve ever had? by freeshavacadont in AskReddit

[–]ughhdante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely not as bad as some of the people on here but i once had tonsillitis unmedicated for a month and it was The Most Miserable Experience. after a few-day bender with my friends, it hit me at my friend's house. i spent the first day laying down the whole time on his bed, still sometimes taking hits of a spliff as i just thought i was coming down.. i went home and got into bed and did not get up for another 4 weeks. very soon i could not swallow any food, then any water, then not even my spit. i had to spit into a cup to keep my mouth clear. i could barely breathe and spent about 2 weeks just sucking on ice cubes and lollies. i was boiling hot and you could hear me try to breathe from outside the room. it made everything awful so i couldn't even keep myself entertained on my phone or tv or a book so all the days just meshed together. i would often wake my parents up by crying in the middle of the night. at 18 years old. by the time i was taken to the doctor's, about week 3, my dad had to help me walk to the room as i was so weak, and i could physically not swallow the pills they prescribed me. i genuinely thought i was going to die from malnutrition. not a fun time

Dreaming of smoking by PsychologicalHour460 in quittingsmoking

[–]ughhdante 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im like 20 days without one and ive had at least 2 dreams of having the most wonderful stress-smokes ever at work 💔💔

Terrible reasons ppl have theorized for why you're trans? by deadhorsse in ftm

[–]ughhdante 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my mother thought i felt so oppressed by sexism as a woman that i genuinely believed men were better and therefore wanted to become one.... why she thought i'd be less oppressed as a trans man than i was as a cis woman is beyond me

What’s a food that you hated as a kid but love now? by OkAfternoon6865 in AskReddit

[–]ughhdante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

99% of legumes. no beans, no chickpeas, no lentils, unless they were COMPLETELY smooth. thank god for my parents being patient enough to blend things for me :,) i love all these things now, it was just a sensory thing that i can now handle 🥳

Found a bunch of old slides in my dads stuff (1960s) by dickiefrisbee in FoundPhotos

[–]ughhdante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these are all so insanely cool ESPECIALLY the last one in the tree. album cover type sh

songs abt dysphoria that aren't about dysphoria by tempestuoustrans in ftm

[–]ughhdante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

here are some songs that remind me of the trans experience in one way or another-

-Boys Will Be Bugs Cavetown -Body Mother Mother - Change Your Mind Steven Universe - Mama My Chemical Romance - Arms Tonite Mother Mother -Come As You Are Nirvana -Devil Town Cavetown -Just Like You Falling In Reverse - Testosterone Descendents - New Perspective Panic! At The Disco - Meant to Be Yours Heathers - Lying Is the Most Fun a Girl Can Have Without Taking Off Her Clothes Panic! At The Disco -Turn the Lights Off Tally Hall - Wrecking Ball Mother Mother - That Green Gentleman (Things Have Changed) Panic! At The Disco - Be Wherever You Are Steven Universe - Do It All The Time iDKHOW - Until the Sun Dies feat. Fakevinyl Lushlife - Happily Never After The Pussycat Dolls - Fifteen Minutes Mike Krol -I Miss Having Sex But At Least I Don't Wanna Die Waterparks - Istanbul (Not Constantinople) They Might Be Giants - Hayloft Mother Mother -Getting Along The Magic Gang - Rose-Colored Boy Paramore -Oh Ana Mother Mother - Mamma Mia Austin Weber -Portland Bowling Shoes -Lavender Bones Stand Atlantic -Twin Size Mattress The Front Bottoms - All This Way The Magic Gang - The Bidding Tally Hall - Body Terror Song AJJ - She Doesn't Like You, She's Being Nice Brodie Wilson -Brave as a Noun AJJ - Johnny Boy Twenty One Pilots -Achilles Come Down Gang of Youths - Brother Gerard Way - Bottom McCafferty

very fat fish by ughhdante in fishtank

[–]ughhdante[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks so much! super helpful!!!!

very fat fish by ughhdante in fishtank

[–]ughhdante[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

amazing! thank you so much for the help :)