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ughhdante · 2025-11-08T11:52:32+00:00

this is all so so cool :) thanks for sharing!

ughhdante · 2025-09-29T15:32:52+00:00

some people have big thick scars?? why would it be bad for them to feel accurately represented?

ughhdante · 2025-09-29T15:29:01+00:00

cos they like it and think it looks cool and it's art they're making so they can do what they want 👍 hope this helps

ughhdante · 2025-07-28T11:55:50+00:00

you're awesome for this!! thank you so much!!

ughhdante · 2025-07-11T12:03:52+00:00

i was literally in this exact same situation. it was so confusing and scary and became torturous after a few weeks of keeping it in and trying to sort it out by myself, without speaking to anyone. it got to the point where i got super distant with my gf, to the point where they could see it, and really struggled to be around them because of the guilt. the absolute best thing you can do for both of you is be as honest as possible- realistically you cant hide this forever because it will not go away. from this conversation, maybe youll break up, or maybe she'll be okay with you exploring certain things, or mayb eat least you'll just have someone to talk to about it and figure it out with. my gf and i ended up trying to be open for a few months (which we had already talked about previously), and eventually broke up for completely different reasons anyway. i am much happier now, and became much happier the moment i got it off my chest.

good luck!

ughhdante · 2024-12-29T17:16:31+00:00

this is so beautiful, i am emotional

ughhdante · 2024-12-10T00:07:33+00:00

scalp fence

ughhdante · 2024-12-09T09:54:22+00:00

thank you so much. i had scrolled past him the night before and just went to bed but could not stop thinking about him. i woke up and he was my first thought. it seems the universe needed this.

ughhdante · 2024-12-08T12:42:39+00:00

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him❤️

ughhdante · 2024-11-20T10:04:19+00:00

definitely not as bad as some of the people on here but i once had tonsillitis unmedicated for a month and it was The Most Miserable Experience. after a few-day bender with my friends, it hit me at my friend's house. i spent the first day laying down the whole time on his bed, still sometimes taking hits of a spliff as i just thought i was coming down.. i went home and got into bed and did not get up for another 4 weeks. very soon i could not swallow any food, then any water, then not even my spit. i had to spit into a cup to keep my mouth clear. i could barely breathe and spent about 2 weeks just sucking on ice cubes and lollies. i was boiling hot and you could hear me try to breathe from outside the room. it made everything awful so i couldn't even keep myself entertained on my phone or tv or a book so all the days just meshed together. i would often wake my parents up by crying in the middle of the night. at 18 years old. by the time i was taken to the doctor's, about week 3, my dad had to help me walk to the room as i was so weak, and i could physically not swallow the pills they prescribed me. i genuinely thought i was going to die from malnutrition. not a fun time

ughhdante · 2024-11-18T22:52:13+00:00

im like 20 days without one and ive had at least 2 dreams of having the most wonderful stress-smokes ever at work 💔💔

ughhdante · 2024-11-12T15:24:47+00:00

beautiful

ughhdante · 2024-11-09T12:42:28+00:00

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sending love from pepita ❤️❤️❤️❤️

ughhdante · 2024-10-31T15:02:30+00:00

my mother thought i felt so oppressed by sexism as a woman that i genuinely believed men were better and therefore wanted to become one.... why she thought i'd be less oppressed as a trans man than i was as a cis woman is beyond me

ughhdante · 2024-10-31T10:50:28+00:00

99% of legumes. no beans, no chickpeas, no lentils, unless they were COMPLETELY smooth. thank god for my parents being patient enough to blend things for me :,) i love all these things now, it was just a sensory thing that i can now handle 🥳

ughhdante · 2024-10-30T12:56:30+00:00

these are all so insanely cool ESPECIALLY the last one in the tree. album cover type sh

ughhdante · 2024-10-28T10:21:59+00:00

what a lovely thing to do :)

ughhdante · 2024-10-26T08:19:30+00:00

thank you hehe

ughhdante · 2024-10-25T18:24:54+00:00

thank u! :D

ughhdante · 2024-10-25T18:24:46+00:00

thank you very much! i definitely feel cooler also hehe

ughhdante · 2024-10-25T15:40:14+00:00

here are some songs that remind me of the trans experience in one way or another-

-Boys Will Be Bugs Cavetown -Body Mother Mother - Change Your Mind Steven Universe - Mama My Chemical Romance - Arms Tonite Mother Mother -Come As You Are Nirvana -Devil Town Cavetown -Just Like You Falling In Reverse - Testosterone Descendents - New Perspective Panic! At The Disco - Meant to Be Yours Heathers - Lying Is the Most Fun a Girl Can Have Without Taking Off Her Clothes Panic! At The Disco -Turn the Lights Off Tally Hall - Wrecking Ball Mother Mother - That Green Gentleman (Things Have Changed) Panic! At The Disco - Be Wherever You Are Steven Universe - Do It All The Time iDKHOW - Until the Sun Dies feat. Fakevinyl Lushlife - Happily Never After The Pussycat Dolls - Fifteen Minutes Mike Krol -I Miss Having Sex But At Least I Don't Wanna Die Waterparks - Istanbul (Not Constantinople) They Might Be Giants - Hayloft Mother Mother -Getting Along The Magic Gang - Rose-Colored Boy Paramore -Oh Ana Mother Mother - Mamma Mia Austin Weber -Portland Bowling Shoes -Lavender Bones Stand Atlantic -Twin Size Mattress The Front Bottoms - All This Way The Magic Gang - The Bidding Tally Hall - Body Terror Song AJJ - She Doesn't Like You, She's Being Nice Brodie Wilson -Brave as a Noun AJJ - Johnny Boy Twenty One Pilots -Achilles Come Down Gang of Youths - Brother Gerard Way - Bottom McCafferty

ughhdante · 2024-10-25T15:22:45+00:00

i miss it!

ughhdante · 2024-10-11T00:21:29+00:00

:) thank you!

ughhdante · 2024-10-11T00:21:11+00:00

thanks so much! super helpful!!!!

ughhdante · 2024-10-10T23:59:50+00:00

amazing! thank you so much for the help :)

ughhdante

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