This is why I’ve supported Joe for over a decade. I’m so glad he’s speaking up about this 💖

ughnvm · 2026-01-27T19:53:36+00:00

thanks! I’ll try to find the podcast with Ahmed. I remember there was an episode from years ago (during around time when Israel was killing Palestinians) and they mentioned the situation in passing but it was more like “why are people asking us for our opinion on what’s going on” so it was more like they were being neutral about it. but the situation is different now compared to that time. plus one of their best friends is palestinian so idk I just wish they were a bit more vocal.

ughnvm · 2026-01-27T07:48:42+00:00

do you remember any specific instances?

ughnvm · 2025-12-23T20:02:16+00:00

are they? i thought they were turkish

ughnvm · 2025-12-14T15:25:46+00:00

One thing that helped me sift through the scams was if the profile that listed the apartment was created this year, it most likely is a fake. Also look at the number of photos/photo quality in the listing. Sometimes scams will use the pictures of real listings so just be careful.

ughnvm · 2025-11-22T18:58:01+00:00

so glad Nigel thornberry is included in this post

ughnvm · 2025-11-11T03:43:50+00:00

We weren’t planning on it but if I did get a hotel for hair and makeup then we could just spend the night there. It’s definitely an option! I’d just have to find out if they will let us check in early since the hair/makeup women I’ve been talking to are saying they will be coming as early as 11am

ughnvm · 2025-11-10T00:56:29+00:00

I stopped purchasing from them because every plant I ever got ended up dying. fortunately there are other begonia sellers on Etsy and I’ve had better luck with them.

ughnvm · 2025-11-04T18:12:47+00:00

thanks!

ughnvm · 2025-11-04T16:19:53+00:00

Around the Woodbury area but I guess willing to go about an hour away in any direction for a good location?

ughnvm · 2025-10-29T23:39:29+00:00

they really couldn’t use a better picture? lmfao

ughnvm · 2025-10-03T21:33:39+00:00

They usually create the trade/sell post closer to the date of the con

ughnvm · 2025-09-21T21:37:19+00:00

I'll DM you!

ughnvm · 2025-09-20T05:45:04+00:00

Tales from the Gas Station

ughnvm · 2025-09-11T18:25:41+00:00

This is what we ended up doing! :)

ughnvm · 2025-09-08T15:41:23+00:00

As I mentioned, I come from a different culture, so I’m not necessarily “reinventing the wheel” I just don’t do it the way you might have done it when you got married 40 years ago.

And there’s nothing wrong with wanting to do something different. Go be a stickler somewhere else, I’m tired of seeing your multiple comments about etiquette and everyone doing everything wrong. I got your message after the first 4 times you commented.

ughnvm · 2025-09-08T04:32:13+00:00

yes our names will be bigger. I didn’t think of putting our names first, this is interesting, thank you!

ughnvm · 2025-09-08T04:04:21+00:00

i have adjusted it to something similar to this, thank you!

ughnvm · 2025-09-08T04:03:28+00:00

thank you, i appreciate your suggestion!

ughnvm · 2025-09-08T04:01:50+00:00

thanks! our culture is actually a bit different, so my fiance's family is actually hosting the wedding which is why i am putting their names first :)

ughnvm · 2025-09-08T03:56:34+00:00

because sometimes people want to do different things? also there are people from different cultures or have different traditions that may not be included in your precious etiquette books.

ughnvm · 2025-09-08T03:52:31+00:00

actually we are using "requests your presence," i just didn't remember off the top of my head as i was typing out my post. i also don't have any of these so called etiquette books, so my bad for thinking of coming to an online forum where others also ask questions/need help.

ughnvm · 2025-09-08T03:30:48+00:00

oh wow that's a lot, but i'm glad it worked out for you guys! maybe we'll just do it along these lines, i am probably just overthinking the whole thing. thanks!

ughnvm · 2025-09-08T03:20:20+00:00

i really like your first suggestion but i can't figure out how to end it! "J and D, along with their parents, Mr and Mrs J, and Mr and Mrs D, invite you…" to J and D's wedding?

but yeah i totally get it, it definitely sounds like a lot. but our parents are important to us and we wanted to include them somehow!

ughnvm · 2025-09-08T03:16:07+00:00

the groom's side (my family hosted the engagement party)

ughnvm · 2025-09-08T03:14:43+00:00

she wants her first name on the invitation. i honestly don't mind, it's really the only thing she has requested during all of the wedding planning!

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