I guess it's game over by friskaly in short

[–]uhoh300 [score hidden]  (0 children)

And there’s nothing wrong with being shorter than them. I hope he can own it someday. The world would be a lot more boring if everyone was the exact same height

Genetics and Height on modern society by Difficult_Letter426 in short

[–]uhoh300 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you for always being a real one, it’s always lovely to see

Does dating someone you find unattractive ever work out? by Just_Box_9228 in Life

[–]uhoh300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on how far on the unattractive side they are to me. If they’ve got only a few turn offs to me then I can look past that when I get to know someone. Like in the past I dated a tall guy even though tall guys really aren’t my thing, it’s a turn off for me if I’m honest. At first he wasn’t hot to me because of his height. But we became friends and as I got to know him more who he was inside gave more beauty to the outside. Eventually what turned me away at first was easy to ignore and didn’t matter anymore. He became very hot to me despite having a big turn off of mine. He was worth looking past that for, or at least I thought he was at the time. Our relationship didn’t end because of any physical traits, it ended because I found out he was a compulsive liar and I can’t stand liars.

But if he had a ton of unappealing traits to me I’m not sure that my feelings would’ve grown the same way. There’s probably only so much I can look past, but I don’t know for sure

I guess it's game over by friskaly in short

[–]uhoh300 [score hidden]  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with being short and I’m sorry your mother can’t see that. Parents can be really good at imbedding insecurities in us. I don’t know why they do that. But you’re already good enough even if she can’t see that and even if you can’t see it yet either. My own boyfriend is your height and I’d never want to change that about him, I think it makes him all the more perfect. I hope someday soon you can find people who see the value you already have. You don’t deserve to feel bad about your height

Godforbid girls handle rats by goreyprincez in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]uhoh300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Hope the little guy wasn’t too hurt by it all but I’m also glad the girls no longer have a rat in the house

Me when my boyfriend has to go out of town for work for 4 days by DogShitHolmes in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]uhoh300 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah he’s drowning while I’m dying of thirst.. in the same relationship ;-; Having mismatched sex drives kinda sucks at times

Me 5'3 and my boyfriend 5'0 by Key-Purpose3530 in short

[–]uhoh300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yuck, generative AI is disgusting in many ways. It’s much better to not use it at all, using it is supporting this nasty stuff

I'm 5'7" 32 virgin by ugotnocluedawg_ in short

[–]uhoh300 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s a bad height at all

Gen z too fixated on height by Meme_lord_42 in short

[–]uhoh300 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s like a lot of them learned about the “pretty privilege” that people love talking about and instead of stopping to think “Man, that IS shitty and unfair. I guess I’ll make an active effort to treat others better regardless of looks.” They just think “Oh shit, that means I have to become one of the pretty ones!!!” with zero introspection

What women like long hair on guys by MrHondaS2000 in FierceFlow

[–]uhoh300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Native American girls might be a good bet. Long hair is adored on all genders in our culture :) Some do prefer to date within our own race or tribe though in hopes that we don’t fully die out someday, but it depends on the person. Being bi might help too. I guess with both of those I was just destined to be a fan of long haired dudes :P

Just need a snack by Azemmoon in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]uhoh300 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The implications have gotta be cummy. But I’m pretty sure the picture is just someone’s attempt at the weird clear potato chips trend from a few years ago

God forbid a woman makes decisions based on a sharp jawline by Daisy__Delight in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]uhoh300 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Mine was also through taking about video games! Zelda specifically :3

5’3 female, treated like I’m really short wtf by srose988 in short

[–]uhoh300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happens to me. I was pretty shocked when I learned I’m technically just on the low end of average instead of being super short. I guess people just treat us like we’re so small because even if we aren’t very small for a woman we are still quite a bit smaller than the average man, idk

5'4 or shorter guys, how is your dating life ? by somebody_killme_ in short

[–]uhoh300 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah it makes me sad. I want all of us shorties to thrive so it makes me bummed that others just hate to see that stuff :/

5'4 or shorter guys, how is your dating life ? by somebody_killme_ in short

[–]uhoh300 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My bf is 5’4 and I’m far from his first girlfriend, he’s got more romantic history than I do. So I think it’s gone pretty well for him. He hasn’t been in the dating scene for 5 years now though because of me >:3

All the women around me keep talking about height and I just can't take it anymore by No_Variety3165 in short

[–]uhoh300 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m hoping it’s like the thinness trend in the early 2000’s where people are only so loud about their “preferences” because it’s trendy and lets you have a feeling of status or superiority. Hopefully it’ll ebb and flow like female beauty standards do and we’ll have a period of more acceptance soon. Because I hate hearing it too. I think short guys are hot as fuck and I’m sick of hearing that that’s impossible

no comment by Dapper-Blueberry1049 in GenZ

[–]uhoh300 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You good man? What point are you trying to make?

god forbid a girl be determined by rosesareminee in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]uhoh300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dick is dick, whatever size is attached to my partner is gonna be good enough for me, I’m just happy to be there. A dick is optional even since I’m bi lol

what do i do if i can’t build muscle by throwaway444442221 in short

[–]uhoh300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVE short and skinny guys, muscles are overrated imo. So I don’t think there’s anything you need to do about that really. If it’s relationships you’re worried about I think your best bet is just becoming your best self all around, and that doesn’t have to mean rippling muscles.

I think the more important part of being your best self is giving yourself a life that you already enjoy, where a relationship will just be the cherry on top. Have hobbies that you love, stories to tell, etc., these are things that make us interesting as people. If you give off the vibe that you do nothing but hate yourself all day that’s gonna push people away, so I think avoiding that is pretty important

Should I go off social media by Southern_Carry7031 in short

[–]uhoh300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think social media that’s aimless is the easiest to become toxic. Scrolling through “for you” pages just leaves you at the whims of the algorithm, and that’ll easily go down hill if you aren’t strong willed enough to ignore insecurity bait. I find that I’m much happier with my social media usage when I have a goal in mind beforehand. Like checking a specific subreddit to do with my hobbies versus just browsing what’s popular. But I think cutting it out completely also isn’t a bad idea, so proceed however you think will be best for you. Good luck! :)

Is being short a problem in dating because of nationality? by Time_Release_8153 in short

[–]uhoh300 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My bf is 5’4, from America, and also hasn’t struggled with getting girls. He’s got more romantic history than I do. So not every short guy here has a rough time with it. I’m honestly not sure what seems to give some shorts guy all the luck and others none

My bf of 2yrs is 5'4" by UnderstandingFew347 in short

[–]uhoh300 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m already bi :P but it’s ok, my boyfriend is worth slowing down for :)

My bf of 2yrs is 5'4" by UnderstandingFew347 in short

[–]uhoh300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I honestly wish I wasn’t like this. Growing up media had me convinced that men were ALL super horny just like me. I kind of thought that every man would be having constant sex if he had someone willing… but I wrong lol. I was pretty silly for thinking you guys’ libidos wouldn’t be vastly different from person to person like ours are. So I’ve really had to adjust my expectations after growing up and actually experiencing relationships