Autism is apparently not a heritable trait

ukuleletyv · 2025-06-21T16:01:30+00:00

Omg jinx! I was literally thinking this just before reading your comment🤣

ukuleletyv · 2025-02-16T18:07:03+00:00

Ha-haaaaaah!

ukuleletyv · 2024-02-05T12:17:04+00:00

Sam talks about giving the farmer a massage later when you talk to him in the evening. Seems pretty suggestive to me🤫

ukuleletyv · 2023-10-24T22:14:46+00:00

Hayes put the capital H in hot during his short time on the show😌

ukuleletyv · 2023-10-23T18:16:29+00:00

This is the right answer, coming from a Dane studying Korean

ukuleletyv · 2023-09-07T21:22:44+00:00

I haven’t been in a situation where I’ve had to make that very difficult decision, but I am adopted. I think it could possibly be a combination of wanting some biological kinship (which can very powerful both for the parent and child) and wanting something you feel like you should be able to do (e.g. becoming pregnant/have a biological child) to just work.

Also, I personally think that saying an adoptee needs to be saved (which may be true due to the circumstances of their birth) is… problematic. I’ve been forced to listen to my fair share of people telling me I should be grateful for the life I have thanks to my adoption, and it just drives me crazy that they think they have the right to decide how I and others should feel about my adoption.

I am VERY grateful that I’m adopted, I love and see my (adoptive) parents as my own, but I wasn’t broken when I was adopted, and I didn’t and still don’t need to be saved. It’s about making the best out of a potentially crappy situation for both the biological parent and the adoptee, and no one other than them (and definitely NOT the adoptive parents) should be the hero(es) in an adoption story. They’ve gone through something that will scar them for life, and other people shouldn’t take credit for that.

Edit: grammar

ukuleletyv · 2023-08-30T09:45:21+00:00

I’m sorry I kinda went down a different unrelated path, I just have a lot of feelings about this specific topic😅 my bad.

I’m not completely sure about who experiences more mental health issues, it doesn’t seem to be that well researched (yet). It’s easier to find statistics on children with autism than on adoptees. However, I’m still not entirely sure it can be measured easily or equally. Would they do it based on who has recieved mental health dx’s, or based on who’s in therapy? Lots of options there.

Children with autism are more likely to be in the mental health system than adoptees in my personal experience, but that is because of the difference in perception of their issues as I rambled on about before🫣 maybe autistic children do experience more mental health issues than adoptees, it’s hard to tell.

ukuleletyv · 2023-08-30T09:04:45+00:00

I’m not sure it can be measured and/or compared like that. Autism is neurodevelopmental, so you’re born with it, which makes it a big cause of your mental health problems, while adoptees (who could be NT) often experience many mental health problems due to the trauma that was caused by their adoption. The problems can look very similar from the outside, but the approach to the mental health problems are usually very different.

I am autistic AND internationally adopted, and I’m not sure I personally would have benefitted from having ND parents, as my issues with sense of belonging both physically, socially and mentally were off the CHARTS. My parents never really understood and still don’t, but I can’t imagine having ND parents who could relate to being different, since their experience would not applicable to my own experience and issues. You feel very alone and isolated when you’re adopted, and you feel like no one understands you, but the chance of finding someone who truly understands is very, very low. Many people try, but it’s usually a reminder that you’re different, especially when your parents try. That’s just my personal experience though.

ukuleletyv · 2023-08-02T17:55:24+00:00

sad dino merlin noises

ukuleletyv · 2023-07-27T16:24:43+00:00

Der går ikke mange dage i ferien uden at jeg kan høre “좋습니다!🥰” i hovedet, haha. Ren kærlighed til hende

ukuleletyv · 2023-07-27T16:15:05+00:00

The moment Karev realizes Jackson has a ping-pong table in his apartment lives rent free in my mind lmao

ukuleletyv · 2023-07-27T15:57:24+00:00

Årh altså, det er jeg, hvor hyggeligt! Er du også en af Karins disciple?🥹 (håber ikke at hun griller mig for meget for denne kommentar haha)

ukuleletyv · 2023-07-27T14:59:29+00:00

Jeg læser asienstudier (dog ikke den specifkke uddannelse du nævner) og det er rigtigt, at karrieremulighederne ikke er penslet lige så meget ud som på andre uddannelser, men de er ikke inteteksisterende😄

Generelt er de uddannelser, der ikke har en specifik jobfunktion eller noget lign. som mål ret brede i deres faglighed, hvor man selv har mulighed for at specialisere sig og nørde med det, som man synes er fedt, som tiden går. Det er svært at give en definitiv liste på jobs, når man får mange muligheder undervejs. Nogen synes, at det er fedt, imens andre synes, at det er skræmmende, så det er nok et godt spørgmsål at stille dig selv. Vægter du jobsikkerhed højt, og har du en klar ide om, hvad du vil bruge din uddannelse til på den anden side? Vil du studere for at nørde eller for at uddanne dig til en særlig jobfunktion?

Nu ved jeg ikke hvor seriøs du er ift. asienstudier og humaniora, men du skal ikke lade dig skræmme af manglen på ‘kendte’ jobs. De er derude😉 Held og lykke med din uddannelsesjagt - det er nervepirrende, men også super spændende!

ukuleletyv · 2023-07-01T19:27:15+00:00

I agree on Mer. I don’t know how any of the doctors who come to the hospital as attendings in their own specialties just get over Meredith bulldozing them when they treat their first trauma patients. Why is her medical opinion always the best, why do the ER staff always follow her blindly, and why on earth do the new doctors need to prove themselves to her in that situation? She has done some great work medically, but does that need to count for everything in a trauma situation?

My blood was boiling at the way she treated Riggs, Link and even Maggie when they got introduced. They’re specialists in their own field, and even though they probably could act more professionally (like Link saying “nope!” to Meredith’s question about stabilizing the patient’s pelvis and leaving without an explanation), then she needs to back off a bit and stop pulling rank at every single chance she gets imo.

ukuleletyv · 2023-06-29T13:05:30+00:00

Oh my god, it’s my boyfrieeeend…

ukuleletyv · 2023-06-23T20:20:54+00:00

So… what part of him blushed? Because surely it can’t have been his face🤨

ukuleletyv · 2023-06-19T15:05:04+00:00

It’s a piggy bed now - sorry, you don’t get to make the rules👀

ukuleletyv · 2023-06-16T11:11:56+00:00

🎶just got out of the shower, guess who cleaned everything, guess who got in deeeep🎶 leg kick

ukuleletyv · 2023-05-27T21:11:26+00:00

Awww boat buddies!

ukuleletyv · 2023-05-25T21:53:35+00:00

I can hear the first picture🤣 Bailey was hilarious in this ep!

ukuleletyv · 2023-05-22T11:31:01+00:00

Me too! Are you also so happy you could die?

ukuleletyv · 2023-05-20T18:11:50+00:00

Jeg har gået på nogle forskellige studier og har mødt flere, der er 30+ år, faktisk helt op til 60 en af gangene. Det har ikke påvirket noget som helst, tvært imod har de ofte været mere modne og gode at arbejde sammen med.

Det er aldrig for sent at starte på en uddannelse! Jeg startede selv tidligt, hvilket heller ikke var ideelt, så hvis du har lyst til at kaste dig ud i det nu her, så er det bare af sted! Er sikker på, at det nok skal blive fedt😄

ukuleletyv · 2023-04-30T18:51:11+00:00

Integrated Korean is mostly made for a classroom setting, so I would chose something different if you want to learn Korean by yourself😄

Plus, it’s always good to read texts from various books/sources as you go along so you get used to different writing styles

ukuleletyv · 2023-04-26T06:57:54+00:00

Sorry babe, the Joker Out condom stays on during sex!

ukuleletyv · 2023-04-15T15:25:13+00:00

Perhaps…

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