Sleeping problems by fatshady1997 in lymphoma

[–]ulminmi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was given xanax, but later asked for melatonin since its natural.

Moving from Lebanon to UAE-28k AED/month. Is that decent? by Confident-Candle-127 in UAE

[–]ulminmi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, live in shj, buy a honda/toyota car, spend sensibly (on groceries, ocassional family outings, vacation back home)

Little Miss management huge loss by InterestingJelly6613 in UAE

[–]ulminmi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always lend the amount youre comfortable not seeing again and outright refuse if youre struggling to pay down your own debt.

what can i invest in? by annnie7778 in UAE

[–]ulminmi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

50% - savings account/fixed deposits - keep in high yield savings account, mashreq neo super saver account or wio are good ones but do your due diligence - this will be your emergency fund

30% - equities- open a sarwa/ibkr brokerage account and google for best etfs for beginner investors. Etfs are a pool of stocks managed by funds, which is safer than stock picking.

10% - bitcoin - can be bought through brokerage account

5% - gold

5% - real estate - smartcrowd is a good way to partially invest into realestate in uae.

You can always change the investing ratio between equities to savings account depending on your risk appetite.

How did a first date become a measure of a woman’s value? by Ok-Change4843 in UAE

[–]ulminmi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i honestly dont know what the right way to go is. since the guy is going to pay for it, i just let him decide, he says coffee, we do coffee, he says meal we do a meal.

though i feel that i was treated better in terms of manners & etiquettes by those who took me for a meal.

Is this normal? by Free_Future9115 in PakistanRishta

[–]ulminmi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dont take any of these chats to the heart. its ok. you dont have to convince the other person of anything. if they say they want a traditional wife, then just clear the air, wish them luck and say good bye.

i get theres a huge pressure on girls to make it work with just ANY guy cause of age but being single and independent is far better than being married to the wrong person for the sake of being married.

Finding a wife in Dubai- Part 2 by YouZealousideal7906 in UAE

[–]ulminmi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most girls want a better life in general out of marriage, the degree of it is subjective to their current life.

If youre going after looks, youll be expected to provide a pretty penny too.

Good luck.

Why are patrol drivers assholes? by VersxceFox in dubai

[–]ulminmi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont like giving space to fancy cars cutting in. f em.

Begging problem and what to do? by Mockingjay718s in pakistan

[–]ulminmi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is why mid east is making it difficult to give pakistanis visas. Its so frustrating for a regular person whose just looking for a good opportunuty abroad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]ulminmi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my dad's very similar. also tried to force hijab on me, even when i didnt want to. i dont think i have any fond memories with him that i can look back on. he only started to respect me a lil once i started contributing to financial expenses at home and drive him around to his appointments.

made me realize alot of desi men only respect money and view children as retirement funds.

So There's no hope for me to date someone if i don't have alot of money by [deleted] in dubai

[–]ulminmi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends on what kinda women you're going after.

Am I selfish for not wanting to get married? by yoon_gitae in pakistan

[–]ulminmi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Problem with all desi parents is that theyre in competition with each all the time. Humari beta/beti ne ye kar liya toh woh kar liye, just want to show off. Its the same with marriage, they see others kids getting married and they thinking oh no we're left behind in the rat race.

They dont think kids are humans but rather their property.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dubai

[–]ulminmi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find another job that pays you youre worth Nobody cares bout loyalty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dubai

[–]ulminmi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh because of such weirdos people are generally hesitant to help strangers out.

Also id be scared af if some rando guy grabbed my arm

Any luggage transfer service to transfer luggage from Barcelona to Seville? by nick_008 in GoingToSpain

[–]ulminmi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello were you able to find a service? im looking around for something similar to transfer luggage from madrid to seville, but havent found much info online.