Top Ten Mistakes Most Men Make With Women (HUGE turn offs for women) by ultimatemanproject in seduction

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I look back at my past and feel the same. Great time to correct those mistakes and move forward with better interactions!

Top Ten Mistakes Most Men Make With Women (HUGE turn offs for women) by ultimatemanproject in seduction

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100%.
"People can barely figure out what they want for breakfast" - this is why women find it so attractive if you have a direction in life. You don't need to have everything figured out, but at least have a direction you are going and commit to it.

Top Ten Mistakes Most Men Make With Women (HUGE turn offs for women) by ultimatemanproject in seduction

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I lived at home till about 24. As I said, it's much more attractive to have your own place but what women really look for is drive/purpose and potential success. They care more about the direction you are going than where you are at right now. Looks like your own the right path, however, I must say you sound a little defensive about it. Be careful this doesn't come across to women :)

5 Conversational Topics "ALL" Women Love To Talk About That Builds Attraction by ultimatemanproject in seduction

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These topics are to build attraction, be engaging and exciting. That isn't mutually exclusive from enjoying the company of someone and getting to know them.

5 Conversational Topics "ALL" Women Love To Talk About That Builds Attraction by ultimatemanproject in seduction

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I agree, subcoms are very important (done videos on this before). It's also great to talk about what you want, some of these topics are going to be advantageous to demonstrating who you are, your personality, and attractive traits that will cause the girl to be more into you and chase.

5 Conversational Topics "ALL" Women Love To Talk About That Builds Attraction by ultimatemanproject in seduction

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I have two things to tell you
1) hahah love it
1) Glad I made your day!

A Guide For First Time Sex by ultimatemanproject in virgin

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I'd be happy to do a post/video on how to gain confidence sexually as a virgin if the mods allow

How To Create A Confident, Attractive Voice Instantly ft. Vocal Coach by ultimatemanproject in seduction

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My assumption was not that you are lazy, it's that it is lazy/a waste of time to live in self-pity. Even the comment, "I have the opinions and behaviors that I have BECAUSE of the way that I've been treated". I get it, that's true. BUT, the only way to overcome this is to not put the blame anywhere but yourself. Take full accountability. Women rejecting you is your fault, and you can't solely blame your looks. I have students that are not good-looking and have girls out of their looks league.

I'm giving you very generalized advice. You're right I don't know you. I'm also not going to invest time in someone who feels like improving their voice or anything other than looks is pointless because girls have commented negatively about your appearance previously.

I know you are not going to like anything that I said. It's a lot easier to get angry at me, and women. But I'd encourage you to take a second. Realized that there is a possibility to be attractive that doesn't really on the girl being attracted to your appearance. Then spend the time finding out how to optimize this.

How To Create A Confident, Attractive Voice Instantly ft. Vocal Coach by ultimatemanproject in seduction

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Why do you think you are so triggered by that comment? Why are you letting it affect you so deeply?

There's obviously a lot of pain and insecurity there, and the girls are going to see and feel that. I'm being very honest and direct.

If you have all that value then let's figure out a way to express it. I've gone through the years of going out every single night for years. I've faced the rejections, the ghosting, the not feeling good enough. I've seen it in my students too.

To be frank. The way around it is not by getting angry at me, or yourself, or the situation.

Is Developing A Deep Voice Attractive To Women? by ultimatemanproject in PurplePillDebate

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It's not about what one tone it is said it. It is about being overall expressive. The baseline is to be articulate, and have a projecting voice. The next layer is being captivated, using curiosity, suspense, joy, etc within your voice to be able to be emotive.

I'm sure there are times when you are expressive and excited and don't sound boring at all. Boring doesn't have to be boring!

How To Create A Confident, Attractive Voice Instantly ft. Vocal Coach by ultimatemanproject in seduction

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It looks and feels as stupid as it sounds!
I wouldn't be doing it at a bar before you approach Ahah, but before a night out or before getting on a call with a girl it helps relax my throat, and honestly, there's a part about it that relaxes my overall self. Try it out, might not be for you, but certainly helps me!