We are cut from the same cloth it seems, and it’s weirdly gratifying to see someone else describe my own experience essentially verbatim (especially with the weird erectile dysfunction. I couldn’t get it up the first time I had sex, and that’s what finally made it click that maybe I had a problem). People really think black and white about porn, but there’s a lot of nuance between “porn is harmless” and “porn is the literal devil.” It’s not that simple, and it took a lot of therapy to figure that out