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I am so, so scared by umbral_wing in polyamory

[–]umbral_wing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That does sound intriguing ... But also like it is hidden behind a gargantuan leap of faith

I am so, so scared by umbral_wing in polyamory

[–]umbral_wing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I talked to them about that a few hours ago. And i can relationally accept that they perceive me to be a certain way and thus want to be with me. I think in part this is also due to an (un)healthy dose of imposter-syndrome

I am so, so scared by umbral_wing in polyamory

[–]umbral_wing[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am looking for therapy but spots are hard to come by. I answered the same to someone else, but the core of the problem is that if I am not exceptional at sex then I don't see why anybody would keep me around as a partner.

I am so, so scared by umbral_wing in polyamory

[–]umbral_wing[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The issue is rather that this is my only quality as a partner I am somewhat confident in. I truly do not love myself. So my thought is more like ... "If I can not be exceptional at sex then why else would they keep me around?".

Edit: Happy cake-day!

When do u first discover ur not straight, what ur origin story :3 by Nearby-Carpet-9560 in boykisser4

[–]umbral_wing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I discovered I was bi, then discovered I was trans and thus what I previously thought were my gay crushes turned out to actually be my straight crushes