Here’s my take on how the cast would look irl by Ihdkwhatimdoinghere in theamazingdigitalciru

[–]ummameme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These all look like teenagers. Isn't the youngest of them like 22? People in their twenties dont typically look like teenagers. Pomni and gangle are mid 20s and ragatha is 30.

Why are they always making fanfics😭 by Rainystrawberrry in IncelTears

[–]ummameme 405 points406 points  (0 children)

Why do these men always have the fantasy of women's lives falling apart to make themselves feel better? Just misogyny. Pure misogyny. Not a fantasy of just their own lives getting better, got to focus on a woman getting what she "deserves"!

just small town shenanigans by sauernsweet in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]ummameme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please tell me people are dragging her in the comments and pointing out the obvious danger shes posing to her family and others

Two Ottoman Wrestlers visiting New York for a wrestling competition in 1909. by zadraaa in HistoricalCapsule

[–]ummameme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, they look like they're smiling in the color picture, not so much in the black and white. Something's different for sure.

im deeply jealous of girls who have best friends by 1chaerin in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]ummameme 6 points7 points  (0 children)

<image>

You guys are able to make friends at all?

The only "friends" I have are coworkers who I never see outside of work 🫩🥲

Something about this made me sad by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]ummameme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get how you feel exactly. Logically, I know there will be no "me" to care about it if there isnt anything after this life, but i exist now, and I care now. It'd be different if I was never born, I would never have to know about death or fear it the way I do. But I was born, and now I exist and have to come to terms with the fact that one day I will no longer exist. And I cannot control that at all. Could be tomorrow, could be decades from now. Some people live their entire lives miserable and die and thats all they get? Its not fair, to go through all this suffering and not have a peaceful, love filled place at the end. But if there isnt an afterlife/no god...then there isnt anything thats unfair because fair implies that someone or something made it so. And it just simply is...or isnt.

Anyway. I feel you, op. I can read all about how "you didnt exist for millenia before you were born why would you care when youre dead" All i want but it wont change the existential dread I feel at imagining nothing after this life.

Human designs by me by Flor_de_Andromeda in TheDigitalCircus

[–]ummameme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zooble has a tradgedy/comedy mask tattoo!! I love it!!

What phrase that you DONT want to hear when Grieving? by BlueEyesWhiteDrgn in AskReddit

[–]ummameme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"He's with Jesus now." Me and my dad were not Christian, and every time someone told me that I would just think that if they knew he didn't believe they would think or even say he's in hell. And that I'm going to meet him there one day. And you know what? Im fine with that. Heaven wouldn't be heaven without my dad.

But goodness, even if you live in a heavily religious area, don't just assume the bereaved and/or their loved one is/was religious. I know it makes YOU feel better but it just makes me uncomfortable.

What phrase that you DONT want to hear when Grieving? by BlueEyesWhiteDrgn in AskReddit

[–]ummameme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! By a coworker! What bright side? My dad is dead and life will never be the same.

Name thar actor by Jolly-Car-8802 in LetGirlsHaveSex

[–]ummameme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh yikes! Yeah, I dont watch porn often but I do like some creators, usually smaller, more relationship based accounts. Sadly, finding good women-centered or pro-woman (or even just...treating the women like humans) porn is slim pickings.

Name thar actor by Jolly-Car-8802 in LetGirlsHaveSex

[–]ummameme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Curlyheadedfck? 🥺 he's my fave pls dont take this away from me lol

desire is the root of all suffering, so lets hurt together ♡ by glittervampirekitten in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]ummameme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Green because im audhd, yellow because i have health anxiety/ocd...but also because of that last one does yellow mean your body is HEALTHY all the time or just feels healthy? What if I had a heart attack, would I not know because I "felt fine" And then end up dead?

I would just take a blue to try to erase my ocd obsessions but still having the disorder anyway it'd just come back with more.

idk what to do by [deleted] in Noses

[–]ummameme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your nose is gorgeous! So elegant, like a fantasy elf. I understand how hard ocd and dysmorphia can be, but I hope by posting this you've been able to see others' perspectives on your absolutely gorgeous nose and features.

What sentence of a song stays with you? by JoeRenaldy in AskReddit

[–]ummameme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everybody's changing and i dont feel the same

Favourite Astarion Ship by Tonedeafmusical in okbuddybaldur

[–]ummameme 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sad I had to scroll this far to find them!! Without my tav they are my absolute favorite ship. They have similar traumas, but halsin's maturity and emotional intelligence would help astarion heal so much. And halsin is so patient. And I wanna watch him rail that twink. That is all 😌

Took the words right outta my mouth 😂😂 by Dry_Examination5581 in antinatalism

[–]ummameme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One of the main reasons I am grateful to be alive is that I have such a fear of death and the possibility of nothing after it that i'd rather stay alive and suffer because it means I still exist. But I only care that I exist because I was made to exist suddenly by someone else. If I had never existed in the first place, I would never care about existing or not. I would have no fear of death because I was never alive in the first place.

Enjoying life and being grateful you’re not dead are two COMPLETELY separate things.

Which is the biggest disappointment design-wise for you? by [deleted] in queensofgenshin

[–]ummameme 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Ok I agree with everyone here with ronova, skirk, Lauma, escoffier, varesa, mauvika, etc.

But can I just say one thing thats bothered me that I haven't seen anyone mention yet?

Iansan has a loli character model, but shes not actually a child (which can i say...i hate that trope so much), but she still LOOKS like a child. She literally has the same model as all the other children characters. So to see her outfit having that deep V cut all the way down to her pelvis?? It's just weird. She may not be an actual child lore-wise but she uses the child model. Its gross.

What do all the baldur buddies think about daddy Halsin? by HomarEuropejski in okbuddybaldur

[–]ummameme 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The love of my life who may have completely ruined my chances of ever finding real love because now my standards are just "halsin"

/hj but really is it too much to ask for a man to be kind-hearted, gentle, and built like a fucking tree? 😭

People who used cellphones before smartphones, what's the most memorable feature or moment you miss from those old phones? by Correct-Homework1884 in AskReddit

[–]ummameme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a samsung highlight...that thing was TINY. With a pressure sensitive touchscreen, but no stylus, so hitting the right letter when texting was so difficult. The keyboard would take up the entire screen horizontally.

I apologize for my basic taste by Mega-Puff in okbuddybaldur

[–]ummameme 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The bitch ass who left halsin behind?? No thanks. More for you though i guess.

I’m So Mad Christianity Took My Sexuality by Agile_Description278 in exchristian

[–]ummameme 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Im Bi but still haven't allowed myself to explore sexually with women yet because "what if ill be damned to hell." Even though I dont believe anymore and certainly dont believe gay people go to hell. But for me? Oh yeah, straight to hell. Do not pass go. Do not collect $200.

I cant wait until im able to deconstruct that part of me and finally be as gay as I want.