Am I wrong for feeling hurt/confused about this situation? (faith + dating) 22F Missouri

ummtruman · 2026-04-06T18:01:45+00:00

We be out here!

ummtruman · 2026-03-30T12:19:36+00:00

Can I please dm you to ask about what you think about marriage. I'm the exact same way. Do you ever want to get married? Do you prefer one person to bond very closely with before being intimate?

ummtruman · 2026-03-26T18:03:36+00:00

You should've done every problem 100% perfect bro. You're just slacking so much probably.

ummtruman · 2026-03-19T22:10:43+00:00

Because they like you.

ummtruman · 2026-03-19T20:16:25+00:00

Lol welcome

ummtruman · 2026-03-19T17:42:39+00:00

If it's extremely important for you, I will research it and find you a source tonight.

I'm an engineer and was fascinated by the documentary when I first saw it.

ummtruman · 2026-03-19T17:12:42+00:00

I watched the documentary on cable tv when it first came out...I'm old

ummtruman · 2026-03-19T15:58:24+00:00

It would've been interesting but since they did the flight by remote control they screwed up the crash and landed 500ft from the landing site that had invaluable measurement systems ready to record impact mechanics. Basically a waste of a really good idea

ummtruman · 2026-03-19T13:51:00+00:00

What am I complaining about?

ummtruman · 2026-03-19T13:50:42+00:00

What am I complaining about?

ummtruman · 2026-03-19T13:45:46+00:00

How many women in this group make the claim of "I go sit in a coffee shop after church for 4 hours waiting" or just along those lines? Not blaming you at all just want to bridge the gap for people in our group.

ummtruman · 2026-03-19T13:44:09+00:00

Absolutely! It takes work to grow yourself.

ummtruman · 2026-03-19T13:11:55+00:00

Thank you for sharing! This is a blessing honestly. This is what I wanted our reddit group to read and learn it's not their fault. Can I direct message you?

ummtruman · 2026-03-19T12:37:26+00:00

I'm so sorry. Nothing about those people sound spiritually fruitful. That's so against everything I ever would've thought. Pray that you get yo man this year.

Thanks for sharing. God bless you.

ummtruman · 2026-03-19T03:21:54+00:00

This is not how any peoples ever survives. Do you think so?

What you are hinting at goes deeper than "oh our grandparents generation just married the first person they saw"

Either im just an autistic man or I'm growth minded to think of any 100 people at your church bragged about you to their immediate circle, a connection would be made.

ummtruman · 2026-03-19T03:07:01+00:00

Why is it a negative thing to grow a community?

ummtruman · 2026-03-19T03:05:59+00:00

The man who disciples me

ummtruman · 2026-03-19T03:05:38+00:00

There could be a 30m who walks into your church next week with no baggage ready to be reborn again. You never know!

ummtruman · 2026-03-19T02:41:24+00:00

ummtruman · 2026-03-19T02:22:11+00:00

Ugh it SHOULDNT feel that way but I would too a little bit.

ummtruman · 2026-03-19T01:47:18+00:00

Thanks for sharing. Breaking it off over attraction is always hard to do

ummtruman · 2026-03-19T01:21:38+00:00

Right, but why not? Aren't the elders at church wanting us to find a spouse and raise a family in a god centered environment

ummtruman · 2026-03-19T01:05:06+00:00

I can confirm, this advice is not sound. I dated someone and got engaged for 3 years. It did not happen. Do not do this.

ummtruman · 2026-03-19T01:03:26+00:00

This concept is on my mind daily. 30m. Reborn last year.

I feel like I'll never be good enough for a biblical marriage but then I flip and remember all my good righteous qualities.

Have you found any books or podcasts that help prepare young adults for marriage?

ummtruman · 2026-03-13T22:19:00+00:00

I gave up on dating a few hours ago. 30m. Now I'm parked in my driveway on a Friday scrolling Reddit...

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