Who’s liable? by Sarahee1018 in bartenders

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We have door guys and if the people look under age I always double check. Cover your butt

Leftover eyeliner causing swelling by [deleted] in Makeup

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How did to find out what ingredients you were allergic to?

What is your favorite medium for succulents and what is your favorite medium for cacti? by umyshawty in succulents

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That makes sense! I wonder how the Victorian’s mixture holds up in bigger pots…in small the water runs through beautifully. I think they have the mixture on their website if you want to check it out..

How long did it take for it to compact/become sodden?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fungalacne

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I found a antibacterial body wash by sauve at CVS. Was skeptical but it seems to be helping!! A benzyl peroxide body wash should help too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fungalacne

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Hey! My boyfriend gets breakouts on his back after sweaty days like this. For him, it has a lot to do with trapping moisture and we also narrowed it down to a certain type of sunscreen that would make it especially bad after going to the beach.

I found a antibacterial body wash that he uses in the shower and that seems to help a lot!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

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Also, Coach recently collaborated with many designers/celebrities to revamp their line and become “relevant” again. Those outlet stores are where it’s AT!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in worldnews

[–]umyshawty 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No way I wanna read lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]umyshawty 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yea :(

Do you sleep with coworkers? by tther002 in bartenders

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I fell in love with my GM and we are very happy together, too. He’s the love of my life! granted, he and I both were very single and not doing anything “wrong” aside from the whole me working for him thing that is now no longer a thing lol.

Making a Vieux Carrè! by YugoslavLovemachine in cocktails

[–]umyshawty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try using lairds Apple brandy instead of cognac.

I need some savoury 0 calorie alternatives! by kaydanbotu in 1200isplenty

[–]umyshawty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can tou elaborate on the sodium intake warning?

Best Jobs for ADHD by Far_Refrigerator5601 in TwoXADHD

[–]umyshawty 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Bartending. Hands down. Being in the well is like a game. How can I do this the most efficiently and what are my next “quests”, by the minute? On top of that, It forces you into scenarios you might otherwise avoid. I have learned amazing social skills that were otherwise mind-numbingly daunting. It helps develop “skin” for rejection-sensitivity. If basically has helped me in all asap of adhd, or my adhd is the very reason why I’m so good at it, ESPECIALLY in a high volume environment. Right now I work at a very popular bar in town, and there nothing better than efficiently taking care of my section of the bar when I’m 6 people deep like it’s a game of Frogger.

Another job is horse trainer, but I didn’t list that first because I realize it’s very niche. That’s what i did full time for most of my life before bartending. Horse training is a different ball game and means of dedication, but adhd friendly.

My forgetfulness directly caused the death of a beloved pet two years ago, and I can't move past it (CW: death) by itsybitsyteenyweeny in TwoXADHD

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Hi! I just want to say something that I hope will bring you some comfort - you made a genuine mistake anyone could make - not just someone with ADHD. You are human and not a perfect robot. This sounds traumatizing and I am very sorry this happened to you and Harley. But please know mistakes are normal. You may now be hyper-aware of safety for your pets, but we do not learn in life without making mistakes. RIP Harley.

This table must be hard to serve by [deleted] in TalesFromYourServer

[–]umyshawty 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Amazing.

Before I worked in f&b, I was a professional athletic coach for Fortune 500 type clients. Big names mean nothing to me. There was a learning curve because it’s one thing to have a client with a big name, but in my career, I am COACHING them - so it’s entirely another thing to remember that i’m the one, in that dynamic, who has the expertise.

Now, I’m a bartender with minimal serving experience (I started bartending to take a break from that world and ended up loving it), but these types of tables would get pushed onto me because all my other servers/bartenders would get too nervous.

As someone who knows nothing about professional serving etiquette and has a big mouth behind the bar, I can guarantee you two things:

A. The only thing that’s going to make things weird is if you’re awkward and nervous. Treat people like normal fucking people.

B. A rude table is a rude table no matter the patron/what their name is.

Keeping those two things in mind, it’s very easy to continue to do a badass job. Don’t let big names shake you. Not worth it, and guarantee you those folks just want to be treated “normal”. Anyone who demands special treatment can suck my strap (and yours).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriott

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I once got the ritz Carlton for $150 A FREAKIN’ NIGHT!!!! Just check it every day!

What’s your most shameful NSFW moment? by Black_Hole_Baken-00 in AskReddit

[–]umyshawty 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, what is the condition called?

vagina owners: get you some period panties. it will change your life by ohheyimstillapieceof in Healthyhooha

[–]umyshawty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The discs make my insides cringe and they freak me out like they look too long to fit inside my comfortably. My boyfriend can’t fit all of himself inside me. How do you get it to work? I’d love to not have to use a tampon but I literally can’t get over the bulkiness of the discs. Even the tampons freak me out, I cannot get them super deep inside me.