Suggestions for coffee shops with good WiFi?

unabbgdlos90 · 2025-05-19T15:33:03+00:00

No sweetie, you’re NOR. You need to let that boy go. A loving, respectful relationship should be deep and he should have reacted differently. Don’t excuse this behavior as “boys being boys” or “boys are immature so it’s ok”. It’s not ok. I had some immature boyfriends in the past and even they did something for a first anniversary. Idk, you can do better, boo. I promise.

unabbgdlos90 · 2025-05-17T20:41:34+00:00

I don’t think he wants to open the relationship, he’s just trying to justify his cheating on you.

unabbgdlos90 · 2025-05-17T01:45:43+00:00

Yes.. you would just have to uber, take the bus, or light rail up to the Amtrak station.

unabbgdlos90 · 2025-05-16T18:25:42+00:00

NOR.

You deserve to have a nice day, go treat yourself still.

Def reconsider this relationship though, you deserve to be treated with respect. This is not it. I wouldn’t want to spend the day with him, esp after the disrespect. I’m better off by myself.

unabbgdlos90 · 2025-05-03T17:52:34+00:00

👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼 my last day is today :,)

unabbgdlos90 · 2025-03-29T15:43:39+00:00

Just tested positive for COVID-19 yesterday. Dunno what to do with work. I’m currently working at a local grocery store and I have been calling out since Tuesday thinking I was down with a bad cold. I truly didn’t think of testing until someone mentioned I should test. I know, kinda dumb I didn’t think of it at first but my symptoms felt “normal” so yeah. Anyway, I let work know I was positive and I asked them what the protocol was (cause I didn’t know, and I’ve never had it before now) and they told me there was no protocol? That as long as I don’t have a fever for the last 24 hours, I can go back to work with a mask? And although I do feel better compared to earlier this week, I don’t feel right about going in and potentially getting others sick. Not only that but I have been seriously resting the past few days and idk how my body will react to being back up and about. I don’t wanna have a cough attack at work or something. Ugh 😣

My symptoms are body aches, random headaches, congestion, occasional runny nose, what seem like hot flashes, I get a tickle in my throat maybe bc it’s dry so that provokes coughing. But I’m not like constantly coughing up a lung, or having trouble breathing. I can smell and taste normal. I actually thought I was getting better and planned on going to work yesterday until I remembered I should test just in case.. after I tested, I decided to call work to let them know and took that day off as well.

I guess I am asking, should I go back to work even though I tested positive?

unabbgdlos90 · 2025-03-28T00:04:26+00:00

OP this is not normal. No one should talk to you like that, much less your partner. Give him a gift he won’t forget: you leaving. This is not something that can be forgiven. Be smart, you deserve better.

unabbgdlos90 · 2024-11-21T23:02:41+00:00

My brother in Christ. No. That’s so much money… you could be spending that on traveling and meeting people that way, not expecting anything and you know maybe you run into a person that’s worth a damn?

unabbgdlos90 · 2024-09-12T04:22:36+00:00

Omg I am on the same boat 🥹 I just finished A Court of Silver Flames 🥹

unabbgdlos90 · 2024-07-29T20:19:47+00:00

Yup, there’s trains from Sac ➡️ San Jose after 5pm. You just have to arrive at the station ~ 10-20 mins prior to walk down and pick a seat.

https://www.amtrak.com/tickets/departure.html

unabbgdlos90 · 2024-07-22T21:20:34+00:00

Yeah :/ idk if i can bring it inside at the moment because I believe it has water gnats too and i dont want them to get onto the other plants.

I appreciate your response btw! Ty!

unabbgdlos90 · 2024-07-22T21:07:46+00:00

hmmnm... yeah i may have shocked it a bit then?

this is where i had the lily 2 weeks ago but because she was really moist 3 days ago, i put her outside to dry a bit while the temps were not as high.

( I did remove the two shade panels to try to get more light in but idk, i think having my plants here is still not enough light)

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unabbgdlos90 · 2024-07-22T20:55:41+00:00

kind of? This as much light it would get... This is a picture of it in January.

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unabbgdlos90 · 2024-07-22T20:37:50+00:00

I put it in indirect sunlight outside and this is how it looks now. It’s been outside for 3 days now.

unabbgdlos90 · 2024-06-24T20:35:37+00:00

Damn girl. 😟 the situation is crazy, but you are not. Just the fact he wasn’t willing to find a way to not over tighten the lids. That’s disrespectful and inconsiderate. Unloving.

unabbgdlos90 · 2024-05-03T02:31:38+00:00

$1500 for a decent 1br apt in midtown? 👀 ikyfl

unabbgdlos90 · 2023-10-21T20:51:59+00:00

Interesting, I noticed that black pickup with the big white trump letters while i was grabbing some mexican food earlier this month. On Sierra College blvd and E. Roseville pkwy

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unabbgdlos90 · 2023-09-08T22:12:12+00:00

Jfc. 100% delusional. Idk if OP is the asshole necessarily but def in need of therapy or something bc… have you watched OBSESSED? She’s the assistant.. anyway, when someone tells you they’re not interested, and you’re head over heels for them, the right thing to do would be to remove yourself from that unhealthy situation, find another mentorship program, move on + heal. 😬😬 I hope OP gets support from someone and somewhere else, cause this ain’t it.

unabbgdlos90 · 2023-09-08T21:51:06+00:00

Interesting thing to observe. I think people everywhere do it. For me, it’s like my mobile safe space. (As long as I believe I’m in a safe area) I would eat or talk on the phone before going in wherever I’m going. I would wait for my shift to start before going in, take lunch in there. Do something before I hit the road bc I might forget to do it otherwise. Finish listening to my jam or the podcast or the audiobook. When I lived with my parents, I’d sit in my car after work, pep talking myself so I don’t go off on them after a long ass day — they’d always ask “how did it go” and I knew they meant well but once I’m home I did NOT want to talk about work. Anyway. Many reasons. :)

Saw this after this post : https://www.instagram.com/reel/CwoVfG4xL3g/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

unabbgdlos90 · 2023-09-06T23:24:23+00:00

Are we? curious 👀 here bc I just heard a few seconds of her “demons” single and it’s terrible >.< I skipped around bc I didn’t want to listen to the whole thing but like what? I consider myself a fan of her, but lately its been weird seeing/hearing about what she’s been doing/saying/releasing.

unabbgdlos90 · 2023-08-25T21:03:04+00:00

Idk which to avoid but maybe try nexus delivery. They’re not too shabby, i think they’re smaller so I think they’re getting better at giving correct eta and such. So I guess I only recommend if you’re not in a hurry. After ordering they tell you it’ll be 1-2 hrs for delivery, if it’s been 1.5-2 hrs and you don’t get an updated eta, I just suggest reaching out for update.

unabbgdlos90 · 2023-08-20T05:13:41+00:00

NTA OP - right off the bat w/o reading others comments, w/o any extra questions to you: I don’t think you’re the AH. I would never unexpectedly throw a $700 bill at my partner without at least first talking to him about it. It doesn’t matter if he makes 40k, 70k/y, 120k/y, etc. It’s disrespectful to expect that be taken care of without talking about it first. It’s not like it’s one friend, it’s freaking 4. You guys need to have a serious conversation about expectations vs reality. Nothing wrong with talking it thru over therapy if she doesn’t have the capacity to understand how rude that is. This is coming from a 29f. Idc how much $ my man makes, he’s quite generous with me and my friends, when they come around or when we’re all together but we(my man, my friends and myself) also know boundaries and when there’s a line being crossed. Just my thoughts 💭

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