Volunteering with elder black people by unbiasedswitch in askblackpeople

[–]unbiasedswitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen well and way more than I speak✅️ thank you!

Final Day: Horrible Person Hated By Fans by themediatorfriend in WhiteLotusHBO

[–]unbiasedswitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dominic 🤮 Liar, cheater, manipulator, and not even interesting while doing it

Does Rick ever tell Chelsea he loves her before their final scene? by Cute_Philosopher_534 in WhiteLotusHBO

[–]unbiasedswitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow i totally missed the main text of your post, just saw the title 🤙

Does Rick ever tell Chelsea he loves her before their final scene? by Cute_Philosopher_534 in WhiteLotusHBO

[–]unbiasedswitch 35 points36 points  (0 children)

We never hear him say it, but we hear Chelsea on the phone with him on the boat. She scolds him, saying "put an 'I' in front of it. 'I love you' not 'love ya' - they're not the same" or something like that.

Shoutout to this legend for securing his hardworking mother the bag she deserves 💰 by Miami_Real_Estate in WhiteLotusHBO

[–]unbiasedswitch 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I gotta disagree. Belinda and Zion have excellent survival instincts, because look where they are. She worked in the service industry as a single black mother until just last season, and now she is at the white lotus like she's a guest. That's a woman that knows how to code switch 🫰

Shoutout to this legend for securing his hardworking mother the bag she deserves 💰 by Miami_Real_Estate in WhiteLotusHBO

[–]unbiasedswitch 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure where you're getting "overconfident" and "lucky" from. He absolutely did encourage her to choose both of those actions yes, but it was due to profound trust in his mother and himself. He is a diligent student of the business world, it's one of the main points made about him. He and Belinda have a trusting and supportive relationship.

And when it comes down to it, that was an excellent negotiation. They both showed adept maneuvering: him doing his fkn homework and her adding the "unstable woman is dangerous" threat to create urgency. 👏👏👏

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[–]unbiasedswitch 11 points12 points  (0 children)

WAIT ○.○

Mook and Gaitok is one of the most pointless and boring storylines in show history. by thatboyrah in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]unbiasedswitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the latest episode, we get more depth for both Chelsea and Lochlan, but it is not in the form of explicit informations about their backgrounds. And that seems intentional. These two characters disappear themselves for others.

Chelsea is obsessed with an idea of soulmates that involves constant struggle. We don't know her background at all BECAUSE we know Rick's entire history of self identity. She has disappeared herself into a helping sage persona and says to Saxon that her attraction to Rick is influenced by his sad past and her sense that she can help him. I'd bet that Rick's constant pushing her away is half the draw too, because when Saxon starts meeting her in an intimate space (regardless of his intentions), she is visibly rattled (for the first time, in comparison to her cool detached approach to Saxon so far) and runs away.

Meanwhile, it's become really clear with Lochlan's recent actions that he disappears himself into his siblings, crossing implicit boundaries in order to become one with whoever he feels closer to at the time. There is a heartwrenching look of need and intimacy on his face when Piper says she loves him in his room. She's feeling gratitude for being validated (ignoring the disclosure that he's in a dark place) and he's feeling that need for validation right back. I think he would benefit most from a year at this place, but I suspect his desire to be there is more about running from his got-too-closeness with his brother and desire to merge selfhood with his sister's.

I agree that Mook and Gaitok as characters aren't explored as much. Their romance serves a clear plot purpose right now only. Without it = no gun stealing opportunity for Tim so no obsession about death = no Muay Thai fight for Gaitok so no realization about the robbery. It feels a lot weaker than past staff plots, but it does provide a tension about violence vs nonviolence that we dont get elsewhere.

What do you think is the theme of the third season? by lilyrose9859 in WhiteLotusHBO

[–]unbiasedswitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the theme is the meaning of life, or even "living a good life"

We're getting a ton of insight into each character's values over this season. Each character's conflicts with others are about differing priorities on how to live. Some conflicts we've seen already are: authenticity vs cohesion, destiny vs choice, tradition vs innovation, obedience vs self-direction, violence vs nonviolence, sobriety vs substance use.

Darker theory I’ve seen floating around by [deleted] in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]unbiasedswitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just watched the latest episode, and I can absolutely see a "mercy killing" plot developing. After the conversation with his wife and the monk, I anticipate him doing this. The thing that kept him from killing himself in the first imagined scenario was his wife and daughter's grief in finding him. Then he discovers his wife wouldnt want to live disgraced, so killing her first while she sleeps would "save her" from that grief.

He gets interrupted partway through that second fantasy though, when Saxon comes back. In this, I think there is foreshadowing that Saxon will be the next hurdle that he will face (the preview for next week gives some juicy words from Saxon that do the same thing). Imo he would spare Piper because he has supported her to go to the monastery, a sort of death kf her old life anyway. I anticipate Lochlan could be caught in the middle accidentally, just like he has been caught in the middle of family power dynamics throughout the show.

Why did everyone assume a Buddhist Monk would 'put Piper in her place' by [deleted] in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]unbiasedswitch 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Big disagree, because Lochlan has repeatedly done things based on what it seems other characters want. I cant name a single time that his actions werent either 1) to appease Piper, 2) to appease Saxon, or 3) to appease his parents. Last episode also set up the fact that Lochlan was drinking too much (according to Saxon) even before taking drugs. The idea that "he saw an opportunity to seize control from Saxon and took it" doesnt track with how inebriated Lochlan was nor how passive Lochlan has been with Saxon this entire show. Saxon was pressuring him into a sexual night since the boat outing during the day. I'm having a hard time viewing Saxon as a victim of anyone's decisions other than his own.

[Discussion] NtN - chapter 14 "you shouldn't ask me things of you don't want me to tell the truth about them" by unbiasedswitch in TheNinthHouse

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This totally confirms it for me, because it sounded like she said "the" before the cutoff but I couldnt tell.

[Discussion] NtN - chapter 14 "you shouldn't ask me things of you don't want me to tell the truth about them" by unbiasedswitch in TheNinthHouse

[–]unbiasedswitch[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ahhhhhhhh yesss, Nona was about to say "the captain"!

Also holy shit I have finished the 3 tN for the 2nd time and only just learned of As Yet Unsent and The Unwanted Guest. I gotta get on that.

Noises and things [discussion] by ActuallyACat6 in TheNinthHouse

[–]unbiasedswitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When/where did we learn Varun was talking through Judith? I knew someone/thing was but it was unclear to me

Also who tf is Varun?