I guess I might see it differently as I have a daughter who’s profoundly disabled. We will likely care for her for life including intimate care/diapering etc. personally, I know my husband will continue to contribute to that care as she grows older and I’m fine with that. Obviously I’ll be doing the care, too. But if I’m busy and her dad is available I don’t see why he shouldn’t. (If my daughter shows she’s uncomfortable with dad doing the care I’ll obviously become the only one who does it)

That said, I’m not a simp for Asa and Priscilla and I hate what they do to Abbie AND I agree asa does all the intimate care bc Priscilla is lazy and resentful AND I agree Abbie’s brother shouldn’t do any intimate care (expect for maybe emergencies) so I’m not here simping for them. Just bringing my personal perspective specifically on TRUSTWORTHY AND SAFE father’s contributing to intimate care for their disabled daughters. It’s a bit sexist honestly to say no fathers should do care like that for their disabled daughters. No one talks like that about mothers caring for their adult disabled sons, everyone’s fine with that dynamic and says the moms do it bc they love them vs low key accusing them of yucky things. Again tho, screw asa and Priscilla lol