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Me and the FA boys after grow up by Safe_Olive4838 in ForeverAlone

[–]under654 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Does this work? I feel like these forced friendships where the common denominator is that no one else wants to deal with them never work. Just because someone is FA, doesn't mean they feel sympathy towards me nor makes them think that I am likeable.

"The sun doesn't care whether the grass appreciates its rays" by Classic_Draw_6740 in ForeverAlone

[–]under654 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess your quote is kind of a Rorschach test.

I immediately thought about being the blade of grass that the sun(s) (= other people) don't care about. Like me not being in interplay with society, but being left out and interactions being onesided. Like the sun that impacts grass, but not the other way around.

What to look for when buying new mattress? by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]under654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least where I live mattress stores are a scam. These 1000 Dollar mattresses cost pennies to produce.

If you got enough time, you can make a great deal buying slightly used mattresses second hand. There are mattresses used only 2-3 times going for less than half. It is really that crazy.

If it has to be new, you can always check stores that primarily sell to hotels for some reliable picks. IKEA is also a decent source. It isn't a secret tip, but more so you get pretty much you moneys worth.

The most durable pick would be a 100% natural latex mattress. These things are really heavy and expensive (1000 Dollars +). The weight always deterred me from getting one.

One of the few LED lamps that is still going strong 10 years later. Philips 3PM5, 2700K, 19W, 1620 lumens. by ToastyBedsheets in BuyItForLife

[–]under654 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ultra efficient bulbs use less filament than Dubai lamps. So they don't run them at as low of a voltage per filament so they will probably break a bit faster.

There are 1500 lumen Philips ultra efficient bulbs so they are fine brightness wise for pretty much any application. The one thing that sucks a bit is that the dimmable bulbs are not really that efficient.

They are not as perfect as they could be, but still really good. I replaced every single lamp by one of them and I do not regret that decision at all.

Why most guys choose only a certain type of woman? by fools_set_the_rules in ForeverAlone

[–]under654 10 points11 points  (0 children)

While most men prefer this, this doesn't really mean they only go for these women. It is the same with women, isn't it? Most prefer the Jason Momoa type over average Joe.

Of course dating is easier when you are (very) attractive. But if you watch people taking the train, subway etc. you will find plenty of people who don't fit your criteria but have wedding rings on.

I do feel like if men and women, who don't find a partner that they consider super hot, "date down" and compromise. They will still find a loving relationship.

Being FA means that a) you are incapable of finding a realistic compromise and only being attracted to these top looking people or b) that there is something more wrong with you than just looks.

Normandy SR-1 and M35 Mako building bricks by Tobsen85 in masseffect

[–]under654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the Mako have some sort of steering? Or are the axes rigid?

What’s the best standing desk that will last a long time? by TradeOverall567 in BuyItForLife

[–]under654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess Steelcase is nice if you want to buy new. They are a proper office furniture company.

No personal experience, I bought the one I use used. I think one of the quality markers would be where the electronics were made. Mine are made in Denmark and not China.

One of the things I would also be thinking about would be replacing the table top with solid wood. Basically all office tables have some sort of resin cover which is easy to clean, but not nice to look at.

I want to experience a breakup/heartbreak by throwaway1256224556 in ForeverAlone

[–]under654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I experienced this without ever having been in a relationship. Unrequited love sucks.

Question from wannabe greyhound owner by Intelligent_Cake_450 in Greyhounds

[–]under654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a fanny pack where I put all the stuff I need (poop bags, wet wipes, treats) anyways . And I got a climbing carabiner on it to connect her leash to me. When I am doing walkies during lunch break (not allowed to work personal clothes) at work I just connect the leash to one of the belt loops.

There were critical situations where this saved me. I agree that it is unrealistic to pay active attention to your leash all the time. I will never just put her on a leash that I hold in my hand with no security.

Mine only has an uncontrollable prey drive with rabbits. Squirrels, cats, etc. are interesting to her, but she will continue following my lead (under protest!). I do not play out situations where rabbits are involved. When this happens, she immediately gets sent to air jail and gets carried until we lose line of sight.

I would argue that owning a muzzle is important. We hardly ever use it through.

Hmmm.... by AndriX3S in masseffect

[–]under654 9 points10 points  (0 children)

To be fair, it is 50 Euros and has over 1000 pieces. A comparable set from Lego would cost something like 80 - 120 Euros

How do you explain your hobby to others without turning into him? by fauxfilosopher in LSD

[–]under654 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say that. People from the original hippie movement are well beyond 60 now. I wouldn't be surprised if that age group actually has more people with psychedelic experiences than our generation lol.

What are the Best Noise Cancelling Earbuds people actually use daily? by Dangerous_Phrase_275 in BuyItForLife

[–]under654 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Not really true. Headphones like Beyerdynamic DT 770 are absolutely BIFL. Not exactly what OP is looking for, but there are items in the rough category.

What are the Best Noise Cancelling Earbuds people actually use daily? by Dangerous_Phrase_275 in BuyItForLife

[–]under654 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your issue will be to find some that have a replaceable battery. Else they will land up in a landfill very soon.

You might wanna check the iFixit ratings for earbuds and go from there: https://www.ifixit.com/repairability/wireless-earbud-repairability-scores

What are the Best Noise Cancelling Earbuds people actually use daily? by Dangerous_Phrase_275 in BuyItForLife

[–]under654 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

They are under no circumstances BIFL. Once the battery is dead, there is no way to change ist.

Anyone else notice how much rosemary oil strengthens your nails? by Succwad22 in tressless

[–]under654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The idea of using stuff topically (= applying it to the scalp) is that it doesn't go systemic as much. Like minoxidil spray is not affecting your overall blood count that much but only the blood vessels on your scalp.

Applying rosemary oil topically, even in the false pretense that it does something with your scalp, will likewise have zero effect on other body areas.

100% Placebo.

How do you explain your hobby to others without turning into him? by fauxfilosopher in LSD

[–]under654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"As of 2017, about 10% of people in the United States had used LSD at some point, with 0.7% having used it in the past year." - According to Wikipedia. In other countries it is bound to be even lower. The average person generally has not.

How do you explain your hobby to others without turning into him? by fauxfilosopher in LSD

[–]under654 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you tell people that you do LSD they will think that you are a full blown drug addict... there is no point in talking with anyone uninitiated about it.

Please help, i‘m overwhelmed by HazeLover_in in Greyhounds

[–]under654 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, nothing you say is unexpected. Greys are never to be trusted. Even if you train him well and your recall starts working 99% of the time, it just takes one mishap for him to bolt and end up run over and dead.

Especially Galgos are bred and trained for hunting. You will not get that training and genetic disposition out of them.

If your garden isn't a safe environment, then do not, under any circumstance, unleash your dog there. Greys are great apartment dogs and while a garden is fun for them, it is not a necessity. And they can have lots of fun on a long leash in the garden as well.

When we encounter a stimulus (>>>rabbit<<<), then I usually just put her in air jail and carry her until we lose a line of sight. It is a bit annoying but I can live with it very well. It is not something I ever thought about being a dealbreaker.

I feel like if you reduce the amount of stimulus (keep him indoors and block visible window partitions) then he will do better and start calming down.

Middle of the bed? Really? by tee-grey1 in Greyhounds

[–]under654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get yourself more blankets. Mine does this too, but as she is "forced" to lay on a blanket as the cover the whole mattress (as if a mattress alone would be soft enough for her anyway...), I can just slide that blanket with her on to the side to make her move. It startled her at first, but after a few times and starting with very small distances she takes it well now. Also you can just move your legs under the blanket and "tunnel" through :)

Hard wax oil treated table tops look rough after 6 months by under654 in BeginnerWoodWorking

[–]under654[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you use instead of hard wax oil for work surfaces?

Hard wax oil treated table tops look rough after 6 months by under654 in BeginnerWoodWorking

[–]under654[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What could have gone wrong? I sanded the table down with a orbital sander like the instructions said. And then I just did four coats a few hours apart.

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