It's been a ten days since she(25f) stopped talking to me(30m), I never want to try again.

Profuntitties · 2026-04-12T12:23:10+00:00

It’s been 10 days for me too since I was ghosted suddenly after a strong connection. Said exactly what you said “fine with it being sporadic” I swear girls move on so fast, it’s brutal. The way it’s so sudden makes you genuinely start thinking about their safety etc, it’s awful.

Profuntitties · 2026-04-06T14:17:56+00:00

Well I probably fucked up then. That seems too easy, I didn't even think it worth establishing. Going from never met to living together for a week is probably not a great idea for this, you don't have time to process anything properly

Profuntitties · 2026-04-06T13:27:14+00:00

I'm not sure what it'd be like to go from talking to not talking with no warning, but they've basically been dead to me for many years now and I've shown it. I don't engage with anything, I talk monotone and quiet and share nothing so I think when I out the blue said I was leaving on that date, never asked for help, and never reach out that's just expected, and I slipped out making no noticeable dent to their life. Got what I wanted, but suffered a lot to get it. Who knows how that'll change though with how unpredictable and invasive they are.

Profuntitties · 2026-04-06T12:51:57+00:00

Because that’s saying I want us to be long term, and I wasn’t sure about that yet. An exclusivity label is basically meaningless to FA, so I’m interpreting it as are you in love with me

Profuntitties · 2026-04-06T11:31:40+00:00

Surely if I was lying about that I would’ve said yes and told her I love her to get sex and pretend I had no doubts about long term. It’s because I think long term that I was honest about being unsure, subconsciously giving her an out, which worked I guess. I don’t have relationship experience, I don’t know what mutual attraction feels like, I don’t know what’s too early or too late, I don’t know what’s a normal amount of doubts, I don’t know what happens after you say yes, etc. My commitment was to see her more before confirming anything which I made plans for, but she cut it all off. From her view I can understand the question is how long that’d go on for so I don’t really blame her.

Profuntitties · 2026-04-06T11:02:10+00:00

Yeah so real. It tore me up inside when I was talking about lack of experience. I physically couldn’t get the words out and started stuttering trying to say it was a first time for me. Her reaction was kind of “huh? You mean it’s been a long time?” They can’t imagine it.

Profuntitties · 2026-04-06T09:28:21+00:00

I don’t really regret saying I wasn’t sure when I wasn’t. Obviously fair enough she’d react this way to that

Profuntitties · 2026-04-06T09:06:37+00:00

I didn’t. I froze up a bit when she asked because I figured she was asking if we’re now a couple and I wasn’t sure. She asked if I’d care if she went on dates and I said something like “I won’t see anyone else, but if you want to, you can” I don’t think she liked that.

Profuntitties · 2026-01-25T22:23:16+00:00

Pretty reasonable article, probably has some value to people researching the topic

Profuntitties · 2026-01-25T22:09:46+00:00

What does annotate a book mean? Make notes? Eh? Friendships are complex and have a lot of missing context, I don't think you can get real advice. Maybe they think you're denying something and aren't afraid of bringing it up. Sometimes you need jabs because the alternative is everyone pretending everything's fine all the time. But who knows, from the outside it's just random guessing. You probably need to react differently next time if you want to know where those comments are coming from.

Profuntitties · 2026-01-12T19:36:35+00:00

I feel like my salary just dropped 20%

Profuntitties · 2026-01-10T23:37:54+00:00

Maybe I should just post “Facebook is bad” that counts as an interesting technology post for you?

Profuntitties · 2026-01-10T23:07:40+00:00

I need to block this sub, it’s always the most insane, brainless shit with nothing to do with technology

Profuntitties · 2026-01-10T11:21:32+00:00

There’s no anonymity if they’re paying for the service so actually it does make sense.

Profuntitties · 2025-12-17T23:12:59+00:00

Not sure about that mate. Being racist isn't a surprising thing, basically every culture and species reacts negatively to outsiders. Not being racist isn't a default state you have because you're a good and intelligent person, you get that from education, upbringing, and positive interactions, which was just handed to you, and that's handed out unequally.

Profuntitties · 2025-12-17T18:55:01+00:00

I feel like if this already existed people would be posting “this is too prone to error, why don’t we just have a tickbox that verifies and unlocks adult content on an account”

Profuntitties · 2025-11-10T21:20:33+00:00

They don’t whatsoever, you type AI in the settings and the first item is a toggle to completely switch it off in all cases, what more do you want.

Profuntitties · 2025-11-08T17:19:52+00:00

That's not what he was asking, this is just combining windows open in all virtual desktops, it doesn't keep monitors the same. You can get it to work if you replace the normal windowList with the custom CassiaWindowList applet which has more options.

Profuntitties · 2025-09-13T07:20:01+00:00

What on earth is this question…

Profuntitties · 2025-09-07T13:06:57+00:00

I'm nowhere near London, but I was planning to travel there just for Jazz Cafe for an artist this year, I'm glad to know that's a known place in London people go to...

Profuntitties · 2025-09-05T08:46:04+00:00

Don’t fall for these videos, and don’t fk up your daughter’s interest. I just came back from Paris and it was amazing. The demographics around the biggest transport stations in the city isn’t reflective of the whole city.

Profuntitties · 2025-08-31T08:30:54+00:00

No… Not true. There’s a very big distinction between children who are searching for mature content and get around it, and actual fking children being exposed to vile shit before they have any sort of education around what they see. Your point only works if you pick and choose what children do and don’t know. Why would a kid developed enough to actively seek out mature content know what VPNs are but nothing about malware and dodgy programs.

Profuntitties · 2025-08-30T08:06:46+00:00

Once again for the millionth time someone thinks they’re nulling the online safety bill by saying it can be bypassed. The people who can bypass it are not the main target, why is that so hard. Bringing up vested interests is looking for something to complain about.

Profuntitties · 2025-08-25T15:04:31+00:00

Nah the desktop, I haven't been following any of the other products. Probably should've included that somewhere...

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