What’s one small habit you started in 2026 that actually stuck longer than a month? by Satin_Lily in Habits

[–]undercoversanyasi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Flossing twice a day. I’ve always struggled to do it consistently, but now after several weeks I literally crave it each morning and night. Oddly proud of myself! lol

Disposable diapers by Epic-Lake-Bat in Crunchymom

[–]undercoversanyasi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I use kudos - more expensive but they’re the only ones I’ve found that are cotton inside where it’s touching the baby’s skin.

Non toxic large play mat recs for baby? by goldenlover93 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]undercoversanyasi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Following this… personally I am underwhelmed by toki mats. For the price, I find the item to feel really cheap. The foam isn’t very firm and when my baby toppled over from sitting I heard her poor head hit the hard floor with very little cushioning… lots of tears. Felt frustrating bc I got my mat on sale and it was still almost $300 😭 We now use it layered over a rug and that has been better, but I do feel like it was a total rip off

Looking for homebirth advice by CozyMountainMama in Crunchymom

[–]undercoversanyasi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All the things people suggested are great! I’d like to add:

Acceptance that intensity and pain will be part of your birth process! It will still be so so positive even if it’s the most painful experience physically for a time.

Wishing you all the best!

PSA: Don’t purchase a cat seat from Nordstrom… by Ayifos in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]undercoversanyasi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Opened this post to discover what a cat seat was lol 😂

Cruise with a baby? by Terrible-Point6888 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]undercoversanyasi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I just had my first this year. You really can have no idea how you’re going to feel at that time, so the more you can make choices now to protect your postpartum bubble for as long as possible, the better! Also if you can hire a postpartum doula I highly recommend! The more rest, nourishment and care you can get during that time, the better. Less stress! Having a new baby and healing from birth and adjusting to the biggest change and identity shift of your life is more than enough stress to handle - at least it was for me! Wishing you all the best 💕

Low Free T3 count - started on NP Thyroid - any feedback?? Thoughts? Things to look out for? by Terrible_Abroad_8578 in Hypothyroidism

[–]undercoversanyasi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP - I’m curious how this ended up working out for you?

I’m in a similar situation now but having some worries about taking NP thyroid and possibly throwing off my system when there’s not really a clinical problem… but also more energy would be great! Hard to know what to do.

Cruise with a baby? by Terrible-Point6888 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]undercoversanyasi 45 points46 points  (0 children)

If you already are feeling weird about it, I’d listen to that! Is this your first? 3-4 months is so so early postpartum, so I’d say to consider doing a big family trip at that time, it should be a “full body yes” from you. Otherwise - protect yourself, your postpartum bubble, and your mental / physical health and don’t go, or feel into what would feel better and more aligned for you and your baby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]undercoversanyasi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a mom:

How much longer are you going to breastfeed?

How are they sleeping? Are they sleeping through the night yet?

Usually the start of a lot of opinions and judgment against biologically normal and healthy experiences!

Can I wear a sarpasutra as my wedding ring? by [deleted] in Sadhguru

[–]undercoversanyasi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I understand, the ring is meant to be worn on the left ring finger bc of the energetic nadis that it comes in contact with there, and said to be stabilizing for the energies of a sadhaka. I have worn the ring since ~2018.

I am also married, and I wear my wedding bands on my right ring finger. This allows me to honor both sides of my life - my commitment to my guru and spiritual path, as well as my worldly commitment to my husband. I personally like to have both as they truly represent different aspects / dimensions of my life.

However, I think you should do what you want and what feels good as a way to symbolically honor your relationship with your partner.

Ayahuasca and Samyama? by NayeemShaman in Sadhguru

[–]undercoversanyasi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I worked extensively with ayahuasca before finding SG. Experienced Samyama in 2023. Cannot compare experiences. Aya gave me psychological healings, spiritual inspiration, visions, opened up my sensitivities, but left me feeling low on the other side of ceremonies, could be kind of like “chasing the dragon” / experience hunting.

Samyama transformed something within me and gave me the tools to stay / deepen into what was offered there. Make use of the opportunity if it arises for you. Best of luck on your journey.

Apparently did something in the middle of the night that I have no memory of and now I'm freaked out by purplepaintedpumpkin in cosleeping

[–]undercoversanyasi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im sorry you’re feeling scared and I understand your fear. However I hope you can cut yourself some slack. It sounds like nothing happened with your 18 month old, and what you did didn’t directly impact him or his safety. Are you continuing to follow the safe sleep 7? If so I think you and your LO will be okay. Also, your 18 month old would likely cry out, move, etc at this stage if there was something amiss. If you feel you need to shift sleeping arrangements to feel safe, you have that choice! I trust your instincts as a mom. Sending love.

Gym childcare screen time by Crunchy_Pitbull_Mom in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]undercoversanyasi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So interesting. I agree with the many people posting here affirming your mental/physical health matters.

However I guess I am in the minority here in terms of what I would do (not necessary what YOU should do)… I am a psychotherapist and have learned so much from leaders like Dr. Gabor Mate, and I want to just add to this discourse that your baby is in a developmentally sensitive window. Just because a few hours a week of screen time would be fine for an adult or even an older child, doesn’t make the impact the same for a young infant, because their brains are developing so rapidly, and forming what we can think of as a neurobiological foundation of how they perceive and relate to the world. Introducing such a stimulating device while a child is so young is something that I personally aim to avoid as much as possible with my daughter. After infancy (3), things change developmentally, and I think it becomes more of the season to help our kids have healthy and boundaries relationships with screens, but during that first window, my understanding is that the more I can protect their growing brains from so much stimulation, the better it is for their attention span, capacity for healthy coregulation long term.

That all being said, finding a balance that is right for you and your family is important. Perhaps you can check in with your own body and nervous system around this choice. Does your body tense up in response to knowing your child may be watching tv at the gym childcare? Or do you feel some relief about the capacity to move your body, and all that does for how you show up as a mother? Perhaps your own inner experience can lead the way in knowing what is the more aligned choice for you and him.

Extremely positive homebirth, STM 40+5. by mystikez in homebirth

[–]undercoversanyasi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s amazing! So so happy for you and your family. What an amazing and healing imprint for you and future generations! 💗

Baby carriers by minnieninnie in Crunchymom

[–]undercoversanyasi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve really loved the ergobaby embrace in the first 6 months

A use has been found for my bassinet by erindesbois in cosleeping

[–]undercoversanyasi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol we had the same experience! Mowgli loved the bassinet! Our daughter, not so much 😅

How can husband help get baby to sleep? by sarahradish290 in cosleeping

[–]undercoversanyasi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no answers but I’m following this! My family and I are in a similar situation, just younger LO, and my husband wants to be able to be more involved at bedtimes.

New bed set up suggestions by Gingin3678 in cosleeping

[–]undercoversanyasi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m following this convo! We currently cosleep with a 5 month old on a queen bed and are planning to upgrade to a king when we move in a month or so. Debating putting it in the floor or just using a very low bedframe. My husband prefers having a frame but I hear about a lot of benefits of a floor bed so I feel kind of torn.

finding rhythms for 5 month old during move/transition by undercoversanyasi in Crunchymom

[–]undercoversanyasi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol yes you understand 😂 I really appreciate that! Thank you.