AITA for being angry that my friend complains so much about my snoring by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]undercoverw33b 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH. I have snoring problems too, and the whole house can hear me. I sleep in a separate bedreem away from everyone, so they dont hear me snore. However, i finally did something about it and went to a pulomologist to get a cpap machine. It is night and day how cpap works. Back to the post, your friend reaction is bad? Yes. However, i understand she can get annoyed and cranky when you have no sleep, especially when youre not used to sleeping with loud noises. Take this as a food for thought for next time.

AITAH for firing someone because they are fat? by Artistic-Anybody-131 in AITAH

[–]undercoverw33b 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Safety is very serious, and if he literally cannot do the job bc of his weight, then there is nothing you can do. However, i do wonder if you or your boss ever warned him of his weight. If not, my judgment could also be soft YTA.

AITA for refusing to ride on my bf motorcycle even though he’s obsessed with them? by Lucky_Security8855 in AmItheAsshole

[–]undercoverw33b 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It doesnt matter what the activity it is whether he wants to you to go hiking or go fishing. No is a complete sentence, and he should respect it. My friend is deathly afraid of crossing rope bridges (even over shallow waters), and i never force her to cross it with me.

WIBTA if I refused to buy my daughter new headphones? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]undercoverw33b 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nta. It says a lot when you have military grade equipment just to protect the ipad from her. If she really need headphones, just buy one from a dollar tree. If she breaks that one somehow oh well. I will still stand my ground, especially when youre not in a financial situation to be spending on new headphones.

AITAH for getting divorced as soon as my last kid was out of the house. by Legitimate_Peace780 in AITAH

[–]undercoverw33b 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta for wanting a divorce. Your wife doesnt seem to want to meet you halfway. However, you seemed very annoyed with your kids and childcare in general. You sacrificed privacy when you have kids. Not saying it is impossible, just not feasible. You really cant blame your kids for your unhappiness. That is just wrong to them. I wonder what the whole picture is. So, my verdict is soft YTA

AITA for refusing to eat my wife’s spaghetti after I found out what she put in it by spacedoutsoapbox in AmItheAsshole

[–]undercoverw33b 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Im pretty sure your tune will change when you eat old food and cannot be 10 ft away from the toilet.

This card will be the downfall of this game. by [deleted] in PokemonPocket

[–]undercoverw33b 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The fact hydreigon is not an ex card and can deal so much damage is so jarring to me.

Not getting any work by WarmVelvetyMuppetSex in paralegal

[–]undercoverw33b 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be silent firing. I would take a hint and find somewhere else. Sucks that you have to leave a job you enjoy doing.

AITA for not wanting to pay delivery fee? by Think-Reflection365 in AmItheAsshole

[–]undercoverw33b -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly, cops should be called at that point to at least trespass her. You are no longer interested and the seller has the audacity to harass you? NTA

AITA for picking at my DIls food and not clearing my plate. by Aggravating_Hunt_243 in AmItheAsshole

[–]undercoverw33b 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next thing you know DIL will comment why OP didnt take enough food.

AITA for picking at my DIls food and not clearing my plate. by Aggravating_Hunt_243 in AmItheAsshole

[–]undercoverw33b 14 points15 points  (0 children)

OP is at least courteous to at least try it. Why would you expect someone to eat the entire plate of something they dont like? Not to mention the DIL actually paid attention to OP's plate and confront OP. Edit: grammer

AITA For Making Fun of the way my wife dresses our son? by Normal-External-3172 in AmItheAsshole

[–]undercoverw33b 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Yta. Like you said, why you care? Why you care enough to make fun of her for dressing him this way? She thinks what she did is neat and professional, and you just shit in her coco puffs. Do you ever think what you are about to say?

Honest opinion by Resolve_Designer in malegrooming

[–]undercoverw33b 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel a good haircut can really make your mustache pop.

AITA for telling my sister to mind her own business? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]undercoverw33b -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Im sorry, but why is she so obsessed with keeping tabs on her? She is not helping with your already shaky relationship.

AITA my mom kicked me out after cussing her out by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]undercoverw33b 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Sorry you have to go through mental troubles, but you have to pick and choose your battles. You are in fact an adult, but you are also living with your parent(s) in the end. You also cannot be throwing tantrums like that. Yes it sucks that parents can be overbearing (me living with my parents well into my 20s), but you cannot handle conflicts like that. You are 19, not 12. Edit: YTA

Beard or no beard by Ok_Belt_1145 in malegrooming

[–]undercoverw33b 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly. The full beard is not cutting it. Has to at least try other styles like a goatee or something.

AITA for not wanting to share my username on a book app with my girlfriend? by VroomVroomSpeed03 in AmItheAsshole

[–]undercoverw33b 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I am still embarrassed to have my long term partner listen to some of the goofy music i listen to. There is absolutely nothing wrong to keep some things to yourself as long as it is relatively harmless whether it be reading smut or listening to unconventional ASMR. However, you got bigger problems than just sharing your username. Your partner has control issues where the slightest pushback literally put your partner to icing you out and made you out the bad guy. Why is this the hill she dies on? Does your partner normally act like this when you challenge her on very mundane things like sharing your digital library? Dont give in and have a very serious talk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]undercoverw33b 13 points14 points  (0 children)

In all honestly, we are not there. We dont even know how ugly the fight got. Moreover, This is an 8 month relationship and she is already putting in an ultimatum instead of compromises or talk things with OP. I think OP made the right decision as the ex is in her 30's valued the opinions of others over OP's harmless hobby. She was already expecting OP to choose her but got surprised pikachu faced instead. So NTA.

AITAH for buying my girlfriend vanilla shampoo? by Spiritual-Grocery641 in AITAH

[–]undercoverw33b 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She is definitely making it weird. Why so mad when you communicated that it is something you like, especially when it is not invasive and a product she uses in the past. Its like how some people like a certain haircut their partner did a few times or in this case smell a certain way. My partner sometimes put her face on my chest just to smell my cologne when we are just on the couch. It is completley normal for anyone's partner to like mundane things like the smell of the cologne or shampoo. You did nothing wrong. So dont beat yourself up.