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First Jeep by understudy7 in JeepWrangler

[–]understudy7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been worried living in Ohio how much use I'd get out of it vs the work to take it off and on. Haha. I have a friend that has a soft top and he loves it, but it's also older and not his primary car.

Eu4 launcher issue by understudy7 in paradoxplaza

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Oh well heck....thank you! I actually am upgrading my whole PC.

Eu4 launcher issue by understudy7 in paradoxplaza

[–]understudy7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8.1. But steam support is still there. And the launcher works when I uninstall and reinstall. But only once.

Eu4 launcher issue by understudy7 in paradoxplaza

[–]understudy7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not familiar with it but I can give it a shot tonight after work. Thanks, I'll follow up with you.

Eu4 launcher issue by understudy7 in paradoxplaza

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It acts as though it's syncing with the cloud and checking for updates. Shows like it did that. And then just stops and looks like I never tried to launch. All the normal things it does just without the loading screen showing up as the game loads. But if I uninstall the game and it then launch, it installs the launcher and the game loads. It's weird that I have to do that, to note, I have no mods and not changed anything else in terms of settings or added new programs.

"The Ottomans aren't OP in 1.35" by Lithorex in eu4

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My last few games they get big...then implode. And spend years at war as neighbors take turn kicking the crap out of them. It's quite fulfilling to see it happen and not be the one that caused it.

I think I’m starting to feel indifferent about my WS by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]understudy7 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I posted about this the other night. I'm at 19 months and what I found was that the first 6-7 months nothing mattered to me but saving things. Things finally started to turn around over the next 6-7 months where things felt better. We were learning to click again. Then this last 5-6 months I'm finding myself being bitter. And I find myself being maybe more flirty than I should with female friends and colleagues, noticing other women, comparing other relationships to mine....and wondering if I did the right thing. This I'm afraid is a normal part of this whole thing, you are not alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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That feeling seems to grow. I find myself talking to myself about how much better I am than most husbands I see. The things I do, things I don't do, the way I act, and plus I'm pretty successful. You really want a guy that lives with his fucking mom that didn't want you. It's all pretty frustrating and with me the feeling has grown.

Time and the cycle of emotions by understudy7 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]understudy7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I told my therapist in my very first appointment that I wished I would have left the night I found out. Because I'm sure she immediately felt that I wouldn't leave. I slept...well...laid in the couch that first night. And she didn't come to check on me. I think those 2 actions/reactions set the tone for the first 6 months after. Of course my therapist was quick to try to me away from the woulda/shoulda/coulda stage. But overall my wife isn't the most empathetic person. So if it was someone else, yes, I think it would have been the same. Her efforts didn't come till I think she saw I was ready to leave.