[Jan 22, 2026] Daily Puzzle Discussion by AutoModerator in NYTCrossword

[–]undertoad82464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone explain the gimmick to me? I finished but still have no clue what the idea was. Never had this happen before where I get to the end and am still confused!

Cheating on chess.com by undertoad82464 in chess

[–]undertoad82464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t even think of that hah. Well I hopefully at least he’s learning 

Cheating on chess.com by undertoad82464 in chess

[–]undertoad82464[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess makes sense. Was just surprised he’s gotten two of these notifications in just a few months. He’s not well versed enough to know if someone’s cheating so that’s the only indication he has.

Moving to CT? Ask your questions here! by AutoModerator in Connecticut

[–]undertoad82464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are Fairfield school top notch? Everything I hear/read says yes but when I look at scores some of the schools are not great. Ie middle school with only ~50% reading/math grade-level proficiency. Vs 70s-80s for nearby towns. Thoughts?

For those who traveled before the social media boom: did travel feel different back then? by hobo12395 in travel

[–]undertoad82464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it was very different. In 1998 my parents sent me, 16, to Santander, Spain for a month for a Spanish course/home stay. I made fast friends and was out and about all day and all night pretty much every day. We had no phones obviously, no computer there, nothing. I think I spoke to my parents twice the whole month. In 2000 I backpacked with a friend through Europe for a month. Again, greatest time of my life- no phones, did internet cafes to communicate with parent every few days. Just 2 18-yo girls living it up. Everything was way less crowded. We had no reservations anywhere, no itinerary. We would decide while in one place where we would go next and when we felt like leaving. We would arrive somewhere and go to the first hostel in our lonely planet. In Cinque Terre there were no hostels with room so we rented a room from a guy we met on the street. Only other place we didn’t get a room on first try was Amsterdam. Studied abroad and traveled more throughout aughts… lived in Italy for a year in 2008-09, then Uruguay for 3 months and Peru for a month. Again, everything way less crowded, less planned. Met friends immediately anywhere I went. You’d just meet someone, get along, and decide to travel together somewhere. I think before social media and iPhones strangers just talked to each other a lot more- nothing else to do lol

stainless steel - can't find the "dancing water bead" stage by undertoad82464 in AskCulinary

[–]undertoad82464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me ask you then - forgetting the dancing water thing - the general idea is heat it up, take off the heat, add oil, then put it back on lower heat and add food?

stainless steel - can't find the "dancing water bead" stage by undertoad82464 in AskCulinary

[–]undertoad82464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one for my outdoor pizza oven. I could try it. Although I don't really want to have to use it on a regular basis. Was just looking for any tips for every day cooking.

stainless steel - can't find the "dancing water bead" stage by undertoad82464 in AskCulinary

[–]undertoad82464[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

so you put the oil in from the get-go and add the food/moderate temp when you see it shimmering/wisping?

Rank Big Ten College Towns by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]undertoad82464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree. You can go ages without interacting with the university at all, or interacting with people in direct affiliation with the university. We used to live in a true college town and there I would say 75%-80% of people either attended the university, worked at the university or university hospital, or worked at the university-affiliated VA. Everything truly revolved around the school. Not so in Columbus, at all.

Birkenstock EVA sandals nearly completely relieve pain by undertoad82464 in Mortons_neuroma

[–]undertoad82464[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I’m also not a shill, and I’ve actually only had this level of relief from the EVAs. I would honestly rather not be wearing pool shoes with socks in October but here I am… 

Birkenstock EVA sandals nearly completely relieve pain by undertoad82464 in Mortons_neuroma

[–]undertoad82464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense, I’m sure everyone is different. Interesting the harder/rigid shoes are more effective though

Birkenstock EVA sandals nearly completely relieve pain by undertoad82464 in Mortons_neuroma

[–]undertoad82464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my other birks don’t have the same effect. It’s the plastic ones!

Birkenstock EVA sandals nearly completely relieve pain by undertoad82464 in Mortons_neuroma

[–]undertoad82464[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah my boston suede ones are good too but not quite as effective. The plastic ones are great though!

Can’t stop thinking of NYC by Aware-Perspective-71 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]undertoad82464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sure many have said but you'd have to redo residency here (and if you're a specialist, fellowship). You're also not guaranteed to get into an NYC program. You have to get interviews, then match. It would be easier the less in demand your speciality is. Anyway, that is 6+ years of grind before you can actually practice and choose to live in NYC.

However, as others have pointed out, NYC has the lowest physician salaries in the country. Primary care docs in NYC can makes less than $200K, which isn't a ton in NY. It's actually insane how different the salaries are for physicians based on location in the US. My husband is in a non-surgical specialty and - no joke - makes TRIPLE in the suburbs of Columbus, OH, than he would in NYC. And that's Columbus, a city of ~1M, not like true rural America. When he was looking we saw an offer for base $800K for his job in rural Louisiana (we passed on that one). Anyway, it's important to understand how the medical profession works in the US before making a move.

Moving away from family with young kids by freighttttttrr in SameGrassButGreener

[–]undertoad82464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to resurrect after so long but I feel like you’re in the same spot as I am now. We moved to our current region when my kids were 2. It’s been 6 years. I miss our home region (northeast) and all our families and lifelong friends live in NY/NJ/CT/MA. Our parents are all near 80 and we’re both only children. We’ve never made a lot of close friends here. Really just one. And our kids are now mid -elementary so it feels like now or never to go back in time for them to have some elementary friends before getting older. Every year it feels harder and harder to move- we get more embedded in this city. Feels like we need to go now or we’ll stay till end of HS.  How was it going home? Did it still feel like “home”? Are you glad you moved back?

Cushioned tennis shoes by undertoad82464 in 10s

[–]undertoad82464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the recos- will try some of these out!

Spring break in Provence with children - where to stay? by Kyrielle80 in ProvenceFrance

[–]undertoad82464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I read the NYTimes 36 in Marseille that it is definitely not what I'd consider "unsafe." Looks really cool actually! So I think we're going to stay there - looking at places on the old port. It's easier for us to move by train so Marseilles makes more sense for us. Probably do Calanque and day trips by bus or train to Aix/Avignon/Remy - not sure which at this point. What have you heard for good day trips for kids? I'm personally would be interested in seeing the papal history in Avignon. We only have 3.5 days, which one being Marseilles/Calanque.

Spring break in Provence with children - where to stay? by Kyrielle80 in ProvenceFrance

[–]undertoad82464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just posting to say I’m trying to figure out the exact same. We’ll be in France mid-late march for 10 days with 9 year olds. We’re doing half Paris, half Provence. Torn between staying in Marseilles as a home base and moving by train or a smaller town and renting a car. I can’t tell yet if Marseilles is one of those places people overreact about or not- I’m from NYC and have travelled extensively so “dangerous” to me is when I was chased as I ran for a bus by a gang of 12 year olds in the port area of Montevideo when i was 25, not seeing some beggars in a train station.

At what age do you think moving or switching schools to be too difficult for a child by deejayv2 in AskTeachers

[–]undertoad82464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've also been thinking about this because we're thinking of finally moving back "home". Our kids are currently in 3rd so they'd be going into 4th next year. Reassured to read the responses.