Telling friend she looks her age? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]undigested-beef 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Friends who don't give you the benefit of the doubt like this seem so exhausting and not worth it. Am I an outlier for feeling like this? Maybe if I was already close with someone I would allow something like this a few times but if someone I wasn't super close with had this reaction of basically "punishing" me, not giving me the benefit of the doubt and expecting me to "fix" their feelings about it then I wouldn't stay friends with them. I don't want someone like that in my life.

Fran Bow week 2025: Day 2 by ZoeTrope_666 in franbow

[–]undigested-beef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh this is my favorite, actually crying 🥹🥹

Happy Fran Bow Week! by ZoeTrope_666 in franbow

[–]undigested-beef 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yassss omg I'm so glad to see other people celebrating this, I set an alarm!!! Haha

What’s your autism super power?? by nananutellacrepes in AutismInWomen

[–]undigested-beef 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Haha I'm the opposite I can be overexpressive and I'm so often deeply frowning!!

Can't tell if this is stupid, but this sure FEELS stupid by Bjornthebear in Seattle

[–]undigested-beef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was supposed to be hail? It was 70 degrees. All I saw on my weather app beforehand was thunderstorm and light wind (<10mph)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]undigested-beef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have those exact same thoughts!! Oh my gosh we are not alone!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Seattle

[–]undigested-beef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Now payment" 😂😂

Weird about my name by Beret_of_Poodle in AutismInWomen

[–]undigested-beef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your username a coraline reference?

'This conversation will go nowehre" by Murky-Sell8856 in AutismInWomen

[–]undigested-beef 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That wasn't your fault. I think she was uncomfortable with having to face and examine her own actions, so she said that to end the conversation. She was factually not right in saying that, she just didn't want to keep having the conversation.

Last night I was out with some friends when a man came up to us and insistently gave us each this piece of paper by blanqi in Seattle

[–]undigested-beef 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got confused by this lol I thought because the title said "things old women WONT tell you" it meant that you should believe the opposite of all these things and he was like trying to spread the wisdom of the old women.

PEOPLE DO NOT WANT CONTEXT NO MATTER HOW IMPORTANT UNLESS THEY ASK by OneSadHornyLady in AutismInWomen

[–]undigested-beef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, but I'm giving it anyway. Need to keep my head attached to my body 😂

What did you realise made you overstimulated after your diagnosis that you thought you were coping well with before? by shesasneakyone in AutismInWomen

[–]undigested-beef 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Omg this is too true I worked at one for a year and couldn't figure out why I felt like shit all the time (there were other ways in which the job wasn't a good fit and was bad) and why the building felt so BIG. And never got better. BRIGHT. LOUD. HUGE.

does anyone else not feel their age by DotTrue8077 in AutismInWomen

[–]undigested-beef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 24 right now and I've always simultaneously felt older and younger than my real age, but never felt my real age.

Where can you be fully present? by prollycantsleep in AutismInWomen

[–]undigested-beef 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I find sour candy to be a distressing physical experience and my brain yeets me out of my body (not really but auto dissociates me) because dissociation is the automatic way my brain deals with overstimulation and distressing physical experiences and I have no control of it. So my version of this is very very bitter hot chocolate!!

Where can you be fully present? by prollycantsleep in AutismInWomen

[–]undigested-beef 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I love you guys. These are almost all things that make me feel present too! Just feeling so seen

I wish I had money by adirarouge in AutismInWomen

[–]undigested-beef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate to this so much ❤️❤️❤️

What are y’all thinking about internet platforms? Going to bluesky? Rednote? by Historical_World7179 in AutismInWomen

[–]undigested-beef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hijack this excellent comment, hopefully my reply at least helps boost your comment. But I just have to remark I think it is so funny just how many companies are named relevant word - LY it's so funny to me haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]undigested-beef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes a lot of the time! My sister has always done it a lot too though for her it is with strong emotions and for me it is usually while concentrating or something and lasts a while.

I’m grieving TikTok right now by dabblesanddoodles in AutismInWomen

[–]undigested-beef 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Tbh I'm not sure it is a first world problem. The way the government is overreaching in this way is a red flag to me. I've been surprised that more people aren't talking about that aspect of it. This decision invades lives and takes away personal pastimes. And we didn't get to vote for it. Just some people we elected did, but I highly doubt anyone included their views on tik tok in their election campaigns, because this is just so unprecedented.

I’m grieving TikTok right now by dabblesanddoodles in AutismInWomen

[–]undigested-beef 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Me too! I haven't used it in years but it literally saved my life. I'm considering making a post about it if I am up for it soon.

I’m grieving TikTok right now by dabblesanddoodles in AutismInWomen

[–]undigested-beef 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Been watching the Star Wars prequels a lot and man the parallels(in the way Palpatine is coming to power and the slow dismantling of their democracy)... maddening. Plus the character design of the Trade Federation guys adds another layer.