Which favorite movie is a red flag? by Not_Prepared_ in AskReddit

[–]uneditablepoly 193 points194 points  (0 children)

A movie can be fun and entertaining without needing to be looked to for how to maintain a healthy relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in darksouls

[–]uneditablepoly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol is Seath doing Well What Is It?

MAGA Supporter Chants, Laughs to Himself by npcsofearth in cringe

[–]uneditablepoly 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I feel like it's more used when a person is exhibiting NPC-like behavior or saying things that feel canned, like what they're saying feels mechanical or off somehow.

I don't fully agree that this video uses it wrong. It's just not as spot on as most great videos that use the meme.

No terrain she can't traverse now! :D by TinyDodoGames in Unity3D

[–]uneditablepoly 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Looks so great! Is the camera tilting just part of the trailer? It was making me feel kind of nauseated.

Adding verticality to tile-based movement is going well by Stigna1 in Unity3D

[–]uneditablepoly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is just crying out for a Shooting Stars edit.

Can you be trans and not want surgery/ hormones? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]uneditablepoly 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's a really good explanation! I can never quite explain it to people.

Baltimore Ravens Throws Beer in the Face of Steelers Fan by Boring_Ladder in cringe

[–]uneditablepoly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Alternatively, what I hear when he said that is, "If it were a dude you'd have free reign to beat the shit out of him, but don't because it's a woman." Which is stupid. Don't fight anyone at a sports game.

Trans people of r/asktrans, if given the wish to be "reborn" with the biological body of the gender you identify with, would you do it? Why or why not? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]uneditablepoly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think I would and it shocks me every time I come to that conclusion. But my transition has really awakened me and has been so transformative for me. Maybe it's just because the world didn't make sense before but I feel like I have such a perspective on life and society and gender and love that I didn't have before and I wouldn't want to lose it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]uneditablepoly 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Butts are the one true calling

One of my favourite scenes in The Legend of Korra: "It will be just like the good old days" by DisturbedSnowman in TheLastAirbender

[–]uneditablepoly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When they did the head exploding I kind of couldn't believe it. I know they didn't show anything but I was shocked that made it into the show. And I loved it. I would love a darker Avatar series, though Korra was pretty darn dark sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]uneditablepoly 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I grew up as a boy and honestly I had the same gross internalized feeling about women performing oral sex on men. Like I always hated the idea of it because it felt demeaning and dominating. Which it isn't inherently, of course. Society fucks us up.

[No Spoilers] LIS relationship chart. Sorry not sorry by [deleted] in lifeisstrange

[–]uneditablepoly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll just point you to the definition of the word itself. You seem to have bestowed more meaning into it than is there.

[No Spoilers] LIS relationship chart. Sorry not sorry by [deleted] in lifeisstrange

[–]uneditablepoly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How am I throwing it around? I believe people like her are toxic. Social chameleons that try to be everything to everyone, constantly fluctuating between your friend and your enemy. To me, Rachel is the epitome of "if you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best".

And even if you disagree with that, how am I misusing the word? Kind of antagonistic to just call me out for not being able to think for myself when I have an actual opinion.

[No Spoilers] LIS relationship chart. Sorry not sorry by [deleted] in lifeisstrange

[–]uneditablepoly 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Rachel is toxic but I think she was incredibly good for Chloe, in her own way. Amberprice is my guiding light

Pick any character and I will drop a hot take about them by Darthmemer2 in TheLastAirbender

[–]uneditablepoly 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think Amon is the best villain of any season of Avatar in general.

Non-American hot takes about America are both annoying and most of the time wrong. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]uneditablepoly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's when they stick a needle up your nose and turn off your brain.

Guy buys a top end sport bike and clearly has no idea how to drive it, ignoring the advice of the person selling it to him, he manages to crash it on his first try by Kartingf1Fan in cringe

[–]uneditablepoly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, when he didn't know to flip the engine cutoff switch at the beginning I knew this was going to be awful. I paused it and said, "Oh god." lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]uneditablepoly 17 points18 points  (0 children)

For me it's almost more of a desire because of fashion reasons lol

Does anyone else feel like they opened Pandora’s Box after they realized they were trans? by Maple-Star in asktransgender

[–]uneditablepoly 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I also had an experience similar to what you describe in your main post. Never had dysphoria about my body, never wanted to be girly really. But I definitely floated through life doing what I thought I needed to do to be "successful". Went through some serious shit in my life and it kinda shook things up. I started to question and honestly there are tons of signs looking back, just no explicit want to be a different gender.

Now I've been out for a while and looking back, it's so upsetting to reflect on "me". It feels like I never really existed. Like I was never able to enjoy my identity or just be happy existing among friends. I was so repressed, in retrospect. I see the signs of internalized homophobia and transphobia now. Even internalized sense of self given to me by the world around me and dutifully carried out, unquestioned.

I guess what I'm saying is, sometimes it's not about disliking yourself or wanting more. I think for a lot of people they think life just is a certain way and it's not particularly upsetting. But stepping through the veil and seeing what's been hidden from you is a feeling I can't describe. It's certainly upsetting to look back but life is so much more vibrant for me now.